- Chuck
Bigdave wrote:The wife has had increasing pain during sex, and doesn't really want it anymore.
Wife's lost interest, but still jealous.
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Kodixx
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Re: Wife's lost interest, but still jealous.
Bigdave, does she try to take care of your needs in other ways besides piv ? Said another way, does she try to take care of you in ways that are not painful for her ?
- Chuck
- Chuck
Feb 2025 - 58 yo, 38 with greatest wife ever
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", post-op @ 5 mo L: 6.75" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, only minor discomfort @ 10 wks, felt like 'new normal' @ 16 wks
AMS CX, Tenacio, Dr Broghammer (excellent) - pre-op L:7", post-op @ 5 mo L: 6.75" G: 5.5"
2 wks pain, cycling-sex-lifting @ 7 wks, only minor discomfort @ 10 wks, felt like 'new normal' @ 16 wks
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Bigdave
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Re: Wife's lost interest, but still jealous.
Kodixx wrote:Bigdave, does she try to take care of your needs in other ways besides piv ? Said another way, does she try to take care of you in ways that are not painful for her ?
- ChuckBigdave wrote:The wife has had increasing pain during sex, and doesn't really want it anymore.
She will, occasionally, but only if I initiate it. She never seems to bring it up at all anymore.
I can tell that giving oral isn't her favorite, though she doesn't complain about it.
At any rate, just oral or a hand job just doesn't satisfy me.
I like to fuck pretty aggressively, and crave different positions. To really be satisfied, I need a woman who really gets off on getting oral, loves to be fucked hard and deep and can take an extended pussy pounding.
My wife used to enjoy that, but I understand that she'll never again be able to handle that kind of sex.
Age 59. AMS 700 LGX 21cm + 2cm RTE.
Peniscrotal, 2/23.
6.25" OEM with Cialis, about 5" post-op. (11/01: Length 6.75" and girth is up to 4.75" mid shaft.) Still growing, albeit slowly.
Cycling daily. Hoping to get to 7".
Peniscrotal, 2/23.
6.25" OEM with Cialis, about 5" post-op. (11/01: Length 6.75" and girth is up to 4.75" mid shaft.) Still growing, albeit slowly.
Cycling daily. Hoping to get to 7".
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ElbowRoom
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Re: Wife's lost interest, but still jealous.
Bigdave wrote:To really be satisfied, I need a woman who really gets off on getting oral, loves to be fucked hard and deep and can take an extended pussy pounding.
My wife used to enjoy that, but I understand that she'll never again be able to handle that kind of sex.
Many women don't seem to understand that the biggest turn-on for men is to be wanted and for them to want to have sex with us.
58yo Coloplast Titan implant scheduled for 10/23/2025 with Dr. Hakky. Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C
8.5"L and 6.5"C
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Martin6469
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Re: Wife's lost interest, but still jealous.
Hormone replacement therapy has turned many older wives around 180 degrees, to women who are enthusiastic about sex again. Search for this term or "HRT" here in FrankTalk and you will find guys who say this.
The hard part, of course, is getting her to a gynecologist or endocrinologist. For women who have pain during sex, advising them to see a doctor because, "It might be a physical problem," might get her foot in the door.
At age 80, my wife thinks "eighty is the new forty" and has several orgasms a week. I can only do her once a week, but she has "boyfriends" in the form of big dildos. She is enthusiastic about medical science and all it can do.
The hard part, of course, is getting her to a gynecologist or endocrinologist. For women who have pain during sex, advising them to see a doctor because, "It might be a physical problem," might get her foot in the door.
At age 80, my wife thinks "eighty is the new forty" and has several orgasms a week. I can only do her once a week, but she has "boyfriends" in the form of big dildos. She is enthusiastic about medical science and all it can do.
Age 80 in 2025. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 30 min.
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ElbowRoom
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Re: Wife's lost interest, but still jealous.
Martin6469 wrote:Hormone replacement therapy has turned many older wives around 180 degrees, to women who are enthusiastic about sex again. Search for this term or "HRT" here in FrankTalk and you will find guys who say this.
Maybe some, but not all. My wife has been on HRT for months and so far no change.
58yo Coloplast Titan implant scheduled for 10/23/2025 with Dr. Hakky. Pre-op erect measurements:
8.5"L and 6.5"C
8.5"L and 6.5"C
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