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Growinjim
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Prostate massage

Postby Growinjim » Wed Jul 06, 2022 1:24 pm

Having lost a good bit of sensitivity, I find it impossible
to orgasm intervaginally. I use both Trimix injection and
the Giddy oval ring and get good hardness. The Giddy
prevents blood loss by venous leak. But, I still can't get
off. We've found that when my wife gives me a few
minutes of prostate massage, I come and come for a long
time. Probably the best orgasms of my life. Maybe it
could help others.
78 yrs, ED for 4-5 years, currently using Trimix, Giddy

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Re: Prostate massage

Postby Anonymous FT Member » Wed Jul 06, 2022 2:53 pm

Growinjim wrote:Having lost a good bit of sensitivity, I find it impossible
to orgasm intervaginally. I use both Trimix injection and
the Giddy oval ring and get good hardness. The Giddy
prevents blood loss by venous leak. But, I still can't get
off. We've found that when my wife gives me a few
minutes of prostate massage, I come and come for a long
time. Probably the best orgasms of my life. Maybe it
could help others.


What do you think contributes to your loss of sensitivity?
Was it from circumcision or other never damage from some other surgery? Straddle injury?

I too have less sensitivity on the penis, and I feel like I try to compensate by looking for other areas that will bring about orgasm. My prostate must not be very sensitive either because I can't do what you describe. With less sensitivity in your penis, I guess that is how you compensate through your prostate.

Growinjim
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Re: Prostate massage

Postby Growinjim » Wed Jul 06, 2022 6:22 pm

As I told a friend, having it done by a doctor or doing it
yourself is NOTHING NOTHING like having your wife or
significant other do it. Not even CLOSE!

I think I must spasm for a full minute (but haven't timed it).

Growinjim
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Re: Prostate massage

Postby Growinjim » Wed Jul 06, 2022 6:30 pm

PPSDoAmINormal

I think my loss of sensitivity is old ago (79) and clothes
contacting penis over many years.

I had a girlfriend do it when I didn't know she was going to.
The best orgasm I'd had up to that point. This was b4
current marriage.

Prelubricate yourself and make sure you're clean.
78 yrs, ED for 4-5 years, currently using Trimix, Giddy

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SteveSW
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Re: Prostate massage

Postby SteveSW » Sat Jul 09, 2022 4:31 pm

Well, this is a first. Today, I decided to try prostate massage while masturbating. Had my husband start massaging for a while before I started jerking off. WOW! I have been anorgasmic for a long time, and just had an orgasm that I thought was blowing the top of my head off and went on for ages. I haven't cum like that in a long, long time. I'm a convert! Try it guys.
20 years of severe Peyronie's plaque, 90 curve, hinging and ED. Cost me 1.5" L and 1" G.
Implanted 2/18/21, AMS CX, 18 CM + 3 RTE, penoscrotal. Have gained 3/4". Gay, married, age 68.

Growinjim
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Re: Prostate massage

Postby Growinjim » Sat Jul 09, 2022 5:08 pm

SteveSW
Good for you! I cum for a long time and my whole body
twitches periodically for about a minute. Some guys
think it's like a doctor's exam - nothing further from the
truth.

I find the depth of penetration is rather short. There are
many nerve endings near the Anu s (censor). I make sure
I'm clean to spare my wife. I offered to have her use
a condom (early on) but she declined. If you have an
accomodating wife it's wonderful. Not a deep penetration
for me.
78 yrs, ED for 4-5 years, currently using Trimix, Giddy

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SteveSW
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Re: Prostate massage

Postby SteveSW » Sat Jul 09, 2022 5:26 pm

Growinjim,
You're right. The prostate is not located that deeply and is easy to reach with a finger or two. I had my husband wear a latex glove, and there was no mess, except for the one I made when I came :lol:
20 years of severe Peyronie's plaque, 90 curve, hinging and ED. Cost me 1.5" L and 1" G.
Implanted 2/18/21, AMS CX, 18 CM + 3 RTE, penoscrotal. Have gained 3/4". Gay, married, age 68.

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Re: Prostate massage

Postby Old Guy » Sat Jul 09, 2022 5:35 pm

An orgasm from a prostrate massage feels nothing like a penile orgasm. Anal sex used to get me a good orgasm or three, but I was never lucky enough to have a penile orgasm at the same time. Think I compare a prostrate orgasm to a female orgasm. During a prostrate orgasm all the muscles up my butthole will contract and pulse. Very nice sensation.
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Growinjim
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Re: Prostate massage

Postby Growinjim » Sat Jul 09, 2022 6:34 pm

To clarify, I masturbate while wife probes the prostate. Never
fails for me - ok, once. I call it anidigitus playing off cunnilingus
(Lingus = tongue)(digitus = finger) Just being cute.
78 yrs, ED for 4-5 years, currently using Trimix, Giddy

Growinjim
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Re: Prostate massage

Postby Growinjim » Sat Jul 09, 2022 6:36 pm

PS. All the muscles in my body are involved (that I know of)
Very intense.
78 yrs, ED for 4-5 years, currently using Trimix, Giddy


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