Gay Frank Talk members?

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buck67209
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Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby buck67209 » Sat Oct 13, 2018 11:45 pm

I'm Buck in Wichita, Kansas. I just got a Titan 24 cm +1 three days ago and now have 5.5" flaccid. I'm nervous because my partners are all size queens and bottoms who loved me on trimix at 8", but I'll wait until I can inflate and cycle to judge. I know it's too early to tell.
Wichita, KS. Single, 51, 6', 200 lbs, ED pills since '00, Trimix since 02/17. Implant on Oct. 10, 2018 from Clay Mechlin, MD in Columbia, MO. Pre-op 7.8"x6.1" cut. Now have Titan 24 cm + 1 cm extender, 7.5"x5.75" 25 days post-op.

calixtus
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Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby calixtus » Sun Oct 14, 2018 9:30 am

Congratulations Big Boy. You are on your way to frequent flyer points. Even if you go down to 6” erect, that will be fine combined with your bionic penis that can stand up for hours without any discomfort (unlike trimix. Used too little and nothing. Used too much and painfull.) Bottoms are delighted you can go on so long. You are probably inflated for the next 3-4 weeks which is a bloody nuisance, but necessary for penis chambers to heal at maximum size. After that keep it inflated at home, say, as much as practical to maintain size. Inflation/deflation takes practice, but you will get the hang of it. Take it from a geriatric stud in Toronto.
P.S. No one will know it’s an implant if you don’t tell them. My scrotum tightens during sex, so pump is almost undetectable. Maybe during afterglow, assuming you linger.
2003 Radical Prostatectomy
2008 AMS 800 Urinary Control System / Dr S Radomski / Toronto Western Hospital
2017, Sept. AMS 700 LGX Dr Dean Elterman / Tor Western Hospital
Geriatric Stud, 75, gay, 24 yrs married to male in open relationship.

buck67209
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Location: Wichita, Kansas

Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby buck67209 » Sun Oct 14, 2018 1:42 pm

calixtus wrote:Congratulations Big Boy. You are on your way to frequent flyer points. Even if you go down to 6” erect, that will be fine combined with your bionic penis that can stand up for hours without any discomfort (unlike trimix. Used too little and nothing. Used too much and painfull.) Bottoms are delighted you can go on so long. You are probably inflated for the next 3-4 weeks which is a bloody nuisance, but necessary for penis chambers to heal at maximum size. After that keep it inflated at home, say, as much as practical to maintain size. Inflation/deflation takes practice, but you will get the hang of it. Take it from a geriatric stud in Toronto.
P.S. No one will know it’s an implant if you don’t tell them. My scrotum tightens during sex, so pump is almost undetectable. Maybe during afterglow, assuming you linger.


I hope I'm not 6"--my sexual identity has always been situated as the top with the great cock! My surgeon said I'm not inflated at all, which is why I shouldn't judge it yet. I guess they all do things differently. He said I'm probably the biggest he's operated on (he's young, lol) and seemed to think I'd be close to my pre-op size. I still worry. Trimix worked and really put my sex life into overdrive. I was getting more action at 50 than I did at 25! But, like you, I could never guage it right. Too little and my boner was no better than it was on Viagra. But when I used enough to give me that super-hard result, I'd be stuck with a hardon for four hours or more. Limiting and spacing the number of injections meant I had to say no when I wanted to say yes. I was pretty transparent about using trimix and got to where I would stack hookups into that four-hour window. It was exhausting, haha! I look forward to being more spontaneous and not planning my sex life around trimix injections.
Wichita, KS. Single, 51, 6', 200 lbs, ED pills since '00, Trimix since 02/17. Implant on Oct. 10, 2018 from Clay Mechlin, MD in Columbia, MO. Pre-op 7.8"x6.1" cut. Now have Titan 24 cm + 1 cm extender, 7.5"x5.75" 25 days post-op.

buck67209
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Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby buck67209 » Sun Oct 14, 2018 3:18 pm

buck67209 wrote:
calixtus wrote:Congratulations Big Boy. You are on your way to frequent flyer points. Even if you go down to 6” erect, that will be fine combined with your bionic penis that can stand up for hours without any discomfort (unlike trimix. Used too little and nothing. Used too much and painfull.) Bottoms are delighted you can go on so long. You are probably inflated for the next 3-4 weeks which is a bloody nuisance, but necessary for penis chambers to heal at maximum size. After that keep it inflated at home, say, as much as practical to maintain size. Inflation/deflation takes practice, but you will get the hang of it. Take it from a geriatric stud in Toronto.
P.S. No one will know it’s an implant if you don’t tell them. My scrotum tightens during sex, so pump is almost undetectable. Maybe during afterglow, assuming you linger.


I hope I'm not 6"--my sexual identity has always been situated as the top with the great cock! My surgeon said I'm not inflated at all, which is why I shouldn't judge it yet. I guess they all do things differently. He said I'm probably the biggest he's operated on (he's young, lol) and seemed to think I'd be close to my pre-op size. I still worry. Trimix worked and really put my sex life into overdrive. I was getting more action at 50 than I did at 25! But, like you, I could never guage it right. Too little and my boner was no better than it was on Viagra. But when I used enough to give me that super-hard result, I'd be stuck with a hardon for four hours or more. Limiting and spacing the number of injections meant I had to say no when I wanted to say yes. I was pretty transparent about using trimix and got to where I would stack hookups into that four-hour window. It was exhausting, haha! I look forward to being more spontaneous and not planning my sex life around trimix injections.


