Can't get off :-(

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Re: Can't get off :-(

Postby Howling8 » Thu Oct 26, 2023 6:22 pm

Fuckedy wife in every orifice at her request for an hour and a half and couldn’t come. Even using my pocket pussy. Bummer too because I did NOFAP for a week. It worked the last time. Patience I guess is in order.
67 yr old, married 20 yrs,
Cialis, Trimix since 2004
MIA in 2004
Implanted by Dr Guise on 10/28/21
Pre-op: 6.3" length 6" girth
14 mos post op: 6.5" lento and 5.75 girth on shaft and 6" at the base

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Re: Can't get off :-(

Postby scharff » Sat Nov 18, 2023 7:58 am

It can be frustrating. The worst time for me was when she tried everything to get me off including her great oral skills. But her arm got tired of the hand job and her jaw got tired from oral and She got dry after climaxing herself a few times. But an hour later she suggested mutual masturbation and we both lubed up. Voila, within 20 minutes we were both moaning. Go figure, but I wish it was more predictable.

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Re: Can't get off :-(

Postby Alan810 » Sat Nov 18, 2023 4:23 pm

I had the same issue. I think in my case I was trying too hard - every time I was getting the feeling, it was like I was forcing the issue and not relaxing. When I realized I was tensing myself and stopped worrying about it, I would finally have an orgasm (unfortunately retrograde but it is what it is). I find it much easier to take care of her first and then worry about me with her help and her vibrator. PIV can happen on rare occasions, but her orgasms come on quick with almost no notice and are too intense for her for me to continue. Worrying about it just makes conditions worse.
85 yrs old. Married 42 yrs. On meds for B/P, Cholesterol and BPH. Greenlight procedure yrs ago. 30 yrs ED w/Retrograde Ejaculations. Tried Pills, Injections & different pumps. Excellent results with ErecAId pump & Beige D & Gray D rings.

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Re: Can't get off :-(

Postby Jake2365 » Tue Nov 28, 2023 9:25 pm

Does anyone have experience with a auto stroker or spinner? I'm thinking the spinning ones may provide even more stimulation, which I desperately need.
51 yr old male. Injections began failing at 15 months. Implanted 2-24-21, Titan 24cm, no RTE. Dr. Goldstein, San Diego, CA, USA

Swinger, Kinkster, BDSM & all kinds of other crazy play I need to get back to!

Completely willing to show and tell.

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