Female Function Cream

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Lil Willy
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Female Function Cream

Postby Lil Willy » Tue Jan 25, 2022 7:35 pm

As many of the older fellows well know our ladies get to the point they dont get aroused and function as before.
Some of them my wife included never had much desire for sex. I have been fortunate enough that she still goes along and participates.

My question is have any of your ladies used arousal creams, and did it work. If so what is it and where did you get it.?

She sees her Dr. In April and is going to ask about it. I know there are pharmaceutical companies that can compound it.

Does it work, or is it like us guys and what works for some doesn't work for others.

Than you.
LIL. WILLY
70 years young, 50 years marriage to one awesome little lady. E D. Prostate cancer survivor. Pills and VED been there, done that. Recently implanted. AMS 700 CX. 100 CC Reservoir
Looking forward to a new journey.

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Re: Female Function Cream

Postby AmansinCali » Tue Jan 25, 2022 8:38 pm

Excellent post Lil Willy, this is of interest of nearly everyone on this discussion board. I hope you get many positive replies, I will be watching.
Used Viagra & Cialis until lost vision in one eye due to AION, therefore can never use pills again, then tri-mix 1 1/2 years until unreliable. Implanted 9/20/22 at 77 years old by Dr. Yafi, UC Irvine. Married 55 years wife 76. 20cm Coloplast Titan.

Lil Willy
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Re: Female Function Cream

Postby Lil Willy » Tue Jan 25, 2022 9:21 pm

Will be interesting to see some replys.
Hopefully something that helps the ladies. :D
LIL. WILLY
70 years young, 50 years marriage to one awesome little lady. E D. Prostate cancer survivor. Pills and VED been there, done that. Recently implanted. AMS 700 CX. 100 CC Reservoir
Looking forward to a new journey.

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Re: Female Function Cream

Postby stmfttr » Tue Jan 25, 2022 10:39 pm

[quote="Lil Willy"]As many of the older fellows well know our ladies get to the point they dont get aroused and function as before.
Some of them my wife included never had much desire for sex. I have been fortunate enough that she still goes along and participates.

My question is have any of your ladies used arousal creams, and did it work. If so what is it and where did you get it.?

She sees her Dr. In April and is going to ask about it. I know there are pharmaceutical companies that can compound it.

Does it work, or is it like us guys and what works for some doesn't work for others.

Than you.[/quote

LW,
Used several -
"Zestra" - works well, BUT very strong smell. Pricey. Was recommended by her gynocologist.
"WoW Max O" - Kind of a strong burning when first applied to the clitoral area.
Anyway, the wife didn't really care for either. We still use lots of lube and a "lube shooter" to get the lube inside where it is needed.
Hope this helps,
stmfttr
77 yo. Married 54years - Coloplast Titan, 22cm and no RTE's - Installed June 2019 Nebraska Medicine Dr. Deibert (urologist/surgeon)
ED started in 1994 Tried VED, Viagra and Cialis, and injections.

Lil Willy
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Re: Female Function Cream

Postby Lil Willy » Tue Jan 25, 2022 11:31 pm

Thank you sir.
Hopefully many others will share their experiences. :D
LIL. WILLY
70 years young, 50 years marriage to one awesome little lady. E D. Prostate cancer survivor. Pills and VED been there, done that. Recently implanted. AMS 700 CX. 100 CC Reservoir
Looking forward to a new journey.

AnotherOldMan
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Re: Female Function Cream

Postby AnotherOldMan » Wed Jan 26, 2022 7:12 am

She does use a stimulating gel. She has several brands and I'm not clear how she chooses when it's time to apply.
In the last month I have seen [G] Female Stimulating Gel and Foria used. We are not in a marijuana legal state so the Foria is the CBD one,

Arousal gels are just one item in her toy box.

Finding one that works for your wife can be a hit and miss project. What works for some women may not work for others.She should experiment by herself with the gel and her favorite vibrator.
I highly recommend that if she doesn't use one already she should find a sex toy like a vibrator that works for her.
Married 50+ years. Use VED for sex and do
daily exercises with both water and vacuum pumps.

Lil Willy
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Re: Female Function Cream

Postby Lil Willy » Wed Jan 26, 2022 9:16 am

Thank you 'Elder Man' older is only in comparison. She has used Foria seemed to work at first. Second bottle I got for her formula must have changed. Did not work. Ordered Foria out of Denver, shipped to house.
If I may ask where did she get the first one you mentioned.

Yes I have bought several different vibrators, most times they dont work for her. That's why I'm looking for the creams.
Hopefully the guys will keep the information coming.

Thank you :)
LIL. WILLY
70 years young, 50 years marriage to one awesome little lady. E D. Prostate cancer survivor. Pills and VED been there, done that. Recently implanted. AMS 700 CX. 100 CC Reservoir
Looking forward to a new journey.

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Re: Female Function Cream

Postby Old Guy » Wed Jan 26, 2022 10:23 am

The only thing we use is lube when needed. It is the hypo-allergenic clear water based no smell kind.

Fortunately, my wife has found a way to get aroused (and moist) with a toy. It's a toy that sucks on her clit to stimulate oral sex. It has variable suction modes (stronger-weaker) and her new one has vibrations too. The Satisfier is her new toy, although she uses her cheap eBay one more. Most times I'll finger her while she is buzzing. She can have some good orgasms that way.
Nov. 8, 2019
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Married 36 years to my beautiful young bride
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Re: Female Function Cream

Postby Lil Willy » Wed Jan 26, 2022 10:44 am

Thanks for the information. Wife has both of those stimulators, however not much success. Extremely frustrating for both of us. Dont like one way parties. :?

Hopefully others will chime in with what the ladies are using, for arousal creams, or gels

Thanks
LIL. WILLY
70 years young, 50 years marriage to one awesome little lady. E D. Prostate cancer survivor. Pills and VED been there, done that. Recently implanted. AMS 700 CX. 100 CC Reservoir
Looking forward to a new journey.

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Re: Female Function Cream

Postby Gt1956 » Wed Jan 26, 2022 11:04 am

I think the general idea from her doctor is a supplementary prescription for a cream or suppository that contains a very low amount of estrogen. This should make the vaginal tissue a bit more durable so that it resists minor tears & abrasions. Your love life will suffer if she is sore after every encounter. Think of adversion therapy. I think this might end up being something she would only need for a few weeks until nature takes over. My understanding is that is applied a few times during the week. Not just before sex.
Hopefully she'll be candid with the doctor & he/she is skilled enough to see the potential for injury. Estrogen won't likely increase her arousal but the idea is to give her a fair chance to enjoy it. If mommas vj is sore, nobody will be happy.
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months


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