Not for everyone, but it worked for me
Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2022 2:55 pm
So, I have always enjoyed anal play and prostate stimulation to try to help me cum more reliably since I started using injections. However, none of the prostate toys or plugs will stay inside during penetrative sex unless I clinch the whole time. That won’t encourage an orgasm for me.
We started experimenting a couple of months ago and now we kind of have a routine. After playing (Magic Wand), having both vaginal and anal sex and my wife having many orgasms (over 45 minutes to an hour and a half) we transition to the “make ME cum” mode. She will lay on her back, I’ll lube up her whole hand and sit back on it until her fist is all the way in. (Of course, preparation is key here for any butt play) When we do this, I am straddling her arm, so she can suck me while her fist does its magic.
She will slowly rotate her hand back and forth as I go up and down. Within 2 or 3 minutes, I will start to cum uncontrollably. Since she cannot stand the texture of cum in her mouth, I will cum on her chest. The first time we did this, I had two big squirts and she said “you’re cumming!” And I said “not yet”. Then I actually orgasmed and shot 6 more squirts, all larger than the first two. Amaaaaaaazing.
We have done some version of this 4 more times with success every time.
I know this won’t be a solution for many that don’t want ANYTHING near their butt and it may not work if you’ve had prostate surgery, etc. I get that. All I can say is that if you can and you’re open minded enough, some type of prostate play may be what you need to get over that hill. I’m still looking for a solution that will do the same thing while fucking. If only her arm was long enough to do this while we’re having vaginal or anal sex… OMG
We started experimenting a couple of months ago and now we kind of have a routine. After playing (Magic Wand), having both vaginal and anal sex and my wife having many orgasms (over 45 minutes to an hour and a half) we transition to the “make ME cum” mode. She will lay on her back, I’ll lube up her whole hand and sit back on it until her fist is all the way in. (Of course, preparation is key here for any butt play) When we do this, I am straddling her arm, so she can suck me while her fist does its magic.
She will slowly rotate her hand back and forth as I go up and down. Within 2 or 3 minutes, I will start to cum uncontrollably. Since she cannot stand the texture of cum in her mouth, I will cum on her chest. The first time we did this, I had two big squirts and she said “you’re cumming!” And I said “not yet”. Then I actually orgasmed and shot 6 more squirts, all larger than the first two. Amaaaaaaazing.
We have done some version of this 4 more times with success every time.
I know this won’t be a solution for many that don’t want ANYTHING near their butt and it may not work if you’ve had prostate surgery, etc. I get that. All I can say is that if you can and you’re open minded enough, some type of prostate play may be what you need to get over that hill. I’m still looking for a solution that will do the same thing while fucking. If only her arm was long enough to do this while we’re having vaginal or anal sex… OMG