Can’t get off anymore.

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android912
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Can’t get off anymore.

Postby android912 » Wed Jun 19, 2024 12:20 am

Gentlemen, I was wondering if anyone can give me some feedback about anorgasmia. Of late I have been unable to reach orgasm during sex or masturbating. It’s really starting to bother me.
Here’s my history. Never, ever, ever had difficulty with an erection or climax prior to my prostatectomy in May of 2021. This was a robotic procedure and my urologist indicated it was “nerve sparing”. I lost erectile function. Began VED therapy as well as 100 mg of viagra. I could keep it up and orgasm with a constriction ring, but that only gave me 15 or so minutes. Pills never did anything. Went to trimix and bimix injections which also lost efficacy, as well as began scarring my tissues. Successfully implanted with a Coloplast Titan IP September of 2023. Implant works great and I am nearly fully healed from that. I still have a bit of numbness where my shaft meets my scrotum. I lost my wife to cancer in the middle of all of this, so I’m on “the dating scene”.
Personally, I attribute my inability to climax to my damaged region of prostate removal. The implant also doesn’t feel the same. Factor in my age (65) and I’m beginning to question whether I’ll ever get some orgasm function back.I had my urologist run my testosterone and prolactin numbers and they were within normal range.
I’m reaching out to y’all to see if anyone has a similar situation. I really don’t want to throw in the towel. Thanks in advance.
65 yo. PCa Mar 21, RARP May 21 ED immediately following. VED therapy. Trimix failed with pain. Used Bimix but losing efficacy and developing scarring. Pills never worked. Implant (Coloplast Titan One Touch 18cm 1 rte 9/14/23) pre op 'BPL 5.75 G 5:25

wolfpacker
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Re: Can’t get off anymore.

Postby wolfpacker » Wed Jun 19, 2024 7:23 am

Have you tried experimenting with PT141 injections?
Early 30s with ED for years from penis enlargement stretching and jelqing. Implant by Dr Eid on 24 June 2021 with a Titan 24cm with +1cm RTE on one side and -1cm cut off on the other side

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android912
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Re: Can’t get off anymore.

Postby android912 » Wed Jun 19, 2024 1:23 pm

Quite frankly, Wolfpacker, I have never heard of PT 141. I will begin to research it. Do you have experience with this?

Once again the brothers of the forum come through. Finger crossed!
65 yo. PCa Mar 21, RARP May 21 ED immediately following. VED therapy. Trimix failed with pain. Used Bimix but losing efficacy and developing scarring. Pills never worked. Implant (Coloplast Titan One Touch 18cm 1 rte 9/14/23) pre op 'BPL 5.75 G 5:25

wolfpacker
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Re: Can’t get off anymore.

Postby wolfpacker » Wed Jun 19, 2024 1:44 pm

android912 wrote:Quite frankly, Wolfpacker, I have never heard of PT 141. I will begin to research it. Do you have experience with this?

Once again the brothers of the forum come through. Finger crossed!


I've been researching it for a while and intend on trying it out soon. It's available as a prescription for women, the brand name is Vyleesi, but not available for men in that form unfortunately. Still safe for men just not yet FDA approved. It is intended to increase libido. If you can use it to get yourself into a ragingly horny state, maybe you can rediscover how to reach orgasm a little easier.
Early 30s with ED for years from penis enlargement stretching and jelqing. Implant by Dr Eid on 24 June 2021 with a Titan 24cm with +1cm RTE on one side and -1cm cut off on the other side

My journal: viewtopic.php?t=17202

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Re: Can’t get off anymore.

Postby Alan810 » Wed Jun 19, 2024 6:35 pm

Wolfpacker,
I too have problems with anorgasmia and have for a long time. Unlike you, I have not had an implant and not planning to have one. I use a VED and two rings to obtain a decent erection and use a product called "Make me Cum" available thru Adam & Eve which I apply to the glans prior to PIV. Someone else posted about it on this site so I tried it. Not sure if it helps, but it seems to. My problem is once my wife orgasms, I have to pull out even though I'm not finished which is most of the time - can't even touch her - too sensitive. To finish myself, I use her vibrator on the underside of my glans. It works either if I'm still erect or flaccid, sometimes takes a while but always happens. I just wish I didn't have retrograde ejaculations - but I haven't found a cure for that. The feeling is still good, but it's not the same as it was.
85 yrs old. Married 42 yrs. On meds for B/P, Cholesterol and BPH. Greenlight procedure yrs ago. 30 yrs ED w/Retrograde Ejaculations. Tried Pills, Injections & different pumps. Excellent results with ErecAId pump & Beige D & Gray D rings.

landcruiser52
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Re: Can’t get off anymore.

Postby landcruiser52 » Fri Jul 19, 2024 4:13 pm

I've had difficulty getting off for five or so years. I've recently started Trimix and had ejaculated during intercourse 6 out of 8 times.


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