We are not getting yearly physicals which should actually start by at least age 30 as far as I am concerned you should start earlier. If you were in the military, you got a physical once a year no matter the age. With your first physical, you need to have the
finger exam performed. This is so important especially at an earlier point in our life so we know exactly the size of our prostate.
I shudder to think of all the post by guys who have had radiation or surgery on their prostate. I have a story to relate and this is God’s honest truth as it was given to me. A man had visited his doctor at some point in time long before he retired. The doc was one of the good ones and did the physical correctly and prescribed Testosterone for this individual. His levels came up and he felt like a million dollars. Sex and making love were GREAT and ALL HIS PLUMBING worked fine. He retired and knew he was due a physical, had the physical and other than a minor BP (blood pressure) problem was the picture of health, alright the normal aches and pains we have at 65 and plus. Doctor commented that his prostate was healthy and his PSA was great. He went home and now without the insurance he once had, decided that a $30.00 per month co-pay was too much and since he was just fine decided to stop taking his “T”.
He noticed during the next year he had put on some extra pounds, was more tired all the time and nothing much was happening in bed anymore. He went for his yearly physical to discover that he had to have prostate surgery like right now. His PSA was high and with the surgery you know the rest of this story. It is my firm belief form all I know had this guy continued his treatment as prescribed taking care of his prostate he would have been fine. If your doctor does all the right things and prescribes something for you, and you are feeling like a million dollars why would you just up and stop taking your medication for say $360.00 per year.
It is a WELL KNOWN FACT THAT EVERY MAN’S TESTOSTERONE LEVEL STARTS TO DROP AFTER OR AT ABOUT 20 YEARS OF AGE. Some don’t start to notice the drop till their mid 20’s while others don’t see it till about their 30’s and there are some that the drop off is really slow and some into their 40’s. Anything past that and we are often in denial. I believe the max cost without insurance for a “T” level test is about $150.00 bucks. Yet we will see all these ads on TV or radio commercials and spend hundreds to even thousands of dollars trying to capture so called FREE TESTOSTERONE AND BOOSTERS. I don’t want to bust the bubble here, from what other guys tell me it doesn’t work. I actually asked one of my doctors about this and he said “if it was that easy we would be prescribing these things for our patients. Sure there are
herbs that help to make us a
bit horny but horny just isn’t enough to make
ALL OUR PLUMBING WORK.
I had the opportunity to meet a guy recently and when he told me he was 82 I almost dropped dead. I was actually dumb founded. I thought he was about my age and people tell me I don’t look like in 1 1/2 years I will be 70. I know a lot of men who take “T” and none look their age and in bed none of them perform like they are as old as they say. Fucking amazing!!!!
Now we start with the meat of this segment.
SO WHAT DO WE DO AS MEN TO MAKE SURE THAT OUR PROSTATE IS SAFE AND WILL CONTINUE WORKING AS IT SHOULD? The first thing is we need a physical and a good one. Your doctor needs to turn every button, screw, run a full batter of blood test, take urine samples and he actually should take a sample of prostate fluid while he does the finger exam. Now we have a base to start with and we will know exactly where we are.
You say I am only 30 or 28 or whatever age, I don’t fucking care DO THE DAMN PHYSICAL. MOST IMPORTANT FIND OUT WHAT THE FUCK YOUR “T” LEVEL IS. If it is border line ask about using the “T” gel. It isn’t all that expensive, easy to use and generally after about 10 to 14 days you will have a new spring in your step. I will add right here, there are some who may be like myself and the gel may make your shoulders ache. If this is the case then “T” injections may be a better solution or the pellets that are inserted. I do the injections every 2 weeks at a rate of 200mgs and I fly.
MAKE SURE THAT YOUR "T" LEVELS STAY IN A NORMAL RANGE. EXCESSIVE "T" LEVELS CAUSE MAJOR PROBLEMS. Then what is next? You need to learn the secret of your prostate and how to make it healthier. This requires you taking
NO MAKING some time to invest in the one small organ that will make Mr. Happy believe he has blown his head right off your shaft. Now your whole body is part of your entire sexual explosion, not just some small contractions at the base of your dick. Where you feel those small little contractions at the base of your dick stretching thru your entire body, the orgasms reach a point and your eyes roll back in your head; you sweat like a horse, tremble and shake from such intense powerful orgasms and your ejaculation leaves you totally wasted. You now understand all that you were missing for so many years, just fucking amazing.
