Wife's lost interest, but still jealous.

[Bigdave]

OLD GUY wrote " Oh well, I could be single and get none." Sad but true or just as bad be in a sexless relationship ..but not allowed to have playmates .. leaves you few options in life ..

Ain't that the truth. It really sucks that she doesn't understand what she's doing to MY health, both mental and physical.

[Old Guy]

OLD GUY wrote " Oh well, I could be single and get none." Sad but true or just as bad be in a sexless relationship ..but not allowed to have playmates .. leaves you few options in life ..

Yes, a sexless marriage is about the same as being single, except as a single there is no guilt IF you're able to get some sex.
One thing I do is use toys. Still feel guilty about masturbating without the wife but got to relieve the pressure somehow.

[ready2go]

Hello guys , i am in the same situation as you here .
my wife a few months ago said she didn't want sex as it 'hurt" , suddenly .
she is 59 but went into menopause years ago .
so after reading posts here , i told her to have her blood checked and ask for hormone replacement therapy .
so first while in the philippines , she did that .[ turns out she is borderline diabetic ], but they only gave her what amounts as a herb supplement to treat menopause symptoms. no HRT . so she took a trip to usa to visit family and went to a clinic there.
They said . NO! , HRT is risky !
wth!? did your wives go through this trying to be treated ? risky? living with a dried up painful vagina is not worth trying available proven meds to resolve the issue and have a normal life again ?
what is our next move ? of course, trying to find a reasonable doctor . but if the guys here who had their wife go through with the HRT successfully ,could share how their experience was to obtain the proper meds went , that would be helpful .
Thanks .

[Bigdave]

Hello guys , i am in the same situation as you here .
my wife a few months ago said she didn't want sex as it 'hurt" , suddenly .
she is 59 but went into menopause years ago .
so after reading posts here , i told her to have her blood checked and ask for hormone replacement therapy .
so first while in the philippines , she did that .[ turns out she is borderline diabetic ], but they only gave her what amounts as a herb supplement to treat menopause symptoms. no HRT . so she took a trip to usa to visit family and went to a clinic there.
They said . NO! , HRT is risky !
wth!? did your wives go through this trying to be treated ? risky? living with a dried up painful vagina is not worth trying available proven meds to resolve the issue and have a normal life again ?
what is our next move ? of course, trying to find a reasonable doctor . but if the guys here who had their wife go through with the HRT successfully ,could share how their experience was to obtain the proper meds went , that would be helpful .
Thanks .

My wife is on HRT. She uses a hormone vaginal cream twice a week, but it's made little difference, unfortunately.
She had no issues getting her Ob/Gyn to prescribe it.