Relationship with no sex

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Re: Relationship with no sex

Postby Lost Sheep » Tue Nov 27, 2018 9:13 pm

I am a believer in honesty with your partner. Level with her about EVERYTHING. Women are incredibly supportive with a man who demonstrates that he trusts her.

Ask if she would share her opinion and feelings about ALL the various solutions and prove to her that you are as much or more committed with her pleasure than with yours. Oral sex, mechanical aids (toys) etc. Also study up on sensual non-sexual ways to please her. Back rubs, foot rubs, scalp massage while you shampoo her hair. All the stuff they do in luxury spas.

And that is just physical stuff. You can please a woman with all manner of mental and emotional pleasures as well. That kind of supportive behavior from her man is tremendously attractive and pleasing to a woman.

Good Luck

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Re: Relationship with no sex

Postby AnotherOldMan » Wed Nov 28, 2018 8:08 am

I am turning 24 this year

From your most recent post it seems your choices are limited. Medical technology as it exists today points to an implant if you desire piv sex. Ten years from now who knows, but given your medical history it is hard to imagine anything else as effective. Implants have the highest rate of satisfaction of any ED solution.
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Re: Relationship with no sex

Postby Grayfox » Wed Nov 28, 2018 6:36 pm

I don't think a relationship completely without sex is possible. Women do have physical needs. However, there are other ways of having sex without actual intercourse.
My first girlfriend after the passing of my wife was an absolute angel with the patience of Job. It was with her that I discovered the viagra didn't work any more. She hung in there with me while I experimented with other pills and shots to no avail. However, the whole time we enjoyed a very good sex life through manual and oral stimulation. When I finally found success with the pump, we were both thrilled.
BTW: have you tried a pump (VED)? I think it would probably work for you and its one hell of a lot cheaper than an implant. ;)
Developed ED after Heart attack and by-pass in 2000. Used pills for years, but they don't work anymore. Shots don't work. Currently on the pump. Waiting for medicare & hoping for an implant.

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Re: Relationship with no sex

Postby AnotherOldMan » Thu Nov 29, 2018 7:03 am

You do know this is a men only web site?
To get realistic answers you would need to include females.
Females from your age group and from your section of the globe.

This would be the place for expert advice on managing your ed and it is a great resource
if you decide on an implant.
Would not be my choice for advice on sexless, 2018 relationships with 20 year old, eastern European, women.
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Re: Relationship with no sex

Postby Larry10625 » Thu Nov 29, 2018 1:07 pm

I do believe that women would be supportive and say that they would agree with toys and oral, etc. I just think that down the road they are going to be in the presence of some good looking guy that will put the moves on her and she will start to think about what she is missing. Of course, I hope I would be wrong, unfortunately, I don't think I am... just my 2 cents. :(

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Re: Relationship with no sex

Postby oldbeek » Sat Dec 01, 2018 2:59 pm

At your age maybe you do not know how to lick her pussy correctly. The most intense orgasm we ever had was me licking her with my fingers, one full depth up her ass and the other finger in her pussy rubbing her G spot while licking her and sucking on her hard libia. Meanwhile I am rubbing my dick on the sheets of the bed. When she started to flow and orgasm pounding my face and holding her pussy lips open for me, I was covered in sweet pussy sticky juice from forehead to my neck and I came and came while looking up towards her face to watch her face during this intense multiple orgasms. Since that day on she always preferred oral to a hard dick. Just one mans experience of fucking for over 60 years. In our dating years we only engaged in manual and oral sex. those times were different. you just didn't jump into bed. That was saved for your wedding night.
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Re: Relationship with no sex

Postby alfa88 » Sat Dec 01, 2018 5:15 pm

Have you tried a VED (vacuum erection device),aka penis pump? With your med. history insurance may pay for it. That's my go to for the next to last resort (last is implant) and with 2 tension bands it's just about fool proof. Aint perfect but gets the job done. ;)
53 years old, married 32 years. Lifetime ED & PE. Tried Viagra W & W/O T-Shots, Levitra and Cialis, Edex with poor results. VED is a last resort.

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Re: Relationship with no sex

Postby chonky » Mon Dec 03, 2018 5:05 pm

I don't believe that is possible. It would have to be a relationship where there is some form of oral and other stimulation plus she would have the option of having sex with others .
64 Periodic ED since 20's due to venous leakage. Pills stopped working . Implanted 3/2012 removed 6/2012 in a"WTF Moment" after several complications.

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