Your Prostate

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Re: Your Prostate

Postby Minnscooter » Sun Jan 27, 2019 5:20 pm

Couple comments one I love a prostate massage or at least a good anal massage if it dosn''t go all the way in many years ago when we did things like that wife would insert a finger or two when we were screwing.. mindblowing climax. The 2nd part is about prostate infections I had one and it took about 6 month to totally go away.. dr said where it is not good blood flow so it would keep comming back and need more antibioutics and flomax..when it was bad i had to pee all the time but could only do a dribble flomax is great to solve that but I have 2 side effects 1 super hard moring wood but no semen dry orgasm... lf only I had that when wife hated me comming in her mouth LOL
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Re: Your Prostate

Postby handfulWES » Sun Jan 27, 2019 5:55 pm

I want to talk some more here on exactly what happens with the prostate. I had one PM response and I think he felt I like doing the finger massage to myself I don't I use a toy. I do like the finger if someone else is doing that for me. The finger on someone else's hand works great. Once you have some training, if you are using your finger to work the prostate you will know exactly where your subject is in their climbing of the ladder to ORGASMS and when they will ejaculate.

HERE GOES:
In the beginning as your start you will find a small to medium size shaped walnut lump. Now there are some of us guys who have a large or even extra large walnut size gland. This doesn't mean there is anything wrong. Went I went for my induction physical for the Air Force, the doctor told me that my prostate was rather large and to remember this because if another doctor mentioned this I could tell him I was made like this. (may explain why I drip gallons of PER as it seems to me). You take your finger, I use my index finger and GENTLY roll over the gland and the left side may seem slightly smaller than the right side. YOU NEVER WANT TO POKE THE GLAND. Gently press letting up and pressing your finger and moving it back and forth across the gland.

Whoever you are working with may say I am going to pee (always take a piss before playing) but that shouldn't happen as it will only be clear fluid starting to drip. When I am doing this I like to take my other hand and massage the individuals dick and I usually start this process with you on all 4's. (hands and knees on a rather soft surface) Even with ED issues, almost every man will develop some degree of hardness if nothing else his junk will hang very heavy we all know that feeling.

At this point that special little spot will start to turn a bit harder requiring slightly more pressure in massaging. By now, your subject should be having all kinds of tingles thru his body and a ton of pleasure waves as you play with his special spot. Be careful not to play with his dick to much. What you want is for it to send messages back to the prostate and his body. Only play with his dick slightly, as he may well be begging for more from both ends.

As things build, the prostate will get even harder and shrink down harder and it moves downward. I will do an illustration here:

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As you see in the first picture the location of the P gland. Also note: I posted about your having morning wood but can't get a woody when you want it. OK GUYS a picture is worth a thousand words. The bladder sits on top of the prostate and the colon pushes on the backside. For men our fucking bladder is so damn full in the mornings we have to PISS LIKE A RUSSIAN RACE HORSE also MOST MEN generally take a dump in the first 3 hours of the morning. Before this dump the colon is also pushing on our gland. Between the 2 of these, we have what is known as A MORNING WOODY in grand fashion.

The second picture depicts the use of the finger. Remember I was talking about the gland getting harder and it starts to move as our bodies start to feel those grand waves. For the individual who is using there finger on you the goal as your P spot moves down their finger will be able to make a hook and it will cup and cradle the gland. Now that person has his finger on the pulse of things. With his gentle massage and ability to sorta move the gland slightly will make the recipient do many things. The guys I work with want to squeeze my finger with their sphincter muscle till it almost cuts off the circulation off to my finger. They want to ride it and move on it to gain more pleasure. 99 percent don't even realize what they are doing. This is a case where good old Mother Nature takes charge. I am still continuing to mess with their dick. They can't touch it, if they do ame over. (make sure you have some really good lube - I like one called Probe and if you go to Cheaplubes.com you can order. Often they may have a discount for your first order. After that you will get notices in your emale (play on words) for discounts. They carry 2 kinds one is rather thin and one is a bit thicker. I like the thicker better, whereas, my buddy likes the thin better. I get a large bottle and if you will purchase a spray inhaler and empty it, wash it out and remover the tube that goes down in it, you fill it with lube and it is small, handy and you are well able to close it up tight. The bottles, once opened, if they turn over will leak.)

By this point I want them on their back on my table and I reinsert my finger and now I am reaching up to get the gland and move it back into my cupped finger. Once I have my finger in place my patient can put his legs back down and I will continue where I left off. (I always ask that they not tense up but fight it till they no longer are able to control it. I also tell them if say 5 seconds before they bust their nut to completely back off their ending process will be at least 10 times greater. I don't always succeed when I try this but in a JO session my own I am better able to make this happen.) I don't care if he has a full blown boner or only a half of an erection the point here is his ability to have orgasms. I don't know of any guy who doesn't have some white threads cum (play on words) mix with his PER. I have guys who have had an orgasm and cum. As one said it could be back to the drawing board. IF I catch this in time I will grab his dick and work it to make this as great as possible. This will often happen in the beginning.

NOTE: If I catch it soon enough I will back off the pressure on the gland, stop all movement on his dick and gently squeeze down to freeze things. It is a tricky thing at this point in the game.

