Gay Frank Talk members?

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Farmboyfox
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Location: Lancaster California

Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby Farmboyfox » Fri May 13, 2022 8:59 pm

Hi guys! I'm Toby from the Los Angeles area. I had my implant surgery in November 2021.

I have struggled with ED since high school. I could cum but any engorgement occurred right before I orgasmed. As I've gotten older the situation has worsened. I went about 9 or 10 years without an erection or an orgasm. Needless to say, no encounters or relationships. I think the worst thing that happened as a result was my loss of confidence which was shaky anyway. It's rather tragic actually.

I was told by the urologist prior to my implant that I could expect to begin having orgasms within six weeks to 3 months. I'm 5 months out and I'm still struggling with anorgasmia. I was getting hopeless and even more depressed until I found this site.

I have been successful in achieving orgasm twice so I guess they're actually is Hope. I've learned from the wonderful guys on here that healing can take up to a year! I did not know that. I would love getting to know some of you and chat! All the best!

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Happy Toy
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Joined: Fri May 11, 2018 9:30 am

Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby Happy Toy » Sat May 14, 2022 10:56 am

Welcome to the site, glade you found us. I got my implant in June of '18 and love it! I am bi but have been married for 55 yrs. to a wonderful women. I'm 78 and she is 76 and we still have sex. My ED problems started when I was in my sixties, I used Trimix for 12 years, when that stopped working I got the implant.
If you have any questions please PM me, nothing is off limits. Take care, Andy
P.S. To "PM" a person just click on the name, that will take you to the persons PM area, no one else can see it but you and the person you sent it to. Take care.
Implanted 6/26/2018, Coloplast Titan 20cm, no RTE'S, infra pubic, Dr. Rhee, Kaiser :o 8-) 78yrs., married 55 yrs. ED for over 20 yrs.

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SteveSW
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Location: St. Louis, MO

Re: Gay Frank Talk members?

Postby SteveSW » Sat May 14, 2022 2:46 pm

Farmboyfox wrote:Hi guys! I'm Toby from the Los Angeles area. I had my implant surgery in November 2021.

I have struggled with ED since high school. I could cum but any engorgement occurred right before I orgasmed. As I've gotten older the situation has worsened. I went about 9 or 10 years without an erection or an orgasm. Needless to say, no encounters or relationships. I think the worst thing that happened as a result was my loss of confidence which was shaky anyway. It's rather tragic actually.

I was told by the urologist prior to my implant that I could expect to begin having orgasms within six weeks to 3 months. I'm 5 months out and I'm still struggling with anorgasmia. I was getting hopeless and even more depressed until I found this site.

I have been successful in achieving orgasm twice so I guess they're actually is Hope. I've learned from the wonderful guys on here that healing can take up to a year! I did not know that. I would love getting to know some of you and chat! All the best!

Hi! Another gay guy here. In the early 2000's I was hit with a severe case of Peyronie's and ED. About the same time, it started getting harder and harder to cum with penetrative or oral sex. Eventually, couldn't at all. So, I had anorgasmia long before implant. Can only orgasm with aggressive masturbation, but that seems to be improving slowly. Lots of men on FT have reported the problem initially, and that it does get better over time. Message me with any questions you may have. Glad to help if I can. Steve
20 years of severe Peyronie's plaque, 90 curve, hinging and ED. Cost me 1.5" L and 1" G.
Implanted 2/18/21, AMS CX, 18 CM + 3 RTE, penoscrotal. Have gained 3/4". Gay, age 68.


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