If you can get morning woods, hard with porn, masturbation and alone, you dont need an implant

[Rufian]

Its possible you may have a small physical factor but chances are performance anxiety, the fact viagra no longer works doesnt mean much, your body got used to it, or maybe your psychological issues have gotten worse especially the fear of failing in bed

Viagra requires arousal which can be affected by mental health

In this case injections are the best option as it will produce a hardon regardless of how your mind feels

Why would anyone who still gets hard erections alone and morning woods get an implant? Makes no sense

Im 39 and still get hard ons when i wake up almost everyday, when i watch porn or just masturbate to thoughts i get hard, sometimes better than others but i always get hard otherwise i wouldn’t be able to fap everyday sometimes even twice a day

So why would i need an implant

The problem is not physical but even if there is a physical factor it must be small otherwise I wouldn’t be able to get hard

I have trouble with ladies because of anxiety, depression, mental health, a lack of relationships over the years, fear of failure, etc etc

When youre alone is just you, no one to judge you or dissapoint, youre relaxed and not anxious, fear of failure is not consuming you as is just you

I go to a therapist but this can only help so much it cant undo decades if negative self talk and negative experiences

Viagra can help but is not going to change your brain

Maybe if I couldn’t get hard at all it would make sense to get an implant by literally outside sex my dick works fine, morning woods almost everyday

I can get hard quickly with porn and masturbation

[Bigdave]

If you don't want an implant, DON'T GET ONE.
I don't understand your crusade.
Why do you keep posting on a forum for those who need or want an implant, if you're not looking into getting one yourself?
Different people are just that, DIFFERENT! Smh

[bldoink]

Why do you keep posting on a forum for those who need or want an implant, if you're not looking into getting one yourself?

Oh, this forum is just for guys that want or need an implant. I didn't realize that. Thanks for letting me know.

[Lost Sheep]

Well, it appears this forum is also used for sniping at each other.

I will offer the opinion that the OP is simply delivering some pushback on what he perceives as an unwarranted predisposition to jump to implantation over less invasive solutions that might be more appropriate. A caution against a rush to judgement.

[TwoStep]

Do you even have ED? Have you tried with a partner with no medicine? Hopefully you could put this behind you

Why would anyone who still gets hard erections alone and morning woods get an implant? Makes no sense

Im 39 and still get hard ons when i wake up almost everyday, when i watch porn or just masturbate to thoughts i get hard, sometimes better than others but i always get hard otherwise i wouldn’t be able to fap everyday sometimes even twice a day

[Anonymous FT Member]

Thanks rufian for saying what needs to be said. I see younger men than us on here wanting to skip ALL options and just go have surgery. I agree with you I think most cases of younger guys is related to psychogenic issues.

[ready2go]

Rufian are you trying to convince yourself ? one definition of ed is being able to get erect but not stay that way . i definitely do not not have emotional ed or performance anxiety being married 32 years . in my 20s,30s doing 5 times a day was not a problem . even once 10 times in one night ,
things change when a person ages . i didnt think i would ever slow down ,but yup at 64 i did . i now use cialis and take supplements , i did have a young 34 side girl when wifey was gone 3 months and used cilais and refrained from climaxing with her just to be able to do her daily . and she was surprized and overwhelmed . but latley that treatment seems to have weakened . if it continues this way im considering a malleable and the though of having a hard on 24 hours a day kind of makes me smile .
my only concern is being fitted incorrectly all the girls i have been with love my size and like to come back for more ,.....that i dont want to lose and is the only thing that would stop me from getting a implant

[Lost Sheep]

Rufian are you trying to convince yourself ? one definition of ed is being able to get erect but not stay that way . i definitely do not not have emotional ed or performance anxiety being married 32 years . in my 20s,30s doing 5 times a day was not a problem . even once 10 times in one night ,
things change when a person ages . i didnt think i would ever slow down ,but yup at 64 i did . i now use cialis and take supplements , i did have a young 34 side girl when wifey was gone 3 months and used cilais and refrained from climaxing with her just to be able to do her daily . and she was surprized and overwhelmed . but latley that treatment seems to have weakened . if it continues this way im considering a malleable and the though of having a hard on 24 hours a day kind of makes me smile .
my only concern is being fitted incorrectly all the girls i have been with love my size and like to come back for more ,.....that i dont want to lose and is the only thing that would stop me from getting a implant

Just my opinion, but if I could perform as you have described, NO WAY would I have gotten an implant. General rule I use is to only get an implant if the answer to this question is "No". Would you regret losing what you have now if the implant operation was a complete failure and left you with a 100% flaccid penis for the rest of your life.

