My story so far

[HLB52111]

Thanks AL. Well things have changed as of today. My wife ,L was changing bed sheets when I made a comment of hoping on the fresh sheets and letting me make love to her. She replied kind of frustrated,‘don’t you get it? I have no desire to have sex with you ever again’. I find it rather ironic that she told me not to dwell on the past, but to focus on the now and the future. But she sure brings up the past 13 years with out hesitancy when it suits her state of mind. I have no desire to leave her, but i told her that i could not endure a sexless marriage. Her response was many marriages are sexless and endure.
So as of this moment she is going to contact Dr. R in regards to marriage counselor and if no joy with him she will try to set up a counselor thru her/our insurance co. In the mean time i head in for a brain scan MRI on Monday.

[HLB52111]

She is wIlling to go to a marriage counselor, we just have to find one that deals with traumatic brain injury clients with limited memory.

[Al1962]

Sorry, I hope the best for you.

[HLB52111]

Thanks Al. Just spent 30 min with wife discussing my entry in daily diary where I review info constantly. Her response was ‘not now’ instead of ‘no I never want to have sex with you again ever’. Oh boy, I really messed that up. My memory is not so good. I often don’t record things accurately. I really value her discussing things with me and getting them accurately entered into diary. She did mention how the diary entries made her look and sound like a b**ch. I’m not an innocent victim. I just don’t accurately recall them. Just hope we can get to a marriage counselor soon. The saga continues.