Arousal male problem

[Vlad10]

I can relate to this. I generally need some sort of penile touch to get things started. Sometimes I get surprised once in awhile though. Have you ever had spontaneous erection or something happen at an unusual time?

yes I have spontaneous erection as well as morning. I do not have any problem with erection and blood flow. Problem is in arousal. When I was 14-16 years old I can get hard in 3 seconds just thinking about smth sexy. When I watched porn during my 14-16 years old I was so aroused that was difficult to brief and heart was pumping very fast. I felt extremely horny like a mad. But since 17 years old I became very calm I don't feel anything when I looking on sexy naked girl or when I kiss her. My body just understood direct contact on my penis. I didn't have any trauma during 16-17 years old, (just was circumcised due to phimosis) and I don't understand the reason of this changes. Now I'm 32, nothing has changed since 17. I'm sporty, completely healthy with high level of testosterone. I have regular sex and do not watch porn at all, I feel excellent except I'm like robot during sex without arrousal.

[Anonymous FT Member]

I feel excellent except I'm like robot during sex without arrousal.

Could that be like a mind/mental thing. Maybe porn use for that period of about 3 years desensitized you or somehow your mind is somewhere else? Now you feel like a robot because you have seen and done it before

[Stenlie_]

Circumcision may be the problem. Your member no longer feels the same as before. I was circumcised at 38, for other reasons, and I think it also worsened the quality of my erection.

[ETGuy71]

Circumcision enhanced my erection for many years until the venous leak.

[ThailandBound]

Perhaps you are thinking things that in reality aren’t that erotic to you now. Maybe you watch the porn that you “should” that society approves of. Maybe there’s something a bit kinkier that will push your buttons. I’m of the view that we don’t choose what makes our dicks hard, we discover it. And that involves opening the mind and maybe experimenting a bit.

After a lifetime of “normal” and vigorous sex i discovered that i was attracted to trans-women.

My girlfriend is trans. She gets me very aroused. My dick quit working (veinous leak), but my implant has saved the day, and she LOVES it!