Repairing chafing from delayed ejaculation

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60s_surfer
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Repairing chafing from delayed ejaculation

Postby 60s_surfer » Mon Jan 20, 2020 8:10 pm

These days, for me to ejaculate, it takes roughly an hour of stimulation by my wife, stroking my erection with her hands with some breaks for oral. In spite of using lots of coconut oil for lubrication, I often end up with chafed skin on my penis after we are done. I have been trying various types of skin cream afterwards to help healing. A&D ointment seems to work best; I have also tried Aquaphor and coconut oil. Does anyone have any suggestions for a better skin cream?
71 years old in 2018; married 49 years. ED since 2001. PD5 inhibitors (Viagra, etc.) worked with increasing dosages until side effects got too bad by 2017. Now using Trimix injections. Delayed ejaculation has been a continuing problem since 2012.

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Re: Repairing chafing from delayed ejaculation

Postby bldoink » Mon Jan 20, 2020 9:42 pm

Coconut oil is good but there are better lubes. Try Sliquid H2O. There are also other good brands. I don't have a suggestion for a skin creme.
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Re: Repairing chafing from delayed ejaculation

Postby Lost Sheep » Tue Jan 21, 2020 8:56 pm

Have you considered different positions that might be able to provide the same or more stimulation to you that involves less stroking?

I don't have any particular positions to suggest, but I do know that different sensations give me different amounts of stimulation that speed up or slow down my orgasmic response.
Perhaps some positions or movements might be able to hit nerves that are less damaged?
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Re: Repairing chafing from delayed ejaculation

Postby oldbeek » Mon Jan 27, 2020 12:37 am

I like uberlube. it is a silicon lube. For sore dick I use All natural mens solution made by Active Life. Very soothing. expensive but you don't use much.
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