This segment will cover the use of prostate toys of varying sizes and should you have a male partner you may already know the pleasures from the use of a dick in your backdoor. I know there are some guys who are only a top, so right now I am
speaking to you. You need to develop your own backdoor for the experienced I just described.USING TOYS: Toys are an excellent way to get in touch or in tune with your prostate. Let me say don’t expect the excitement from a 4th of July fireworks on your first try. In fact it may take a dozen sessions to even make 1/5 of the 4th of July fireworks. THE POINT IS: (my famous clause) you have to find it, teach it and your head, the one sitting on your shoulders, not the one between your legs what is going on. Our brain is truly the beginning and end for sexual enjoyment. I HERE YOU GUYS, you sound like some of the quack doctors I have seen. No I am not like them in the least but as guys we feel our horny in several places. Yes, in our dicks, but a feeling that sweeps our body, where does that start, you guessed it in our subconscious brain and transmitted all the way thru our body to the head which swings between our legs. It really isn’t the reverse. Yes, a good “T” level helps greatly with being horny.
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LET’S JUST JUMP INTO SOME TOYS. I posted some things just above this for you to look at
I don’t find my toy listed but I did see one just like it but with the remote. It may well be in the 7 pages on Amazon which I have given you the link at the bottom of this post. I can’t tell you which one would be the best for you. Some have more hook than others and some will be bigger than others. The one like I have is great for a beginner or for someone who is experienced with backdoor play.
The second illustration is to give you an idea of the way your toy should be inserted.
NOTE: I always wash my toys before and after use. For a toy this small, and since I hate condoms anyway, I don’t use one. There are cleaners you may purchse but I use an antibacterial soap and rather warm water to wash up before use and after. A really cold toy can make it even more difficult to get inside. Notice that the toy is curved slightly after its head. Its shape is such that it actually resembles that of the finger. This is a small toy and should slip in real easy.
NOTE: Make sure you have taken a dump and don’t have junk inside. If you do it will make inserting almost impossible. Lube well with Astroglide. BIG NOTE: Do not get this lube on your dick as it will go sticky right off and even using other lubes you will end up washing to start over. I keep a wet washcloth to wipe off my hand.
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If you aren’t use to using your backdoor then take some lube on your finger spread it around on the outside and push some inside. Now you are ready to start to insert your toy. This particular toy is very easy to insert because the tip is firm enough that it may be done sitting, standing or lying down as I have tried all 3 ways. ADDING: I chose this one because this was like half price. IN MY PLACES TO LOOK AT DIFFERENT TOYS – BE SURE TO GET ONE WITH A REMOTE AND WATER PROOF.
INSERT TILL THE BASE TILL IT IS RESTING IN YOUR ASS CARCK. Make sure that the on/off button is facing your dick. Look at 2nd illustration for placement.
This toy has one small draw back. It is a bit more difficult to stay in if you want to move around. Here is what I do to help that problem. After it is in I will ease it out. NEVER just yank it out. Once it is out use a paper towel to wipe your toy off. Then ease it back in as there should be more than enough lube inside for inserting.
This toy vibrates with a number of different settings. I personally don’t prefer a constant vibration but I like the ones that actually feel as if it thrusting inside. I actually have this toy in my collection and even if you are experienced using something in your backdoor, as I am, I do enjoy this toy.
In the process of this as your prostate begins to feel the impulses it will tighten up and actually make a very small movement down. When this takes place the tip end that was just slightly over the top of the gland as it hardens and moves slightly downward will soon come to test in the curve. As more of the impulses strikes the prostate the more it will tighten up and again it will move till the gland is fully resting in the curve. This gives the maximum effect from your massage.
BIG NOTE: It isn’t unusual to sometimes stop to take a dump. Especially for those of you who aren’t in the habit of using something vibrating in their ass. I posted earlier about getting clean inside and that is an excellent thing, DON’T OVER DO IT. If your dump is rather solid and you know what your normal movement is, then the lower 8 inches should be rather clean. If on the other hand, your movement was semi sold, or almost a paste I then recommend using something to clean out a bit better.
Now as they say the ball is in your park. There is what is called a hands free orgasm(s) and you ejaculate. I am not a total fan of this because I like to have some stroking of the dick. I find that by stroking your dick the orgasms will be stronger and when you ejaculate it gives a more powerful punch than just a hands free experience. I have learned with guys, especially those who have some PE problems that playing with and stroking the dick helps. Again, the ball is now in your court. I like to use some porn if I am playing on my own. Visual stimulation is a huge part of sex or making love. Having a partner to assist in this is even better. This isn’t about the partner getting off or having sex. This experience is about you and what you feel. I didn’t say a constant stroking or things will end so fast you will not know exactly what took place other than the nut you bust may well be the most intense one of your life. I don’t advocate dragging this out for a long period of time.
