If I get morning woods and can get hard with porn and masturbation, could it be a venous leak?

[Rufian]

Thats not what I said

I said the last time we had sex i had trouble getting hard but eventually did, it wasn’t as good as previous times but we had sex for 20 minutes

I either got a bad batch or maybe is because it had passed 2 hours after I took the pill

I had to wait in the car for one hour cause she was running very late and i believe this put me im a bad mood tok

All the other times i had sex with her it must have been around 15 times i would take viagra and have no issues

I have no problem getting hard with porn

Two hours after i had sex with her, i went home and tested with porn while viagra effect was still inside and i got an instant super erection that it was almost painful then two hours after that i tested again same thing then viagra wore off

How come viagra worked much better with porn than with her even tho more time had passed

All i can think is porn and masturbation is catching up to me

I may consider a doppler but im afraid of priapism i read stories of one indian guy who went for a doppler had a boner for 24 hours and now needs an implant

[CanGetItUpButNoMore]

The problem sure sounds like some form of desensitization. Could be mental from porn. I wonder if it might be from condom use? The OP doesn't mention it but it's a fair guess that he uses condoms in his non-monogamous relationship. And his hand knows best so that might offer superior physical stimulation.

[Rufian]

The problem sure sounds like some form of desensitization. Could be mental from porn. I wonder if it might be from condom use? The OP doesn't mention it but it's a fair guess that he uses condoms in his non-monogamous relationship. And his hand knows best so that might offer superior physical stimulation.

Yes, I wear condoms, but I would always be 90-100% hard before even putting on a condom. I'd be hard before even taking my underwear. Of course, this on viagra

I believe my not as great experience was a combination of things

- I'm desensitized, the daily porn and masturbation has caught up to me
- I had wait over one hour in the car for this lady, which put me in a bad mood tbh
- We had sex 2 hours after I took the pill
- One hour in the car, resulted in me being in my head, thinking the pill may not work as well since it has been longer than ideal
- Again, waiting put me in a bad mood
- I was sitting in the car for over an hour which made me tired and apathetic
- So when she arrived and we got inside is like i was no longer in the mood
- I took 100mg but is generic which is more like 70mg. Generics are always underdosed, they only need 70% to be approved for USA.

So maybe the 70mg was enough for a while but now that I became more desensitized over time, is not enough?

I still believe porn and masturbation have a lot to do with it tho my issue is the arousal. I read it can take up to 90 days for most people to "reboot", for some is less

One proof I have that this is true is that for the past 2 years, I've been having delayed ejaculation, it takes me lots of effort to ejaculate whether with porn or a woman, I can't ejaculate just stroking, I have to literally tense up my whole body and even then it takes a while and I wasn't like these 3 years ago, it was easier to ejaculate back then

This tells me I've been desensitizing myself slowly overtime and now is catching up to me

so I'm going to do at least 2 or 3 months off porn and masturbation I hope I can resist and then next time I have sex, maybe try 140mg sildenafil

as 140mg generics = 100mg Pfizer viagra

[Anonymous FT Member]

From everything you've said, I don't think you need to increase your Viagra dose. The more you do that, you might run the risk of it not working at all for you.

I have snooped around the no fap sites, and honestly I don't understand it fully. However I can say this. I have been avoiding porn for a long time now. So long that I forget the last time I saw some pornographic content. Point is, I can't see how it suddenly revived my penis or gave me better erections. I still masturbate and ejaculate from time to time. I'm just not using internet porn. For whatever reason I don't masturbate much anymore. I partly blame it on getting older. Seems like I can go longer now without masturbating. I wish I knew all the reasons. I think some issues are beyond our immediate control, and I know there are many environmental factors that affect our health. So you have to consider the world we live in, the toxic stuff we're exposed to and don't even realize it.
If you were different 3 years ago, it just may be that you are 3 years older now and it takes a little longer to make yourself ejaculate. How does this delay in ejaculation work when you're with your partner? Does it take too long in that situation?

[Rufian]

From everything you've said, I don't think you need to increase your Viagra dose. The more you do that, you might run the risk of it not working at all for you.

I have snooped around the no fap sites, and honestly I don't understand it fully. However I can say this. I have been avoiding porn for a long time now. So long that I forget the last time I saw some pornographic content. Point is, I can't see how it suddenly revived my penis or gave me better erections. I still masturbate and ejaculate from time to time. I'm just not using internet porn. For whatever reason I don't masturbate much anymore. I partly blame it on getting older. Seems like I can go longer now without masturbating. I wish I knew all the reasons. I think some issues are beyond our immediate control, and I know there are many environmental factors that affect our health. So you have to consider the world we live in, the toxic stuff we're exposed to and don't even realize it.
If you were different 3 years ago, it just may be that you are 3 years older now and it takes a little longer to make yourself ejaculate. How does this delay in ejaculation work when you're with your partner? Does it take too long in that situation?

it takes longer with a woman than with myself actually, but even when i was watching and masturbating porn with stuff i really liked, it would still take plenty of effort to ejaculate

I think is a sign of desensitization

3 year difference is nothing tbh I'm only 38

[timduncan]

Yes, this could still be venous leak.