Sometimes a guy may have an ejaculation but no major orgasm. I have continued on and the orgasms will start and then the big O will happen. Your guy may have some small ejaculations along this doesn't mean it is all over. Most times he will continue on to have some rather high, highs. I tell all my guys they need to talk to me. If you feel that tall tail sign you will cum say something. I generally know what's happening because the higher they climb their p gland will start beating like your heart does. This is also a clue that I need to be careful because I could cause my patient to climax. Talking is generally something 99 PERCENT OF THE MED DON'T DO. Even when I am with a woman or a guy, I will say I'm close. If you want it to last some more we need to change up some or it will be all over.

For any guy who is just starting out with this it takes a little time to make things work for MMO (multiple male orgasms). Something else here. For me I have what I think are small mini orgasms along the way. They build till I reach this plateau and the orgasms start to wash over me. My buddy Steve knows exactly where I am because I will start saying OH SHIT, OH SHIT, OH SHIT for a string that could be 10 long and then I will bellow like a bull in heat as that last orgasm hits followed with a slight pause and my ejaculation. I am frozen in time and though he has tried to continue on we use a code word we have and he stops working me depending on what position we happen to be in.

ONE LAST MAJOR NOTE HERE: Have any of you heard the term the "Holy Grail". I have hit I think 4 times in my life and I know Steve has hit it at least 3 times. Let me tell you how you know if you have hit it. Once you have this exhaustive climax you die. I mean you just pass out. Your eyes roll WAY back in your head and you know nothing. Your breathing diminishes and the ones including yours truly curl up in the fetal position and pass out.

There is way more to talk about. The next thing I will cover will be the use of toys and working on your own. I choose to go this route if you have a partner who would be willing to assist. I dated a lady once who would have liked to try this. MY POINT IS; I use the pronoun HE but it could well be a she. I do think a guy would come closer to doing this all because guys tend to know and understand these feelings. Like I hate seeing a woman doctor and trying to explain anything male to her. She doesn't have a DICK and as guys we don't have a pussy so there are things we don't understand about the opposite sex. I sure as hell don't want a woman doing a fucking prostate exam on me. All she knows is from a book and since you doesn't possess one, she can't begin to know what goes on.

I will try to post more tomorrow. I am really sick guys. I have worked on this most of the afternoon. This will be something you will understand. I feel so bad that I missed church and more yet, I didn't even have a JO session and had the house all to myself for about 7 hours. I am concerned this nasty cold may turn to bronchitis or pneumonia. This is the first cold I have had in at least 7 years. I am cold and that never happens. Please give me some feed back.

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PS: I was looking at the diagrams and noticed on the first one the rectum. I had a guy ask me in chat about taking a big one and it would hurt. I started laughing at the picture. Yes, I do swing both ways and yes I have had that done to me as well as I have preformed the said in return. OMG - I said in the beginning there were 2 ways the finger was where I started, but the other which is natures way a fine dick. That is Mother Nature's way. LOL I like to have fun. FOR INQUIRING MINDS: you are welcome to ask how much dick could be packed into one's backdoor. LOL
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Re: Your Prostate

Postby handfulWES » Sun Jan 27, 2019 8:51 pm

When I was 27 and my country doc a plain old GP discovered I had a prostate infection, he did antibiotic injections for 3 days twice daily. Doctors don't do that anymore they usually jump to IV antibiotics. On the 4th day I started oral antibiotics at 4 per day. On day 5 was when he did the prostate massage in royal fashion. As he put it to push out the infection faster. By day 15 and after 3 more massages he took a sample of fluid from my prostate and said it was clean.

Doctors will not do this now. They are so concerned that the patient will sue the ass off them because the patient thinks the doctor is wanting to fuck him or whatever the patient thinks. WE, YOU, I AND THE REST OF THIS damn US has brought this on ourselves. I really can't include myself. He did explain what he wanted to do. I was cool with. I had such ED issues that I would have stood on my head if he told me it would fix my problem.

My marriage was on the rocks. I had 2 small children and I knew if she left I would surely have the kids. She didn't want the kids to begin with. IN FACT, she had her mother send her over $10,000.00 so she could have her tubes tied and I didn't know till I had a call from her telling me she was in the local hospital. She knew from the start that I wanted 3 children. She thought since I had performance problems in the bedroom that I was sleeping around. I only wish.

I said all that to say, you are so correct about the prostate infection being a fucking bitch to treat. If your doctor would have done his job right, you would have been well in about 3 weeks. The problem was due to so much fluid in the gland that it had the urethra so closed the water couldn't get thru. I had that same problem, and at that time I was teaching a class in the military and I almost couldn't make 1 hour without peeing. I would have to sit because it took so long to empty my fucking bladder. After day 5 of my treatment I was back to normal peeing. I was on the "T" and I felt like a man. What a shame that the mother of my children left. When our son got married his mother didn't come to the wedding. I by chance saw her as I knew she had come to VA to work at LU and she must have weighted 300 pounds. I almost didn't recognize her. I stayed clear all because I didn't want to talk to her. My son told me he had seen his mother and the reason for not coming to the wedding was her weight.

As I say AND THE POINT IS: If the doctors would doctor, really doctor we would be so much better off. The FDA and the insurance is going to kill thousands of people. At least with the VA I don't have the insurance thing to fight just the FDA. I appreciate each and every post and PM I receive.

