What about the other half of the issue?

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flyingduck2019
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What about the other half of the issue?

Postby flyingduck2019 » Fri Aug 16, 2019 5:35 pm

I know this site is primarily for men with sexual issues and it is a very well done and informative forum. I have found out a lot I didn't know about and I have only been a member for a couple of weeks.

Is there a forum for the other half of the issue? Wives, girlfriends, partners, etc.? If there is not there should be. They are as much a part of the problems and issues we men suffer because of ED. Education for them is just as important as for us men. The more they know about it the easier it will be for them to accept and manage their comseptions and understandings.

Just my two cents worth.
Phil, 73, married 52 years, ED started about 7 years ago. After viagra and cialis and pumping have found Trimix. Use 15 units injected with a partial erection. 30g-5/16" needle. 10-1-30 :D :D :D Wife likes it too :D :D :D :D

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Re: What about the other half of the issue?

Postby alfa88 » Fri Aug 16, 2019 8:06 pm

I brought this up some time ago but it was the opinion to keep it strictly a boys club. Who am I to rock the boat? After all I'm just after good information and share what little I have.
53 years old, married 32 years. Decades of ED & PE. BPH. Tried Viagra W & W/O T-Shots, Levitra and Cialis, Edex, Trimix starter, medium, strong with poor results. VED is a last resort.

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Re: What about the other half of the issue?

Postby Lost Sheep » Fri Aug 16, 2019 9:30 pm

flyingduck2019 wrote:I know this site is primarily for men with sexual issues and it is a very well done and informative forum. I have found out a lot I didn't know about and I have only been a member for a couple of weeks.

Is there a forum for the other half of the issue? Wives, girlfriends, partners, etc.? If there is not there should be. They are as much a part of the problems and issues we men suffer because of ED. Education for them is just as important as for us men. The more they know about it the easier it will be for them to accept and manage their comseptions and understandings.

Just my two cents worth.

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There is one, but it is a commercial site (so not appropriate for naming here) with a sub-section for urological issues, including E.D. It allows, even encourages women to participate. Unfortunately it has not very much traffic.

There is also this thread in FrankTalk
viewtopic.php?f=7&t=9064

Also, some men have posted on behalf of their women or discussed what they (as a couple) found

And there are some posts from women, before the "all male" rule was strictly enforced.

There is also the other, other half of the issue that might be worthy of consideration. Male partners of (homosexual or bisexual) men with E.D.


What will she think? - a womans perspective
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=6513

Any offers for sex from intrigued girls?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=7166

How will young women respond to implants?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 9&start=30

Getting discovered: How to tell a woman
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9236

Pumping in front of her a mood killer?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 6&start=10

Another Day, Another Research Question - Sponteneity
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9501

What excuse did you use? (More about explaining the surgery than to your partner)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9787

She can't feel anything (a little bit off the subject)
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... f=6&t=9594

Afraid of sex
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... 3&start=10

Is this a common story?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10089

Does it feel different to her?
http://www.franktalk.org/phpBB3/viewtop ... =6&t=10103
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017 Dr Shaw.
READ OLD THREADS to ask better questions and better understand answers.
Make yourself part of your medical team.
Document your current penile size: photos and written records.
Pre-op V.E.D. therapy helps.

Flavio
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Re: What about the other half of the issue?

Postby Flavio » Sat Aug 17, 2019 4:27 am

It's a good idea, women have no idea how to deal with this but we have to comply with the forum's rules.
Age 40. Psychogenic ED for over 20 years. Current regimen: Cialis 20 mg, oral phentolamine mesylate 40 mg.


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