The goal here is to separate your orgasms from ejaculation. Even with a toy and better yet, one that will stay in place and not drop out at every move will allow you movement on your toy. If I am on my own, I like to often sit on my toy and move around some. I cover a pillow with a heavy towel and I can move around and if I am on the sofa, I actually can do an up and down motion. This alone will increase pressure or decrease pressure on the prostate causing a hundred different sensations, and often all at the same time. This movement either by hand, sitting on it or having someone who moves it slightly could cause you to cum. Generally, if your dick is or isn’t being stroked and you have learned to talk and say I’m going to cum that person should cease any movement and actual just freeze. If you are working on your own I know how difficult it is to stop certain processes so if you yield and give in, by all means grab your dick and go for it. This also applies if you have a partner. Tell your partner or grab your dick yourself and work it as it will prove to be an intense experience. There is always tomorrow or your next session. REMEMBER: This will take some time to develop. I haven’t ever had a guy who didn’t bust a nut rather quickly in the beginning. The goal is to make each session last a bit longer so that you discover the difference between ORGASMS and EJACULATION. Yes, ejaculation enhances the last orgasm but you are capable of having more than one orgasm where as with ejaculation, when you nut, you busted your nut and the vast majority of us need recovery time. Something else I have learned, I will not go for a second round of working the prostate. I find it is far less satisfying and often it just doesn’t feel all that great.
LET ME ADD, you will not learn this over night! Resign yourself to the fact this might take several months BUT during this time, you will have more and more mind blowing orgasms and ejaculations. Even if you only have the orgasm slightly before you ejaculate both should be stronger and harder than usual.
LET’S note here, I don’t recommend this regiment of therapy every day. For those who are taking “T” like me, no matter the age, we tend to find ourselves horny all the time. If you are completely honest with yourself, you find if you skip a day, you are far hornier the 3rd day.
Since I have stopped here to talk about
HORNY, just remember HORNY is a good thing. Learn to make your horny work for you. Yes, there are many times that I might have a JO session several days in a row, there is nothing wrong with that. I have learned that EVEN WITHOUT something to work my prostate, I am able to have several orgasms before I actually start cumming. I may not have as many orgasms but that wasn’t the goal. I had a desire and need which needed my attention. So I took matters in hand so to speak and I took care of business. Did I drag it way out or was it as my friend states a “30 second popper”. Well I don’t often do a “30 second popper” but it may not be a 20 to 30 minute session either. I would say more like a 10 to 15 minute, or most likely closer to 10. I don’t want to drift to far here but you get the idea.
There are so many different types of toys to use. I have given a link at the bottom for Amazon. There are 7 pages to look at toys. For the guys who never have played with their backdoor, you need to start small and work up to something larger. The old saying bigger is always better isn’t totally the case here. For many of us that are Bi or gay and we are use to having the real thing put in our backdoor, we most likely would prefer something larger than something that a beginner would start with.
I will take my own personal preference here as an illustration. In late 2017, Nov. or Dec., I saw a toy, a very expensive toy, and I purchased it at half price. The toy arrived and when I had unboxed the damn thing my exact words were “Fuck, oh Fuck look at the size of that damn thing”. This thing was fucking huge. Yes, I had handled some tools as larger or larger but they were the human type but the first bulb on the end was bigger than the glands on any dick and this was ridged. I looked at it for a few moments, hooked it up to charge and came back to it about an hour later. I checked it was fully charged, I knew my backdoor was clean.
I applied ample lube to my backdoor, more than ample to the toy and I proceeded to work it in. OH HELL NO it would go. I had a bright idea; I would sit on the toilet and give it a try. This thing wouldn’t go without ripping me a whole new ass hole. There was actually no give to this damn thing. I thought and I had an idea that I would start with something smaller and work up in size. After working with 3 other toys all smaller but did increase in size I decided I would try this bad ass thing. Again I set on the toilet because this actually helps take pressure off your backdoor as if you pulled your ass check apart. I still couldn’t get it in and I knew I had a dick as big or bigger before. I decided I would use a different toy and I took care of business. I found an old butt plug and decided I would put it in and go to sleep that night. I went to sleep and damn if I didn’t have a wet dream. It wasn’t long that I woke up to a cold sticky mess. Well I pulled the damn thing out, took a leak and went back to sleep, dried mess and all. I was very busy the next day and by the next day I decided I would try my new toy one more time. I used several toys and decided to try the new one.
Well the damn thing went in with some effort and now I had the first bulb inside wondering if I had split my backdoor open. As I sat there I push some more and the second bulb was in and now it actually felt like a really huge dick. It was shaped somewhat correctly as the prostate when it moved would be cradled between the 2 balls. I finished sliding it in and to test how well it would stay in I stood up and damn that felt rather good. I went in my bedroom as I was all alone to watch some porn on my computer. All the while this toy was starting to do what it was designed to do. I turned it on and ran thru the different settings and realized I was pouring a river of PRE. I turned it off but realized I could squeeze down on the damn thing and cause major pleasure sensations go thru me. I could sit on it and wiggle which with the squeezing was starting to bring on small little orgasms.