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Re: Your Prostate

Postby bldoink » Sun Jan 27, 2019 9:49 pm

Well that was certainly way too over the top for me. I'm done with this thread. IMHO, I think perhaps it's not in the correct sub-forum. But then it seems to pretty much be in most every sub-forum.
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Re: Your Prostate

Postby handfulWES » Tue Jan 29, 2019 9:34 am

TUESDAY, JANUARY 28, 2019
I want to post some common sense things here and one item I will cover is hemorrhoids. I do have some problems with hemorrhoids but not from using my backdoor for enjoyment. Mine act up more in cold weather sitting on something cold or should I get constipated in having a bowl movement.

When enjoying backdoor play you need to use lube and the right type of lube and it isn't like what you see in the porn movies. Asdroglide is a brand and it is a gel. I don't suggest this lube for your JO session but for the backdoor it works extremely well.

First always apply some to your rectum and push some in with your finger and then some to your toy. IF YOU ARE NOT USE to backdoor play I recommend getting some small toy or toys and go a bit larger with each.

The second and may be the most important is to relax. Take your toy and ease it in and pull back repeating this several times. You may well need a bit more lube. NOTE: NEVER USE GOBS BECAUSE ONCE INSIDE AND ONCE YOUR RECTUM GETS USE TO YOUR USING TOYS IT WILL GO TO MAKING ITS OWN LUBE MUCH LIKE A WOMAN WILL. It may take a week or more of backdoor play for your rectum or ass will start making its own lube.

Let me share because all I have to offer some times are from personal experience. I have seen with a small amount of lube at the start that it would be difficult to keep your toy in at all. That is when you have to take the toy out and wipe it off and insert it again without any lube.

SO THE POINT IS: (like Colombo with his one more thing) If your toy is warm and I always wash my toy when finished AND WHEN I start (you are welcome to use a condom on your toy - unless it fits rather well it makes for a sloppy mess). If your lube is cold drop it in some hot water for about 3 minutes. Unless your hemorrhoids are extremely bad you shouldn't have a problem. My suggestion if you have really bad hemorrhoids you need to have them fixed because they give you trouble all the time. The most I have ever experienced with backdoor play would be a ass hole that was a bit sore. Generally in a few hours that is gone.

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Re: Your Prostate

Postby handfulWES » Sat Feb 02, 2019 11:02 am

I am at present working on another segment about "Your Prostate" I actually have my laptop setting on a secure surface, did away with the touchpad and I how have a 2nd monitor hooked up giving me far better screen visibility. This next section will be using toys to aid you for either self enjoyment or for use with your partner. Let me say I use partner as I don't know who is and who isn't married. To me, if you are married you have a partner. This time I am going to use Word to help make my writing a bit more correct as far as punctuation and grammar is concerned. I am working in a very low lit room since I don't need to look at the keys for the alphabet, numbers or symbols.

Before I make this next post I want to try and cover another topic and I have made part of this post already but I get PM's concerning this issue. What if I had prostate surgery? What if I had radiation treatments? Would any of this you are posting keep me from having major problems with my prostate?

FIRST QUESTION: As for surgery, I don't have that answer yet. I should have that answer somewhere this month as I have to see my oncologist for a checkup. He has close to 55 years experience and is the head of the non surgical Oncology. He was for just over 30 years the head of both surgical and non surgical Oncology. I know him well and he and I are only about 4 ½ years different in ages and on a first name basis. I will have an answer.

SECOND QUESTION: For those who have had radiation therapy I am told by a very good urologist that I know extremely well that there is at least a 50/50 chance and with guidance and patience the odds could be even higher. He tells me that if he can catch things before they have advanced to far, he actually starts “Prostate Massage” right off the bat.

THIRD QUESTION: YES IS THE ANSWER: I will take just a moment to explain something on the prostate. The prostate works on a supply and demand situation. Let’s say that you JO everyday or have sex with a partner every day. Your prostate is trained to make a certain amount of fluid. This fluid is what protects the sperm you make when placed inside a woman. Your prostate doesn’t know if you are JO’ing or doing the nasty or making love to a woman or man. What YOUR prostate knows is THIS: The amount of fluid needed to take care of the sperm you make. This has been your way of doing business let’s say for 20 years; oh you might have missed a day along the way maybe even 2. Then suddenly you are caught up with a wife, kids, your career and now we are lucky YOU might manage something once or twice a week. NO ONE TOLD YOUR FUCKING PROSTATE TO STOP PRODUCING. All it knows is KEEP MAKING THAT FLUID.

Now you are in trouble and you find it more difficult to take a leak. You find I just took a leak and I have to go again. Fuck I am getting up and down at least once to twice a night to FUCKING PEE. By some stroke we have the need to make OUR MR. HAPPY do something. We get in a quick JO session and OH FUCK I forgot how great that felt. So for 3 or 4 days we follow this routine. Without realizing it, we aren’t trucking to pee as much and may only wake up once to pee at night.

We are not getting yearly physicals which should actually start at age 30 as far as I am concerned. If you were in the military, you got a physical once a year no matter the age. With your first physical, you need to have the finger exam performed. This is so important especially at an earlier point in our life so we know exactly the size of our prostate.

