Ejaculation lack

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Ahappigui
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Re: Ejaculation question????

Postby Ahappigui » Tue Oct 03, 2017 2:58 am

Addressing those men who have had a prostatectomy and subsequently an implant, do you have a dry orgasm when having intercourse?

graymare
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Re: Ejaculation lack

Postby graymare » Tue Oct 03, 2017 7:19 am

I didn't have a prostatectomy but that's not the only surgery that leads to a dry orgasm. TURP does too, and one reason I opted for the Urolift was to avoid that. I specifically asked my uro about that topic and he assured me the urolift was okay. I am three weeks into recovery from the urolift and am due for my check up. I masturbated (without consulting the doctor) the other day just to check if I would ejaculate and I am glad to say I did, though it was on the borderline between pain and pleasure. Apparently my urethra's sensitivity at the meatus is still pretty strong. This is what I wanted to know before my appointment.
Married, 66 yrs old, ED for 22 yrs. On TriMix for 5 yrs. Live in the Adirondacks of NY. Would be a nudist if it weren't for the black flies and the short summers. :D

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Re: Ejaculation question????

Postby David_R » Tue Oct 03, 2017 9:13 am

Ahappigui wrote:Addressing those men who have had a prostatectomy and subsequently an implant, do you have a dry orgasm when having intercourse?

I had a prostatectomy in 2000 and an implant was inserted in 2002 (replaced after 12 years in 2014). Since my prostate was removed I only have dry orgasms, even though I still have -- for whatever the reason, I'm not sure really -- precum. The orgasms feel 99% the same, I tell guys (really great ones!); there is just no feeling of the semen shooting through the penis and out into wherever it is.
Age 70. Prostatectomy in 2000. My urologist (for over 20 yrs) has been Dr. Marc Siegelbaum of Chesapeake Urology in Baltimore, and Chief of Uro. at Univ. of Md. St. Joseph Medical Center. I have LGX, and have regained my original length. (Not an ad, btw)

Larry10625

Re: Ejaculation question????

Postby Larry10625 » Tue Oct 03, 2017 11:06 am

David_R wrote:
Ahappigui wrote:Addressing those men who have had a prostatectomy and subsequently an implant, do you have a dry orgasm when having intercourse?

I had a prostatectomy in 2000 and an implant was inserted in 2002 (replaced after 12 years in 2014). Since my prostate was removed I only have dry orgasms, even though I still have -- for whatever the reason, I'm not sure really -- precum. The orgasms feel 99% the same, I tell guys (really great ones!); there is just no feeling of the semen shooting through the penis and out into wherever it is.



OK, I thought I was losing my mind... this is exactly what happens to me. The other morning I woke to a mess. I don't even remember having a sexual dream.

Larry

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Re: Ejaculation question????

Postby David_R » Tue Oct 03, 2017 7:46 pm

Larry10625 wrote:I don't even remember having a sexual dream.

I don't think we always remember our dreams, for what it's worth.
Age 70. Prostatectomy in 2000. My urologist (for over 20 yrs) has been Dr. Marc Siegelbaum of Chesapeake Urology in Baltimore, and Chief of Uro. at Univ. of Md. St. Joseph Medical Center. I have LGX, and have regained my original length. (Not an ad, btw)

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Re: Ejaculation lack

Postby ShopMan » Tue Oct 03, 2017 8:42 pm

newtoed wrote:The real question is if you orgasm or not. Since my cancer surgery and radiation I have very small amount of ejaculate but thank god my orgasms are still very intense. I don't really care, less mess and clean up.
All the best!


I should have added to my original post that I seldom have the intense orgasms either. With oral I sometimes do. But my wife is not fully into oral. I often feel like I am on the verge of an orgasm but alas it doesn't come.
Charlie
80 yrs. Married 60 years. Hypertension but under control with meds.

ED since 1995. Viagra then switched to Cialis. Both quit working.
Was on Trimix. Tri-Mix quit working. Implanted by Dr. Novak Grand Rapids, Mi 12/16/2014 AMS LGX

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Re: Ejaculation lack

Postby ShopMan » Tue Oct 03, 2017 8:47 pm

ddbryan1972 wrote:My 'milky white' left after my radiation treatment for prostate cancer. It may or may not return. I don't care. My orgasms are just as intense and a lot less messy.
Donnie

I sure envy you guys. I don't even have orgasms very often. Not like I used to. I hope no one gets the wrong idea with all of this. I am still very happy that I have my AMS700. It works well and I keep hoping that something might change orgasm wise in the near future.