You have the ability to perform like a rock star that, I daresay, every man on this forum would envy (even with a little chemical help, as you attest) you for. Why risk that for an implant-fueled ability that (for all its advantages) does have downsides. Cost, Pain, Risk of the initial surgery are three downsides. Then there is the lack of spontaneous erections (which some women REALLY appreciate), a slightly different "feel" for your partners (which a small percentage of women do notice to a more or less extent) and, of course, the need to pump up before sex.

Weigh the benefits, risks and drawbacks carefully. Implantation is not reversible - there is no going back to the way you were.

[ready2go]

hey Lost Sheep , yeah i understand . i do get wood in the mourning , but maybe because im taking suppliments and cialis [ i have been biting off a piece of a 80mg pill from india daily] ...but if i have had some drinks ,which can also make me a bit tired then even a half pill of 80mg will get me hard but not for long .
before hand when i had the 34 year old here my trick was to not cum ,and i didn't mind [i just enjoyed doing it with and watching her ] her ., or when i did cum to make her feel good i held it back [edging sort of , you dont trigger that im done signal to your brain so you stay in the mood ]. i think though she was a aphrodisiac of sorts haha . also the girls really like to sit on top and ride it ,in that position i would get softer despite my "tricks"
so for now ill wait and see . i would go with a malleable though due to the cost which im paying out of pocket and mostly the thought of a inflatable breaking down and having to to it again .yikes ,no thanks
im now in the philippines so i could have it done in Thailand possibly for not to much if i go that route.

[Rufian]

Rufian are you trying to convince yourself ? one definition of ed is being able to get erect but not stay that way . i definitely do not not have emotional ed or performance anxiety being married 32 years . in my 20s,30s doing 5 times a day was not a problem . even once 10 times in one night ,
things change when a person ages . i didnt think i would ever slow down ,but yup at 64 i did . i now use cialis and take supplements , i did have a young 34 side girl when wifey was gone 3 months and used cilais and refrained from climaxing with her just to be able to do her daily . and she was surprized and overwhelmed . but latley that treatment seems to have weakened . if it continues this way im considering a malleable and the though of having a hard on 24 hours a day kind of makes me smile .
my only concern is being fitted incorrectly all the girls i have been with love my size and like to come back for more ,.....that i dont want to lose and is the only thing that would stop me from getting a implant

That's you. We're all different.

Lots of men have performance anxiety for many reasons. Negative experience, negative upbringing, but also a predisposition to anxiety and depression, which can affect erections and arousal.

I myself am on the spectrum, and although, I'm very high functioning, speak several languages, and my intelligence is probably above average, all my life I have struggled with friendships, relationships, anxiety, self-esteem, etc.

I suffered bullying, negative experiences, my parents never understood and always criticized me, comparing me negatively to other kids. I would be rejected or dismissed by people I tried to be friends with, etc

I only had one girlfriend in my life. I had dates, one night stands, etc but I don't seem to do well in relationships or maybe I'm not relationship material. I'm not what most neurotypical women look for in men.

I'm a good looking guy I would say and some women have been interested in me throughout my life, yet they would always lose interest or worse, seem disappointed after getting to know me better

Count yourself lucky that your issue is mainly physical and at your age, you're pretty much eligible for medicare, so it makes sense for you.

For now, I simply remain single and do one night stands or see a massage lady I've been seeing for a few years, that's sex once a month.

I'm only 39 years old. I don't know yet if my problem is physical, I'm going to get an ultrasound, but like I said I can get hard just fine, it can last up to 15 to 20 minutes alone if I keep stimulation

When I get morning woods, it stays hard for like 5 or even 10 minutes after I wake up, then it starts to go soft, sometimes i can even feel the hardons while I sleep.

My erections when alone improved after I got on testosterone therapy as well, which tells me my problem may not be physical, either way my suspicions have been

I either have a venous leak or vericocele, both can cause erection issues

I'm more inclined to believe I have varicoceles as I have spider veins in my ankles

either way if I had a venous leak, then i wouldn't be able to maintain an erection even with viagra, the times I used viagra and I was feeling good, relaxed, in a good mood

that thing makes my dick get hard for one hour easily, so how could it be a venous leak?

For my age, and my issue that seems to be mainly psychological, but also my sex life is only once a month, it doesnt make sense to get an implant when the injections will work just fine

I've been alone all my life, I'm used to it. I wouldn't mind being in a relationship if it happens I'm not desperate for that, if my life means just having sex once a month, i can be ok with it

in that cases, the implant makes no sense