I shudder to think of all the post and guys who have had radiation or surgery on their prostate. I have a story to relate and this is God’s honest truth as it was given to me. A man had visited his doctor at some point in time long before he retired. The doc was one of the good ones and did the physical correctly and prescribed Testosterone for this individual. His levels came up and he felt like a million dollars. Sex and making love were GREAT and ALL HIS PLUMBLING worked fine. He retired somewhere after that he had a physical and other than a minor BP (blood pressure) problem was the picture of health, alright the normal aches and pains we have at 65. He went home and now without the insurance he once had, decided that a $30.00 per month co-pay was too much and since he was just fine decided to stop taking his “T”.

He noticed during the next year he had put on some extra pounds, was more tired all the time and nothing much was happening in bed anymore. He went for his yearly physical to discover that he had to have prostate surgery like right now. His PSA was high and with the surgery you know the rest of this story.

It is my firm belief form all the medical knowledge I have, from all the doctors I have worked with and from personal experience had this man continued as he had started he would never have gone under the knife. How sad and tragic. I doubt there are many connected with Frank Talk who take a greater number of meds in one day than I do. (a total of 29 daily) If your doctor does all the right things and prescribes something for you, and you are feeling like a million dollars why would you just up and stop taking your medication for say $360.00 per year.

It is a WELL KNOWN FACT THAT EVERY MAN’S TESTOSTERONE LEVEL STARTS TO DROP AFTER OR AT ABOUT 20 YEARS OF AGE. Some don’t start to notice the drop till their mid 20’s while others don’t see it till about their 30’s. Anything past that and we are in denial. I believe the max cost without insurance for a “T” level test is about $150.00 bucks. Yet he will see all these ads on TV or radio commercials and spend hundreds to even thousands of dollars trying to capture so called FREE TESTOSTERONE. I don’t want to bust the bubble here but there is no such animal floating around in our body and this is one hundred percent JUNK SCIENCE.

I had the opportunity to meet a guy recently and when he told me he was 82 I almost dropped dead. I was actually dumb founded. I thought he was about my age and people tell me I don’t look like in 1 1/2 more years I will be 70 either. I know a lot of men who take “T” and none look their age and in bed none of them perform like they are as old as they say. Fucking amazing!!!!

I want, I beg for your responses. My next post may well be a long one and I don’t want to have to divide it as I am concern some of the meaning could be lost. If I discover a breaking point I may post it in parts. I want to do illustrations along with pictures of different devices, where they may be purchased and the cost.

Thanks for allowing me to share so many years of knowledge and training. A fair amount of my training I learned from some of the finest doctors and some, yes some from the on-the-job or the school of hard knocks. I will most likely post some funnies as I like to have fun: GUYS THIS IS REAL STUFF AND I ACTUALLY TAKE IT SERIOUS. I had a PM from a member and he said he had been a member on FT for a long time. He said he has read almost every post – “Yet, never had he read anything more detailed, factual and well put to understand”. I will do my best. If there is something you don’t understand, make a post/send me a PM. I try to scan thru “Your Prostate” at least 2 or 3 times a day just to make sure I don’t miss something from you, the members of “Frank Talk” might ask. I am very serious and very straight forward and you should know by now, I am NOT SHY. I am not shy when it comes to this topic all because guys are living far below where they could live and are able to have so much more in their sexual life. MEN ARE MADE DIFFERENT THAN WOMEN. If all goes right we could make a baby at 200 if we wanted. The point is: Our needs are far different and our bodies work different. SET AND MATCH!!!!

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Re: Your Prostate

Postby handfulWES » Mon Feb 04, 2019 4:55 pm

Guys, I am about to make a major post here. I want to cover the use of toys in addition to the use of a real dick. If this offends you, I would suggest you stop reading at this point. I would ask that you keep an open mind and stay focused on the positives of prostate massage. Not only is it very healthy but your overall sexual gratification is raised to a level beyond most individuals expectations. I am 68 and will be 69 this year. I am capable of having multiple orgasms and still cum a bucket of cum. You may ask how often I am capable of this and I would answer, I’m not sure. I will say that having sex daily posses no problem. Most of the time, I generally prefer to skip a day all because the next day is often bigger and better than the last time.

Till you body shakes from head to toe, feel as if you will pass completely out, scream OH FUCK, OH MY GOD or any such verbiage you haven't lived. For years my PSA has been in the point somethings and my last one was 1.3 and I believe that was because it was late in the day rather than earlier in the morning. I don't have a cholesterol problem or a sugar problem, as I am the opposite, my sugar will generally not go over 75. People tell me I don't look as if I am about to be 69 and I don't have overly saggy skin anywhere. I don't exactly work out but I have nice broad shoulders, very strong hands that are also gentle and a sex drive equal to any fucking teenager except better. I know more than the teenager. LOL

I am again, going to try and illustrate this and give links to items shown, the cost and where they might be purchased at reasonable prices. I will also do my best to have illustrations of using some of these items as a picture is worth a thousand words, I am told.

I have been asked about posting some video of my working on an actual subject. I also have a volunteer for this video. I am sure I will have to clear this with the Administrative guys of Frank Talk. THERE IS ONE OTHER THING: I need to have your feedback on this as to a YES or NO answer. I think if you don’t want to post directly to “Your Prostate” you could send your answer in a PM to “handfulWES” and I will forward the results to Admin.

