Postby BillKeel » Mon Feb 20, 2023 10:03 pm
Wolfpacker: No i have never tried Viagra. I liked the idea of Cialis in that I can be ready to go whenever, but I suppose I could try Viagra. That being said, it doesn't alleviate my concerns with my vision issues.
Lost Sheep: I usually have to have the ED conversation with a woman at one point, and many have been understanding of it, but with this woman, it's a little different situation. She's much younger, and this is probably my last chance in life to date someone as physically sexy as her. I'm almost 40, and won't have many more chances with women in their 20's (most likely). So, it's something I want to hold onto for a little longer, even though I know there's no future. Hard to explain briefly. I absolutely need to find a good urologist, as I have been to 4 now, and none of them were good.
Old Guy: I really really really like the idea of not disappointing anyone anymore. Myself included. I'm sure every guy on here knows how debilitating it is to go soft on a woman. Even during masturbation, it's quite disappointing to myself. Lol. I will heavily consider the implant, but I have incredible worry about it. Perhaps that is due to not knowing enough about it. I need to find a good urologist in my area that can install one, and I will consider paying out of pocket for it (hopefully on a payment plan).
Fran5424: I saw 3 Ophthalmologists because they all told me there was nothing I could do to fix my issue, and that it would resolve on its own. Well it hasn't 4 years later, and seems I have permanent distortion/vision loss in my right eye. The Ophthalmologists never mentioned Cialis in our conversations, that I read recently online. The only thing the doctors mentioned was that it was either from steroids (which I have never taken) or from stress (which I have been under stress my entire life, and do not handle it well). Recently, my vision got worse, and has persisted for over a week now, and I thought it was possibly related to the increase and frequency that I take Cialis, with the intention of not disappointing this current woman. Just to be clear, I'm not blind in the eye, just have distorted vision/blind spot in the center.
Grayfox: I think it's awesome that you found someone so understanding of you!
AmansinCali: I will absolutely read the Implant Journey! And I feel terrible about you losing vision in your eye. I'm already very upset about the issues I have in my right eye, but luckily it's not complete vision loss. And I have no delusions of building a future with this wonderful woman; I just feel like the luckiest man in the casino who's currently up and winning, but I know I'll have to leave the table at some point, but I want to enjoy it for now. She's the best thing that's happened to me in 10 years. One day, I will find someone closer to my age with a better chance of a future. Thank you for encouraging me not to fear the implant, because currently I do. It seems the best thing for me to do at this point is SOMEHOW find a decent urologist. I can't believe the low quality of ones that I have seen, despite great online reviews, and referrals from other men in my area. They have been either dismissive, or uninterested. I do not look like the standard ED patient, and I think that's why I'm not taken seriously despite my demands to be when I'm in the office. I look forward to reading the Implant Journey. I have questions for you, but I assume you will have answered many of them in the Implant Journey, and so I will read that first.
ED since 15 yrs or earlier.
Currently around 38 yrs.
Anxiety/Depression over ED.
Cialis 5mg daily, more when needed.
Considering implant as last effort.