The pelvic swelling has gone down enough to do a hard ruler, somewhat bone-pressed measurement that came in at 6.2" long, flaccid. I'm more encouraged now. :)
Wichita, KS. Single, 51, 6', 200 lbs, ED pills since '00, Trimix since 02/17. Implant on Oct. 10, 2018 from Clay Mechlin, MD in Columbia, MO. Pre-op 7.8"x6.1" cut. Now have Titan 24 cm + 1 cm extender, 7.5"x5.75" 25 days post-op.

tomcat49
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Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby tomcat49 » Mon Nov 19, 2018 11:01 am

Hello, everyone.

I'm new to Frank Talk, this is my first post and I thought it was appropriate for me to begin here. I'm in an open mixed open relationship after coming out gay to my wife in 2004. I had BPH and several months ago had my prostate reduced with the Rezum procedure, very successful. About a month ago I received my first Bimix injection from my urologist (she) and have loved my bionic cock so very much. Being multi-orgasmic with my male lovers is so very wonderful. Before I was mostly a bottom, but find myself topping many of my male lovers. I'm open to comments and conversations with gay and bisexual males about sex for them and their experiences. I'd love to meet same-sex leaning guys in my area or in my travels with their injected or implanted cocks to compare our cock and more. It's nice to have a forum to be open in.

Tom
WM, 69, 6'0", 165lbs., 31" w., erect, cut 7", 5.5" circ. In mixed orientation marriage and out as gay. Lipo, laser hair removed, Rezum procedure, new to trimix. Sex with male lovers only.
https://soundcloud.com/tom-cummings-578676068

Larry10625

Gay/Bi Frank Talk Members?

Postby Larry10625 » Fri May 03, 2019 12:00 pm

Any gay/bi members 65 or under that like to travel for discrete hook up's... I am working on a survey. If willing to answer some questions, please PM me. :)

Larry

BeardedMan
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Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby BeardedMan » Fri May 17, 2019 4:24 pm

I live in the Wash DC area. I'm happy to chat with anyone about my experience. I'm in an open relationship. Married 15 years. I do deal with playtime with relative "strangers" as well as regular buds. Surgery is scheduled for August 8. Message me if you want to chat on phone or skype.
61 yo gay married; ED since 2000. Retooling on 8/8/19 by Dr Andrew Kramer. Titan 22cm plus 1cm extender.

sspmattpb
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Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby sspmattpb » Wed Jun 19, 2019 1:01 pm

Hi all, been a LONG time since I was on the site so thought I would say hello. My name is Matt, I would consider myself, bi, had implant at Mayo Clinic in Rochester MN in 2010, I couldn't be more pleased. I am curious if there are others in my area, Northwest Wisconsin, that are also members of the "club"!? I am close to the Twin Cities, Duluth, Eau Claire, just looking for others to chat and perhaps meet up with to talk about our respective journeys. Looking forward to hearing back, glad I decided to stop by. I have always enjoyed the site and what Paul and the crew have accomplished!
ED onset in 2003
Peyronie's Disease onset in 2005
Venous Leakage diagnosed 2009
Implant Surgery 11.29.2010 @ Mayo Clinic, Rochester, MN

Alniter
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Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby Alniter » Fri Jun 28, 2019 1:32 pm

Steve in Orlando, FL here. Just turned 61, Partnered for nearly 18 years, ED for two and a half years (vascular hardening, possibly due to years of Finasteride for BPH). Technically open relationship, but I only play with a regular (that I've known nearly 25 years) and my hubby. BPH, having UroLift procedure done next week (slightly nervous, but not much). Next step may be implant, plenty damned nervous about that. Viagra helps but gives me days of bad bodyaches and headaches to the point of migraine, hence the implant possibility.

calixtus
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Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby calixtus » Sun Jun 30, 2019 11:37 am

I found the ff. relevant info.:
Medical Editor: John P. Cunha, DO, FACOEP
Last reviewed on RxList 6/13/2018
Propecia (finasteride) is a 5a-reductase inhibitor indicated for the treatment of male pattern hair loss (androgenetic alopecia) in men only. Propecia is available in generic form. Side effects of Propecia include:
impotence,
loss of interest in sex,
trouble having an orgasm,
abnormal ejaculation,
swelling in your hands or feet,
swelling or tenderness in your breasts,
dizziness,
weakness,
feeling like you might pass out,
headache,
runny nose, or
skin rash.
The sexual side effects of Propecia may continue after you stop taking it. Talk to your doctor if you have concerns about these side effects. Propecia may also cause decrease in blood prostate specific antigen (PSA) levels, and can affect the PSA blood test.
I can share that I had the implant as ff: "Sept. 14, 2017 Install AMS700LGX penile implant. [Dr Dean Elterman, Urology TWH 416 603 5800 ext. 5033]" TWH is Toronto Western Hospital. I have a nice hard erection that I use promiscuously at the baths. No one has ever asked if it is phony. With a leather cock ring on, you can't feel the tubing in the scrotum. At age 77 I am a geriatric stud. See Dr Eid's site, very comprehensive with photos. See blog "rugbydave.blogspot.com," in which British guy follows his total progress thru the implant. Outstanding sharing. Any questions, do contact me.
2003 Radical Prostatectomy
2008 AMS 800 Urinary Control System / Dr S Radomski / Toronto Western Hospital
2017, Sept. AMS 700 LGX Dr Dean Elterman / Tor Western Hospital
Geriatric Stud, 75, gay, 24 yrs married to male in open relationship.


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