I am cutting thru the chase here and you know I’m neither shy nor bashful on this topic or anything related there too. As men, we have lived our lives with little to no knowledge on any of these topics. We have learned from trial and error and mostly the error part. I doubt there is a man alive who hasn’t had to fight PE issues, ED issues either separate or both at the same time. I know from my first experience with a partner I had a ton of PE issues and I worked very hard to make things take longer. I fought ED issues starting at about 19 1/2 and by 27, sex was almost impossible with either female or male. I was crushed, miserable and just wanted to give up.

Now at 68 1/2 I am way more the man I was before 27 because at 27 I discovered I had no “T” level. That made a big difference in my ED issues but I still had to fight with them. By the time I reached into my 30’s the ED issues were climbing and by 41 1/2 I was at the end of my rope so to speak. I managed to have an implant after 3 tries had one that actually worked and I was off and running.

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Re: Your Prostate

Postby handfulWES » Thu Feb 07, 2019 5:01 pm

Guys, I haven't stopped posting on this topic. I have many things going on one major one is moving from one apartment to another. I also have a friend in rehab and she has dementia setting in and since I am having to take care of her affairs along with mine my time is short. I did a stupid and I started another thread which it too is important. I am receiving a number of important questions that need to have an answer NOW. PLEASE stay with me and I have another segment almost ready. I need to get my illustrations correct so that I can post. I will tell you this one is close to a book.

Not sure if you care but I do all my own keyboarding of text. I actually believe I am well over 90 WPM in my keyboarding. If only my brain could move as fast as my fingers. LOL That's fine for all the guys under 50 your day is fast approaching. See, I am looking at almost 70 and as my best friend Steve would say ready for the nursing home LIKE HELL I AM. They might throw me out because I may try to fuck all the staff. LOL

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Re: Your Prostate

Postby handfulWES » Thu Feb 21, 2019 9:51 pm

We are not getting yearly physicals which should actually start by at least age 30 as far as I am concerned you should start earlier. If you were in the military, you got a physical once a year no matter the age. With your first physical, you need to have the finger exam performed. This is so important especially at an earlier point in our life so we know exactly the size of our prostate.

I shudder to think of all the post by guys who have had radiation or surgery on their prostate. I have a story to relate and this is God’s honest truth as it was given to me. A man had visited his doctor at some point in time long before he retired. The doc was one of the good ones and did the physical correctly and prescribed Testosterone for this individual. His levels came up and he felt like a million dollars. Sex and making love were GREAT and ALL HIS PLUMBING worked fine. He retired and knew he was due a physical, had the physical and other than a minor BP (blood pressure) problem was the picture of health, alright the normal aches and pains we have at 65 and plus. Doctor commented that his prostate was healthy and his PSA was great. He went home and now without the insurance he once had, decided that a $30.00 per month co-pay was too much and since he was just fine decided to stop taking his “T”.

He noticed during the next year he had put on some extra pounds, was more tired all the time and nothing much was happening in bed anymore. He went for his yearly physical to discover that he had to have prostate surgery like right now. His PSA was high and with the surgery you know the rest of this story. It is my firm belief form all I know had this guy continued his treatment as prescribed taking care of his prostate he would have been fine. If your doctor does all the right things and prescribes something for you, and you are feeling like a million dollars why would you just up and stop taking your medication for say $360.00 per year.

It is a WELL KNOWN FACT THAT EVERY MAN’S TESTOSTERONE LEVEL STARTS TO DROP AFTER OR AT ABOUT 20 YEARS OF AGE. Some don’t start to notice the drop till their mid 20’s while others don’t see it till about their 30’s and there are some that the drop off is really slow and some into their 40’s. Anything past that and we are often in denial. I believe the max cost without insurance for a “T” level test is about $150.00 bucks. Yet we will see all these ads on TV or radio commercials and spend hundreds to even thousands of dollars trying to capture so called FREE TESTOSTERONE AND BOOSTERS. I don’t want to bust the bubble here, from what other guys tell me it doesn’t work. I actually asked one of my doctors about this and he said “if it was that easy we would be prescribing these things for our patients. Sure there are herbs that help to make us a bit horny but horny just isn’t enough to make ALL OUR PLUMBING WORK.

I had the opportunity to meet a guy recently and when he told me he was 82 I almost dropped dead. I was actually dumb founded. I thought he was about my age and people tell me I don’t look like in 1 1/2 years I will be 70. I know a lot of men who take “T” and none look their age and in bed none of them perform like they are as old as they say. Fucking amazing!!!!

Now we start with the meat of this segment. SO WHAT DO WE DO AS MEN TO MAKE SURE THAT OUR PROSTATE IS SAFE AND WILL CONTINUE WORKING AS IT SHOULD?

The first thing is we need a physical and a good one. Your doctor needs to turn every button, screw, run a full batter of blood test, take urine samples and he actually should take a sample of prostate fluid while he does the finger exam. Now we have a base to start with and we will know exactly where we are. You say I am only 30 or 28 or whatever age, I don’t fucking care DO THE DAMN PHYSICAL. MOST IMPORTANT FIND OUT WHAT THE FUCK YOUR “T” LEVEL IS. If it is border line ask about using the “T” gel. It isn’t all that expensive, easy to use and generally after about 10 to 14 days you will have a new spring in your step. I will add right here, there are some who may be like myself and the gel may make your shoulders ache. If this is the case then “T” injections may be a better solution or the pellets that are inserted. I do the injections every 2 weeks at a rate of 200mgs and I fly. MAKE SURE THAT YOUR "T" LEVELS STAY IN A NORMAL RANGE. EXCESSIVE "T" LEVELS CAUSE MAJOR PROBLEMS.

