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niarceel
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Re: frustrated

Postby niarceel » Sun Feb 02, 2020 11:35 pm

Born 1947. Live in Utah. Married 1995. 5'8". 160 lbs.
Health is very good. ED began from venous leakage (2003).
Used Cialis (2003-2017), penile injections (2018-2019), 4 implants (2020-2021), now have an AMS 700 installed.
Hobbies: Only one, my wife.

chris168
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Re: frustrated

Postby chris168 » Sun Aug 16, 2020 9:05 am

New to group. 74 healthy normal BMI no meds happily married 40+yrs. We had mostly morning sex almost daily until about a year ago and things slowed down. I have used herbals, cock rings, viagra, pumps moderately and AFAIK my organ is healthy and undamaged. Problem now is that I can't keep a nice erection (morning wood) long enough to mount her. It is like a tire going flat or something shutting off the "power". Sensation stops and it goes soft, right after lubing up. I stopped trying 6 months ago and only try to masturbate with difficulty. Sometimes hard but no sensation. Sometime soft but I ejaculate. HELP!

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bldoink
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Re: frustrated

Postby bldoink » Sun Aug 16, 2020 11:14 am

IMHO, it's time ti try one of the pills. My only experience is with Viagra.
R.R.P 2011 Mayo Jacksonville, Dr. Michael Wehle. Nerve sparing - badly damaged. C in margin. V.E.D, Viagra and PGE-1 (80mcg/ml) injections @ ~ 14 units. Originally Edex20, then compounded PGE-1 - cost. Inject. 9+ yrs. It works. Treasure coast of FL.

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Re: frustrated

Postby brickbat » Sun Aug 16, 2020 1:21 pm

[quote="chris168"]New to group. 74 healthy normal BMI no meds happily married 40+yrs. We had mostly morning sex almost daily until about a year ago and things slowed down. I have used herbals, cock rings, viagra, pumps moderately and AFAIK my organ is healthy and undamaged. Problem now is that I can't keep a nice erection (morning wood) long enough to mount her. It is like a tire going flat or something shutting off the "power". Sensation stops and it goes soft, right after lubing up. I stopped trying 6 months ago and only try to masturbate with difficulty. Sometimes hard but no sensation. Sometime soft but I ejaculate. HELP![/quote

Sounds like your next step is tri mix or quadmix.

I think you are doing great for your age. I am one year younger than you and I believe your problems are age related.

Do you think the not being able to get an erection solo is performance anxiety related? Most guys when E D sets in at any age over react to it and this can even develop into an anxiety performance syndrome. I know, and I have conquered it with the goodness of God learning to relax and meditatively enjoy the pleasure in my body either with my wife or solo.

Good luck to you. Check out urologist in your area who are friendly to progressive treatments such as trimix and quadmix

And congratulations to you bro on your sexual powers. Not many men I know as friends or relatives are going as strong sexually as you did at age 73. You are a gifted man sexually.

Don't overthink this. It only leads to despair which is a door to anxiety. Take the action you need to stay sexual with your wife as we men are geared for the intimacy of intercourse and sexual intimacy and the feeling of our erections in our wives vagina. It is who we are as men to love and feel our cocks in a loving warm vagina. Godspeed on adjusting to the challenges of age and staying sexual.
74 years young GYMRAT. Married 48 years. On cialis 5mg daily. Into MMOs, prostate orgasms, and ruined orgasms to help erectile health. Thinking of an implant. Monogamy is good for a man.

barrylandon
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Re: frustrated

Postby barrylandon » Thu Jan 21, 2021 9:24 pm

Holy shit, dude...you could get up/get off until age 74 without so much as a pill! You are a true god in my book!! As suggested, the next step is injection of Bi-Mix (alprostodil and phentolomine) or Tri-Mix (alprostodil, phentolomine and papaverine). So, based on your super human powers, you should probably start thinking about an implant in your mid-to-late 90s!! :D
Implanted 5/6/20 by Dr. Jesse Mills at UCLA; AMS 700 LGX 18 cm w/2 cm RTEs. I'm 73 & fit but had ED for 20 years. Pills/injections ultimately failed, including 3 ER trips for Priapism; Shockwave & embryonic stem cell therapies didn't help either.

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Re: frustrated

Postby oldbeek » Fri Feb 19, 2021 2:25 am

Wife and I were still having sex several times a week up till 75 when I had PC. Several times a day when younger. I have to think erotic thoughts to come now. It really turns me on to rub her lubed up anus with my thumb because that has been a no zone for quite a few years.
79, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .08 11/18,.07 1/19,.05 4/19, .06 2/20 Pain with trimix, implant 4-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6 x 4.5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

barrylandon
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Re: frustrated

Postby barrylandon » Sun Feb 21, 2021 1:59 am

Congrats on getting your wife to allow you anywhere near her anus! That's been a "no fly" zone for the 40 years that my wife and I have been together. Maybe she'll eventually change by the time I reach your age! :lol:
Implanted 5/6/20 by Dr. Jesse Mills at UCLA; AMS 700 LGX 18 cm w/2 cm RTEs. I'm 73 & fit but had ED for 20 years. Pills/injections ultimately failed, including 3 ER trips for Priapism; Shockwave & embryonic stem cell therapies didn't help either.


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