Charlie
80 yrs. Married 60 years. Hypertension but under control with meds.

ED since 1995. Viagra then switched to Cialis. Both quit working.
Was on Trimix. Tri-Mix quit working. Implanted by Dr. Novak Grand Rapids, Mi 12/16/2014 AMS LGX

s888j888
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Re: Ejaculation lack

Postby s888j888 » Tue Oct 10, 2017 5:34 pm

I have problems with anorgasmia (can't come). Couple of weeks ago I bought the following: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00W8 ... UTF8&psc=1. I really doubted it would work but for $17 why not. To my surprise and delight it works. I don't get a mind blowing orgasm, but I do get one. I have only tried it twice, but in both instances I was a little tired and normally wouldn't have been able to do anything. It's pretty quick; from starting the bullet vibrators until the orgasm is about 5 minutes; and it's hands free. I got an implant early 2016 which works pretty well, other than the problem coming. So I'm curious to see if I use this for awhile will other things start to improve. I've also look at the viberect but the $299 price tag is a bit much. I have no connection to the company that makes or distributes the product.

I read that people had used maca and zinc to improve semen volume. Any other suggestions?

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Re: Ejaculation lack

Postby DaveKell » Fri Apr 06, 2018 12:28 pm

DaveKell wrote: When I was younger, laying on my back in bed and jacking off it almost seemed like I could blast a load to the ceiling. Either that or rock a woman's head back giving me a blow job. I went through a 20 plus year ED drought. No prostate issues at all. However, when I did manage to accomplish sex with my wife during this time my cum only dribbled out and it was probably only a fourth of the volume it used to be. I can jack a semi hard on watching porn and observe how much I cum. Pitiful amount, probably less than a teaspoon. Is this a universal age related occurrence? I sure miss the days of spurting out what seemed at times like a never ending amount. I used to live with a woman who literally feasted on my cum 2 or 3 times a day. She said it gave her a great complexion. She'd be a pimply mess now!


While browsing some older posts I came upon these comments I made awhile back. I spent a lot of time obsessing over how my ejaculate volume had decreased so much. I'm much less conscious of it now after 10 months with an implant. In that time, my volume has increased considerably. I guess the plumbing just needed the tune up the implant provided. While I can no longer almost shoot it to the ceiling, at least it's more like what normal, healthy functioning would be. It's a fact though I'll never be cast for a creampie porn video but I'm completely okay with that.
Became DaveKell 2.0 on July 18th with Dr. Allen Morey in Dallas, TX. AMS 700 CX implant. 18cm with 5.5 RTE's.

Larry10625

Re: Ejaculation lack

Postby Larry10625 » Fri Apr 06, 2018 2:54 pm

DaveKell wrote:
DaveKell wrote: When I was younger, laying on my back in bed and jacking off it almost seemed like I could blast a load to the ceiling. Either that or rock a woman's head back giving me a blow job. I went through a 20 plus year ED drought. No prostate issues at all. However, when I did manage to accomplish sex with my wife during this time my cum only dribbled out and it was probably only a fourth of the volume it used to be. I can jack a semi hard on watching porn and observe how much I cum. Pitiful amount, probably less than a teaspoon. Is this a universal age related occurrence? I sure miss the days of spurting out what seemed at times like a never ending amount. I used to live with a woman who literally feasted on my cum 2 or 3 times a day. She said it gave her a great complexion. She'd be a pimply mess now!


While browsing some older posts I came upon these comments I made awhile back. I spent a lot of time obsessing over how my ejaculate volume had decreased so much. I'm much less conscious of it now after 10 months with an implant. In that time, my volume has increased considerably. I guess the plumbing just needed the tune up the implant provided. While I can no longer almost shoot it to the ceiling, at least it's more like what normal, healthy functioning would be. It's a fact though I'll never be cast for a creampie porn video but I'm completely okay with that.



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Larry


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