Then what is next? You need to learn the secret of your prostate and how to make it healthier. This requires you taking NO MAKING some time to invest in the one small organ that will make Mr. Happy believe he has blown his head right off your shaft. Now your whole body is part of your entire sexual explosion, not just some small contractions at the base of your dick. Where you feel those small little contractions at the base of your dick stretching thru your entire body, the orgasms reach a point and your eyes roll back in your head; you sweat like a horse, tremble and shake from such intense powerful orgasms and your ejaculation leaves you totally wasted. You now understand all that you were missing for so many years, just fucking amazing.

This segment will cover the use of prostate toys of varying sizes and should you have a male partner you may already know the pleasures from the use of a dick in your backdoor. I know there are some guys who are only a top, so right now I am speaking to you. You need to develop your own backdoor for the experienced I just described.

USING TOYS: Toys are an excellent way to get in touch or in tune with your prostate. Let me say don’t expect the excitement from a 4th of July fireworks on your first try. In fact it may take a dozen sessions to even make 1/5 of the 4th of July fireworks. THE POINT IS: (my famous clause) you have to find it, teach it and your head, the one sitting on your shoulders, not the one between your legs what is going on. Our brain is truly the beginning and end for sexual enjoyment. I HERE YOU GUYS, you sound like some of the quack doctors I have seen. No I am not like them in the least but as guys we feel our horny in several places. Yes, in our dicks, but a feeling that sweeps our body, where does that start, you guessed it in our subconscious brain and transmitted all the way thru our body to the head which swings between our legs. It really isn’t the reverse. Yes, a good “T” level helps greatly with being horny.

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LET’S JUST JUMP INTO SOME TOYS. I posted some things just above this for you to look at

I don’t find my toy listed but I did see one just like it but with the remote. It may well be in the 7 pages on Amazon which I have given you the link at the bottom of this post. I can’t tell you which one would be the best for you. Some have more hook than others and some will be bigger than others. The one like I have is great for a beginner or for someone who is experienced with backdoor play.

The second illustration is to give you an idea of the way your toy should be inserted.

NOTE: I always wash my toys before and after use. For a toy this small, and since I hate condoms anyway, I don’t use one. There are cleaners you may purchse but I use an antibacterial soap and rather warm water to wash up before use and after. A really cold toy can make it even more difficult to get inside. Notice that the toy is curved slightly after its head. Its shape is such that it actually resembles that of the finger. This is a small toy and should slip in real easy. NOTE: Make sure you have taken a dump and don’t have junk inside. If you do it will make inserting almost impossible. Lube well with Astroglide. BIG NOTE: Do not get this lube on your dick as it will go sticky right off and even using other lubes you will end up washing to start over. I keep a wet washcloth to wipe off my hand.

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If you aren’t use to using your backdoor then take some lube on your finger spread it around on the outside and push some inside. Now you are ready to start to insert your toy. This particular toy is very easy to insert because the tip is firm enough that it may be done sitting, standing or lying down as I have tried all 3 ways. ADDING: I chose this one because this was like half price. IN MY PLACES TO LOOK AT DIFFERENT TOYS – BE SURE TO GET ONE WITH A REMOTE AND WATER PROOF.

INSERT TILL THE BASE TILL IT IS RESTING IN YOUR ASS CARCK. Make sure that the on/off button is facing your dick. Look at 2nd illustration for placement.

This toy has one small draw back. It is a bit more difficult to stay in if you want to move around. Here is what I do to help that problem. After it is in I will ease it out. NEVER just yank it out. Once it is out use a paper towel to wipe your toy off. Then ease it back in as there should be more than enough lube inside for inserting.

This toy vibrates with a number of different settings. I personally don’t prefer a constant vibration but I like the ones that actually feel as if it thrusting inside. I actually have this toy in my collection and even if you are experienced using something in your backdoor, as I am, I do enjoy this toy.

In the process of this as your prostate begins to feel the impulses it will tighten up and actually make a very small movement down. When this takes place the tip end that was just slightly over the top of the gland as it hardens and moves slightly downward will soon come to test in the curve. As more of the impulses strikes the prostate the more it will tighten up and again it will move till the gland is fully resting in the curve. This gives the maximum effect from your massage.

BIG NOTE: It isn’t unusual to sometimes stop to take a dump. Especially for those of you who aren’t in the habit of using something vibrating in their ass. I posted earlier about getting clean inside and that is an excellent thing, DON’T OVER DO IT. If your dump is rather solid and you know what your normal movement is, then the lower 8 inches should be rather clean. If on the other hand, your movement was semi sold, or almost a paste I then recommend using something to clean out a bit better.

Now as they say the ball is in your park. There is what is called a hands free orgasm(s) and you ejaculate. I am not a total fan of this because I like to have some stroking of the dick. I find that by stroking your dick the orgasms will be stronger and when you ejaculate it gives a more powerful punch than just a hands free experience. I have learned with guys, especially those who have some PE problems that playing with and stroking the dick helps. Again, the ball is now in your court. I like to use some porn if I am playing on my own. Visual stimulation is a huge part of sex or making love. Having a partner to assist in this is even better. This isn’t about the partner getting off or having sex. This experience is about you and what you feel. I didn’t say a constant stroking or things will end so fast you will not know exactly what took place other than the nut you bust may well be the most intense one of your life. I don’t advocate dragging this out for a long period of time.

