Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

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Grayfox
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Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

Postby Grayfox » Fri Feb 17, 2023 4:56 pm

I have a long history with ED. I'm 68 years old and the ED started after a heart attack in 2000. At one time or another I used just about everything. Pills, shots, VED, you name it. :roll:
I got a penile implant in 2019. It works just fine, but being a widower, I had nobody to try it on. I finally met a lady and got to try it out. The sex was fantastic! Implant worked like a charm. But my orgasm was kinda an anti-climax. Oh, it felt good. But it was nowhere like the earth shaking orgasms of years past. Just kind of a quick AHHHH! and that was it. Further, instead of shooting my load, the cum just sorta trickled out. :| I have noticed this before while masturbating, but I had really hoped it would be better when it came to the real thing. It wasn't.
I did a bit of internet research and found a few techniques that are supposed to help such as edging and prostate play. But I don't think that stuff is really for me.
I found a few pill products. Mostly they're marketed to increase semen volume, but they do say that they enhance orgasm making it last longer and stronger. Most notably is a product called Semenax. Problem is, its kinda expensive. About $60 for a one month supply. Has anybody tried this pill or something like it? How did it work? Is it worth the money?
Any other suggestions? :?:
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Developed ED after Heart attack and by-pass in 2000. Used pills for years, but they don't work anymore. Shots don't work. Used a VED for several years. AMS 700 LGX installed 8-7-19.

oldog12
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Re: Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

Postby oldog12 » Fri Feb 17, 2023 7:44 pm

Hey, Grayfox,
Sometimes mine are knee-buckling, other times it's like "did I cum"?. I don't ejaculate since my prostate is gone, but when the orgasms are good, they are great. Don't know why some are good and some are so-so (age, mental state, who knows)? Keep practicing and you'll hit some good ones. My good ones are more regular than they used to be.
Age 70; Radical prostatectomy 11/2018; Married 46+ yrs.
AMS 700 CX Jan. 6, 2022 with Dr. Shawn Blick/Phoenix

dg_moore
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Re: Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

Postby dg_moore » Fri Feb 17, 2023 9:02 pm

Mine became so underwhelming that I gave up on them years ago. My libido is gone and I get zero urges.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
Life is not the way it's supposed to be, it's the way it is.

AmansinCali
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Re: Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

Postby AmansinCali » Sat Feb 18, 2023 1:32 am

Gray fox,

Just a hunch, but I would say, “Use it or lose it” probably has something to do with it. Just get in there and practice some more.
Used Viagra & Cialis until lost vision in one eye due to AION, therefore can never use pills again, then tri-mix 1 1/2 years until unreliable. Implanted 9/20/22 at 77 years old by Dr. Yafi, UC Irvine. Married 55 years wife 76. 20cm Coloplast Titan.

Anonymous FT Member
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Re: Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

Postby Anonymous FT Member » Sat Feb 18, 2023 4:16 pm

Grayfox wrote:I
I did a bit of internet research and found a few techniques that are supposed to help such as edging and prostate play. But I don't think that stuff is really for me.
I found a few pill products. Mostly they're marketed to increase semen volume, but they do say that they enhance orgasm making it last longer and stronger. Most notably is a product called Senenax. Problem is, its kinda expensive. About $60 for a one month supply. Has anybody tried this pill or something like it? How did it work? Is it worth the money?
Any other suggestions? :?:


I think edging can be fun and prolongs sensation and helps it to build. Exercising your muscles down there could be helpful. Unfortunately we can all get weaker with age and limited use of muscles. I have limited experience with the internal workings of the prostate. However I can sometimes achieve more powerful ejaculation when I rub the prostate area below the scrotum and just above the anus. I think it has to do with timing a little bit too. I have to do this just before and while I'm in that mode of point of no return. Like you have pointed out Semenex is pricey, and that has kept me away from it. It does seem like an interesting product. I've been seeing one in my spam folder for something called Instahard. I can't comment on it either, but the ingredients seem promising if that is really what is in it. For my general needs, I like to use supplements like NAC, zinc, pygeum, l-arginine and lecithin. Definitely drink a lot of water. I don't know if I missed anything or not. Hope you find something that works for you and definitely share what you know.

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Re: Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

Postby Iceman100250 » Sun Feb 25, 2024 1:47 pm

Grayfox,
In same sort of spot, had implant done in 2022, before then my happy endings so to speak was ok, then noticed the dribble. After surgery I had to wait six weeks for any type of sexual activity. When I finally got to relieve myself after six weeks there was noticeable shots but then after that just dribble....I have been curious about the Semenax as well and actually jumped on Frank Talk to see if anyone has tried it cause it is pricey I agree, I am close to just biting the so called bullet and getting a 3 month supply of it and seeing if it does what it says.

I had tried to add Zinc, and L Arginine and Lecithin to my diet but nothing has increased, my other issue is that at age 15 I lost one of my testicles so while I can't compare to everyone else out here as far as amount, I still like to increase my output even though running on only 1 manufacturing sperm plant.... :lol: :lol: :lol:
51, ED due to uncontrolled diabetes, tried lotions, creams, pills nothing worked, implanted in 2022 with the AMS700 LGX, 18cm with 2cm RTE w/ a 65ML reservoir.

riseagain
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Re: Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

Postby riseagain » Sun Feb 25, 2024 3:41 pm

I tried Semenax for several months. Didn't notices any increase in volume, don't waste your money.

I have similar problems, lost sensation and very little volume. I can't cum with masturbation, but I can during intercourse, but I do have to work for it.

I guess more than anything, it's all age related. Bummer
65 yrs old. Married 38 years to an awesome wife. Implanted on 8/4/2022 Titan 24cm XL. Dr Hakky. Loving the implant so far.

scoop317
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Re: Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

Postby scoop317 » Mon Feb 26, 2024 11:05 am

It's different but at least you can go until you reach it. I can outlast a movie now, but sometimes orgasm are not as intense as past but I'm satisfied with implant. Wife really like it.
65 yr old vet, had nerve sparing RALP in Dec 2020 had ed problems before pc cancer surgery,used viagra,VED, used injections for couple years .Titan Implant Feb2022

RJ_in_Pa
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Re: Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

Postby RJ_in_Pa » Mon Feb 26, 2024 1:19 pm

oldog12 wrote:Sometimes mine are knee-buckling, other times it's like "did I cum"?. I don't ejaculate since my prostate is gone, but when the orgasms are good, they are great. Don't know why some are good and some are so-so (age, mental state, who knows)? Keep practicing and you'll hit some good ones. My good ones are more regular than they used to be.


Ditto for me too.
63 Radical Prostatectomy 2023

Phndoc
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Re: Orgasms ain't what they used to be.

Postby Phndoc » Mon Feb 26, 2024 3:14 pm

At 63 I understand what you are going through. Doctor told me that is just a part of becoming older. Then he went on to tell that I would still have the sensation of cumming. Mine just never got back once I stopped taken Flomax. Now, it is just a little spit.


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