Having venous leak does NOT mean you never get morning wood or erections. It just means that blood has an easier time getting out of your penis than it should. An erection just means more blood going in than coming out until erect and then staying that way.

Porn and masturbation are way more stimulating (mentally - picking your favorite turn ons, and physically- touching yourself in your favorite way) than regular sex with a partner.

So it’s entirely possible to have venous leak that is bad enough to make sex with a partner difficult yet still be able to get morning wood and masturbate.

Talk to a good urologist that has experience with men’s sexual health.

If you are watching porn so much it’s getting in the way of going to work and spending time with friends, sure, do something to curtail that. But otherwise be gentle with yourself. We are visual creatures and looking at porn is nearly universal among men. There is an awful lot of puritanical shaming around porn and the notion of “porn addiction”. Be gentle with yourself.

See a good urologist and let them guide you.

that's perfect. every youg man should read this lines

[s7utty]

Yes, this could still be venous leak.

Having venous leak does NOT mean you never get morning wood or erections. It just means that blood has an easier time getting out of your penis than it should. An erection just means more blood going in than coming out until erect and then staying that way.

Porn and masturbation are way more stimulating (mentally - picking your favorite turn ons, and physically- touching yourself in your favorite way) than regular sex with a partner.

So it’s entirely possible to have venous leak that is bad enough to make sex with a partner difficult yet still be able to get morning wood and masturbate.

Talk to a good urologist that has experience with men’s sexual health.

If you are watching porn so much it’s getting in the way of going to work and spending time with friends, sure, do something to curtail that. But otherwise be gentle with yourself. We are visual creatures and looking at porn is nearly universal among men. There is an awful lot of puritanical shaming around porn and the notion of “porn addiction”. Be gentle with yourself.

See a good urologist and let them guide you.

that's perfect. every youg man should read this lines

Yes exactly. Every young boy should read this to be even more fucked up in the head. The best doctors told me that with a venous leak of the values ​​that came out for me, I shouldn't have any erections and there are days when I fuck a babe 3 times a day with a hard cock.

[Anonymous FT Member]

it takes longer with a woman than with myself actually, but even when i was watching and masturbating porn with stuff i really liked, it would still take plenty of effort to ejaculate

I think is a sign of desensitization

3 year difference is nothing tbh I'm only 38

Based on my experience, I think 38 is definitely old enough to begin to see changes. Not trying to be negative, but it could be a possibility that you're getting a little "long in the tooth". Have you ever looked into that peptide pt-141?

[timduncan]

Yes, this could still be venous leak.

Having venous leak does NOT mean you never get morning wood or erections. It just means that blood has an easier time getting out of your penis than it should. An erection just means more blood going in than coming out until erect and then staying that way.

Porn and masturbation are way more stimulating (mentally - picking your favorite turn ons, and physically- touching yourself in your favorite way) than regular sex with a partner.

So it’s entirely possible to have venous leak that is bad enough to make sex with a partner difficult yet still be able to get morning wood and masturbate.

Talk to a good urologist that has experience with men’s sexual health.

If you are watching porn so much it’s getting in the way of going to work and spending time with friends, sure, do something to curtail that. But otherwise be gentle with yourself. We are visual creatures and looking at porn is nearly universal among men. There is an awful lot of puritanical shaming around porn and the notion of “porn addiction”. Be gentle with yourself.

See a good urologist and let them guide you.

that's perfect. every youg man should read this lines

Yes exactly. Every young boy should read this to be even more fucked up in the head. The best doctors told me that with a venous leak of the values ​​that came out for me, I shouldn't have any erections and there are days when I fuck a babe 3 times a day with a hard cock.

So,what do you suggest we have
I have the same feeling you described, with the legs, the standing etc

[s7utty]

that's perfect. every youg man should read this lines

Yes exactly. Every young boy should read this to be even more fucked up in the head. The best doctors told me that with a venous leak of the values ​​that came out for me, I shouldn't have any erections and there are days when I fuck a babe 3 times a day with a hard cock.

So,what do you suggest we have
I have the same feeling you described, with the legs, the standing etc

i dont even know whats ur problem. u has almost none posts on this forum. i can see that you are 46 yo from one post. Did you always had issues with keeping erection standing and in other positions ? If not then you shouldnt have venous leak. Im 27 and having this problem and I always had some issues while standing.

I am told via doppler that i have leak, but more precisely Angiography tells me i dont.
Imagine what im going through in my head now…
If you have venous leak i dont believe having sex 4 times in one day wouldnt be possible.
especially with EDV 15cm/s.

many young people are desentalized, addicted to porn genres or fetishes.
i also have issues with pelvic floor as my PT said.
Im lost dont know what to think if its venous leak or not.
the one thing is there for sure - i have some sort of ED, trouble maintaining them and switching position. Generally when i move i have troubles.

Maybe you describe your situation also?


EDIT: also, Tim, also narrow veins with poor inflow can also give same results as leak.