Fear of venous leakage.

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Fear of venous leakage.

Postby rjnsingh98@gmail.com » Wed Apr 10, 2024 7:57 am

Hi All, I am new to this group, looking for symptoms of venous leakage. I am very afraid of venous leakage. I am not able to sleep. My story is that I had performance anxiety and one day I couldn’t perform, I came home and then checked myself masturbating, I was able to masturbate. However I got very afraid. Then I read somewhere about venous leakage. Now I am afraid that If I go for long foreplay, my erection will go down. Max I am
Able to have foreplay for around 8 mins. And I can have penetration sex without any fear. Max I can go for 15 mins of penetration sex. I don’t use any pills. Can I have venous leakage? Or it’s just my performance anxiety? Is there anyone who can have foreplay for 8 mins without any daily pill? I am very afraid of this venous leakage, can anyone please help me.

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Re: Fear of venous leakage.

Postby Bambino09 » Wed Apr 10, 2024 11:52 am

No tienes fuga venosa, las personas con fuga venosa ni alcanzan a tener ereccion que la pierden.

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Re: Fear of venous leakage.

Postby Never_Enough » Wed Apr 10, 2024 2:36 pm

You posted this yesterday, i and others replied... What happened to the post?
38 m UK

Psychogenic ED since a teenager, no problems being fully erect alone.
2 kids, long term partner but also a new relationship.
Chronic pelvic pain developed in late 2023 making ED worse.
Extreme stress levels
Cialis 5 mg daily and 15 mg as prn

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Re: Fear of venous leakage.

Postby Never_Enough » Wed Apr 10, 2024 2:52 pm

The post is still there.

If you can have sex for 8 minutes you don't have VL.

It's that simple.

Whilst VL is complex and on a spectrum, most with VL cannot stay hard for longer than a minute and lose their erection even with physical stimulation.

VL is comparatively rare, it's certainly. Not the first thing you would jump to even if you did lose your erection faster.

The most common reason is psycological, causing blood flow to decrease and outflow to increase.

In a way this mimics VL without being of physical origin.

Like I also said when you read online, even on a good place like this you are getting a very biased section of the world.

Anyone on here either has ED or thinks they have it, and are concerned enough to consider all sorts of treatments especially implants. Most are or were far more sexually active and demanding than the average person.

I've learnt this from my time here that whilst the members here provide very good advice on implants and treatments, they may also create a false sense of what is expected or average in society, because to most with mild or moderate ED their partners don't mind and it's enough for them so they never need to come online. Some on here are part of the swinging community so sex and keeping longer better erections is more important to their way of life.

It's not the norm in society to need to last half hour or more having pounding sex 3 or 4 times a day. It's not even what the majority of women want. Quite the opposite.

It's normal to not always get morning wood and random erections during the day, especially as you age.

It's normal to lose your erection sometimes.

The problem here is you are judging yourself unfairly, thinking you have a condition that you almost certainly don't have.

And if you really do need peace of mind, go get a doppler test done from the andrologist.
38 m UK

Psychogenic ED since a teenager, no problems being fully erect alone.
2 kids, long term partner but also a new relationship.
Chronic pelvic pain developed in late 2023 making ED worse.
Extreme stress levels
Cialis 5 mg daily and 15 mg as prn

rjnsingh98@gmail.com
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Re: Fear of venous leakage.

Postby rjnsingh98@gmail.com » Thu Apr 11, 2024 3:58 am

Bambino09 wrote:No tienes fuga venosa, las personas con fuga venosa ni alcanzan a tener ereccion que la pierden.


Yes I checked your profile, you got EDV around, so is that VL ? What is your diagnosis?

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Re: Fear of venous leakage.

Postby rjnsingh98@gmail.com » Thu Apr 11, 2024 4:08 am

Never_Enough wrote:The post is still there.

If you can have sex for 8 minutes you don't have VL.

It's that simple.

Whilst VL is complex and on a spectrum, most with VL cannot stay hard for longer than a minute and lose their erection even with physical stimulation.

VL is comparatively rare, it's certainly. Not the first thing you would jump to even if you did lose your erection faster.

The most common reason is psycological, causing blood flow to decrease and outflow to increase.

In a way this mimics VL without being of physical origin.

Like I also said when you read online, even on a good place like this you are getting a very biased section of the world.

Anyone on here either has ED or thinks they have it, and are concerned enough to consider all sorts of treatments especially implants. Most are or were far more sexually active and demanding than the average person.

I've learnt this from my time here that whilst the members here provide very good advice on implants and treatments, they may also create a false sense of what is expected or average in society, because to most with mild or moderate ED their partners don't mind and it's enough for them so they never need to come online. Some on here are part of the swinging community so sex and keeping longer better erections is more important to their way of life.

It's not the norm in society to need to last half hour or more having pounding sex 3 or 4 times a day. It's not even what the majority of women want. Quite the opposite.

It's normal to not always get morning wood and random erections during the day, especially as you age.

It's normal to lose your erection sometimes.

The problem here is you are judging yourself unfairly, thinking you have a condition that you almost certainly don't have.

And if you really do need peace of mind, go get a doppler test done from the andrologist.



Thanks for your response bro, yes I totally understand what your are saying. And I don’t understand I read about many people here, just in a day they seem to got VL, which is not possible, they usually develop Pychogenic Ed, and they go for testing, which is not reliable, and they get VL. And urologists are not caring at all. Only 5 research papers are published for VL, and research is limited, this limited research is destroying life of young people. And there was study in which they did doppler on normal functioning people, many people out of those, got VL in the test. So doctors don’t even accurately know what is the normal edv range. Even with a change of emotion, leak can happen. So that’s why I don’t want to go for testing also.


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