I turned the damn thing back on, found a pulsating setting I liked for the top bulb and one for the bottom. I was still squeezing and moving my ass on it and my orgasms were getting bigger, my Ralph was working on his own as I started to inflate my implant some. I needed no lube to stroke and I realized after about 3 strokes I would bust a nut so fast it would all be over. I turned off my device and continued my manual movements with no set pattern of stroking. I guess 20 minutes had passed and I turned it back on to the setting I liked and I put my feet up on the end of the bed as I slowly stroked my dick. The orgasms were cumming rather fast and getting harder all the time. I was sure I was going to blow at any time but I just continued the slow stroke. At last I couldn’t slow stroke and I picked up the pace. The orgasms were almost constant and I didn’t fucking care. I was already shaking when I had that major last orgasm a pause and I busted my nut which I thought would never stop. Talk about shaking and my lights went out as my eye balls rolled back in my head. All I wanted was that damn device turned off and I was having trouble finding the off button. I found it and realized that damn thing had to come out as well. I managed to get a hold of it and pull it out letting it just drop to the floor. I was kicked back in my office chair, feet up on the bed and I went to sleep for well over an hour.
This experience didn’t happen overnight, it happened from years of trial and error. I learned things from different doctors, actually some from porn videos but the most I learned was from working with guys so they could enjoy an experience such as what I described above. I doubt I will be able to write enough instructions here; as my goal is to lay a foundation on which you will be able to build. I recently meet a guy who actually discovered this on his own. His didn’t happen overnight either. I felt that inserting my story would or might spark more interest for you to try.
Try you ask? YES, because this will keep you a healthy prostate gland. Even if you don’t make having multiple orgasms, your prostate needs the massage and again massage will also make your orgasm and ejaculation far more powerful and stronger. I know many, many men that they are elated just to have that. They actually are back to shooting over their head and hitting the wall behind them. Guys in their 50’s and up have this capability and some never had that capability. If this will insure a healthy prostate and you take care of yourself, eat correctly, have your “T” checked and drop some of those damn extra pounds; you will feel better, you will feel sexy and your horny will start to return. I know about the weight thing as I had reached 302 and I have lost almost 60 pounds. The weight just crept up and I am not totally sure what I did to lose the weight. My doctor was concerned and ran enough test but found nothing. I did stop all the sodas and I didn’t drink much of those to start with. I stopped the sweet tea as well. At Steve’s I will drink a glass of sweet tea at night but I replaced so much of what I drank with plain COLD water, except for my coffee which I drink LIKE A MAN – BLACK AND UNPOLLUTED. LOL
I will in close a link for toys. This is a bad time of the year unless you hit a sale or you make a first order from some of the places like Adam & Eve or other toy vendors on your first order giving some special discount on one item. The one I used in my illustration, I only paid $19.00 for it but that was after “Black Friday”. I like Amazon as they have a huge selection. If you view something, put it in your “wish list” generally they will in a few days send you a notice that it is now on a special. Hell, I don’t have a problem buying these type things from them. I use Amazon for a ton of my shopping.
GUYS: I have one more segment that I want to do. I will need to be moved into my new apartment so that I will be free to do the video demonstrating this. I have a subject who has volunteered. I think I have actually come up with an idea. I don’t feel good about posting what could be considered porn HANG IN HERE: when in fact it is an illustration. I actually believe a cloud account would be the way to go. I want to run this past our Admin and see what they think. I was going to just post short (very short) segments but this way I could post about a 45 minute session. I have also thought about a solo video using myself as the subject. I intend to give instructions without taking away from what is happening. I have to get my desktop up and running so I have a way to edit if need be.
In closing here, please ask questions. If you don’t want to post your question, send it to me in a PM. I would ask that you let me copy out your question or statement and only post that to the tread. Your handle or name will never show up. I learned a long time ago, if one person has a question there many more asking the same question. I have tried to read thru this several times to make sure it reads correctly. Not as an excuse, I have what is called a “Low Vision Problem”. What this means, I don’t see so well close up, like reading, working on the computer or playing the piano where I read music. A number of years ago, I had an accident with a wire brush on a bench grinder where a bristle flew off and landed square in my eye and yes I was using safety glasses. I found something I forgot to clean and only had it on for less than 2 minutes with no safety glasses. For each facet of these things I have a different pair of glasses. My far distance vision is better than 20/20 and I had to renew my driving permit and I passed the eye test. I do struggle to make my post. I ask that you also forgive me in not getting this segment finished sooner. I am still packing up the old place and I don’t have a move in date yet.
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