The goal here is to separate your orgasms from ejaculation. Even with a toy and better yet, one that will stay in place and not drop out at every move will allow you movement on your toy. If I am on my own, I like to often sit on my toy and move around some. I cover a pillow with a heavy towel and I can move around and if I am on the sofa, I actually can do an up and down motion. This alone will increase pressure or decrease pressure on the prostate causing a hundred different sensations, and often all at the same time. This movement either by hand, sitting on it or having someone who moves it slightly could cause you to cum. Generally, if your dick is or isn’t being stroked and you have learned to talk and say I’m going to cum that person should cease any movement and actual just freeze. If you are working on your own I know how difficult it is to stop certain processes so if you yield and give in, by all means grab your dick and go for it. This also applies if you have a partner. Tell your partner or grab your dick yourself and work it as it will prove to be an intense experience. There is always tomorrow or your next session. REMEMBER: This will take some time to develop. I haven’t ever had a guy who didn’t bust a nut rather quickly in the beginning. The goal is to make each session last a bit longer so that you discover the difference between ORGASMS and EJACULATION. Yes, ejaculation enhances the last orgasm but you are capable of having more than one orgasm where as with ejaculation, when you nut, you busted your nut and the vast majority of us need recovery time. Something else I have learned, I will not go for a second round of working the prostate. I find it is far less satisfying and often it just doesn’t feel all that great.

LET ME ADD, you will not learn this over night! Resign yourself to the fact this might take several months BUT during this time, you will have more and more mind blowing orgasms and ejaculations. Even if you only have the orgasm slightly before you ejaculate both should be stronger and harder than usual. LET’S note here, I don’t recommend this regiment of therapy every day. For those who are taking “T” like me, no matter the age, we tend to find ourselves horny all the time. If you are completely honest with yourself, you find if you skip a day, you are far hornier the 3rd day.

Since I have stopped here to talk about HORNY, just remember HORNY is a good thing. Learn to make your horny work for you. Yes, there are many times that I might have a JO session several days in a row, there is nothing wrong with that. I have learned that EVEN WITHOUT something to work my prostate, I am able to have several orgasms before I actually start cumming. I may not have as many orgasms but that wasn’t the goal. I had a desire and need which needed my attention. So I took matters in hand so to speak and I took care of business. Did I drag it way out or was it as my friend states a “30 second popper”. Well I don’t often do a “30 second popper” but it may not be a 20 to 30 minute session either. I would say more like a 10 to 15 minute, or most likely closer to 10. I don’t want to drift to far here but you get the idea.

There are so many different types of toys to use. I have given a link at the bottom for Amazon. There are 7 pages to look at toys. For the guys who never have played with their backdoor, you need to start small and work up to something larger. The old saying bigger is always better isn’t totally the case here. For many of us that are Bi or gay and we are use to having the real thing put in our backdoor, we most likely would prefer something larger than something that a beginner would start with.

I will take my own personal preference here as an illustration. In late 2017, Nov. or Dec., I saw a toy, a very expensive toy, and I purchased it at half price. The toy arrived and when I had unboxed the damn thing my exact words were “Fuck, oh Fuck look at the size of that damn thing”. This thing was fucking huge. Yes, I had handled some tools as larger or larger but they were the human type but the first bulb on the end was bigger than the glands on any dick and this was ridged. I looked at it for a few moments, hooked it up to charge and came back to it about an hour later. I checked it was fully charged, I knew my backdoor was clean.

I applied ample lube to my backdoor, more than ample to the toy and I proceeded to work it in. OH HELL NO it would go. I had a bright idea; I would sit on the toilet and give it a try. This thing wouldn’t go without ripping me a whole new ass hole. There was actually no give to this damn thing. I thought and I had an idea that I would start with something smaller and work up in size. After working with 3 other toys all smaller but did increase in size I decided I would try this bad ass thing. Again I set on the toilet because this actually helps take pressure off your backdoor as if you pulled your ass check apart. I still couldn’t get it in and I knew I had a dick as big or bigger before. I decided I would use a different toy and I took care of business. I found an old butt plug and decided I would put it in and go to sleep that night. I went to sleep and damn if I didn’t have a wet dream. It wasn’t long that I woke up to a cold sticky mess. Well I pulled the damn thing out, took a leak and went back to sleep, dried mess and all. I was very busy the next day and by the next day I decided I would try my new toy one more time. I used several toys and decided to try the new one.

Well the damn thing went in with some effort and now I had the first bulb inside wondering if I had split my backdoor open. As I sat there I push some more and the second bulb was in and now it actually felt like a really huge dick. It was shaped somewhat correctly as the prostate when it moved would be cradled between the 2 balls. I finished sliding it in and to test how well it would stay in I stood up and damn that felt rather good. I went in my bedroom as I was all alone to watch some porn on my computer. All the while this toy was starting to do what it was designed to do. I turned it on and ran thru the different settings and realized I was pouring a river of PRE. I turned it off but realized I could squeeze down on the damn thing and cause major pleasure sensations go thru me. I could sit on it and wiggle which with the squeezing was starting to bring on small little orgasms.

I turned the damn thing back on, found a pulsating setting I liked for the top bulb and one for the bottom. I was still squeezing and moving my ass on it and my orgasms were getting bigger, my Ralph was working on his own as I started to inflate my implant some. I needed no lube to stroke and I realized after about 3 strokes I would bust a nut so fast it would all be over. I turned off my device and continued my manual movements with no set pattern of stroking. I guess 20 minutes had passed and I turned it back on to the setting I liked and I put my feet up on the end of the bed as I slowly stroked my dick. The orgasms were cumming rather fast and getting harder all the time. I was sure I was going to blow at any time but I just continued the slow stroke. At last I couldn’t slow stroke and I picked up the pace. The orgasms were almost constant and I didn’t fucking care. I was already shaking when I had that major last orgasm a pause and I busted my nut which I thought would never stop. Talk about shaking and my lights went out as my eye balls rolled back in my head. All I wanted was that damn device turned off and I was having trouble finding the off button. I found it and realized that damn thing had to come out as well. I managed to get a hold of it and pull it out letting it just drop to the floor. I was kicked back in my office chair, feet up on the bed and I went to sleep for well over an hour.

This experience didn’t happen overnight, it happened from years of trial and error. I learned things from different doctors, actually some from porn videos but the most I learned was from working with guys so they could enjoy an experience such as what I described above. I doubt I will be able to write enough instructions here; as my goal is to lay a foundation on which you will be able to build. I recently meet a guy who actually discovered this on his own. His didn’t happen overnight either. I felt that inserting my story would or might spark more interest for you to try.

Try you ask? YES, because this will keep you a healthy prostate gland. Even if you don’t make having multiple orgasms, your prostate needs the massage and again massage will also make your orgasm and ejaculation far more powerful and stronger. I know many, many men that they are elated just to have that. They actually are back to shooting over their head and hitting the wall behind them. Guys in their 50’s and up have this capability and some never had that capability. If this will insure a healthy prostate and you take care of yourself, eat correctly, have your “T” checked and drop some of those damn extra pounds; you will feel better, you will feel sexy and your horny will start to return. I know about the weight thing as I had reached 302 and I have lost almost 60 pounds. The weight just crept up and I am not totally sure what I did to lose the weight. My doctor was concerned and ran enough test but found nothing. I did stop all the sodas and I didn’t drink much of those to start with. I stopped the sweet tea as well. At Steve’s I will drink a glass of sweet tea at night but I replaced so much of what I drank with plain COLD water, except for my coffee which I drink LIKE A MAN – BLACK AND UNPOLLUTED. LOL

I will in close a link for toys. This is a bad time of the year unless you hit a sale or you make a first order from some of the places like Adam & Eve or other toy vendors on your first order giving some special discount on one item. The one I used in my illustration, I only paid $19.00 for it but that was after “Black Friday”. I like Amazon as they have a huge selection. If you view something, put it in your “wish list” generally they will in a few days send you a notice that it is now on a special. Hell, I don’t have a problem buying these type things from them. I use Amazon for a ton of my shopping.

GUYS: I have one more segment that I want to do. I will need to be moved into my new apartment so that I will be free to do the video demonstrating this. I have a subject who has volunteered. I think I have actually come up with an idea. I don’t feel good about posting what could be considered porn HANG IN HERE: when in fact it is an illustration. I actually believe a cloud account would be the way to go. I want to run this past our Admin and see what they think. I was going to just post short (very short) segments but this way I could post about a 45 minute session. I have also thought about a solo video using myself as the subject. I intend to give instructions without taking away from what is happening. I have to get my desktop up and running so I have a way to edit if need be.

In closing here, please ask questions. If you don’t want to post your question, send it to me in a PM. I would ask that you let me copy out your question or statement and only post that to the tread. Your handle or name will never show up. I learned a long time ago, if one person has a question there many more asking the same question. I have tried to read thru this several times to make sure it reads correctly. Not as an excuse, I have what is called a “Low Vision Problem”. What this means, I don’t see so well close up, like reading, working on the computer or playing the piano where I read music. A number of years ago, I had an accident with a wire brush on a bench grinder where a bristle flew off and landed square in my eye and yes I was using safety glasses. I found something I forgot to clean and only had it on for less than 2 minutes with no safety glasses. For each facet of these things I have a different pair of glasses. My far distance vision is better than 20/20 and I had to renew my driving permit and I passed the eye test. I do struggle to make my post. I ask that you also forgive me in not getting this segment finished sooner. I am still packing up the old place and I don’t have a move in date yet.

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68, single, have had an implant since I was 42. Goals: to help men with ED; help men over come years of failure; to know their bodies; have a richer fuller sex life whether they or straight, Bi or gay. last I traveled this road starting in the late 60's

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Re: Your Prostate

Postby ChosenOne619 » Fri Mar 01, 2019 1:12 am

Lol I remember being young before puberty wrestling with just my underwear with a kid who was 13 and he got on my back and whether on accident or something he got an erection and pushed against my prostate through my underwear. I felt demasculated and humiliated lol so weird. My response to me even trying to put a finger up there causes me to cringe and reject it. But maybe one day or maybe not. Right now it's not my thing and I don't plan on adding it to my menu
22 year old male with Ed since I could remember. Tried sildenafil 20mg per pill went up to 4 pills didn't work and side effect were getting to me. San Diego, California where I reside


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