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It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Instead of hooking up with a bunch of random guys you could find one fuck buddy you can be comfortable with and trust. By limiting your other sexual partners as much as possible the risk would be very low.

Or you could just meet up and stroke yourselves, not touching. But being in the room with another guy while you both stroke could be very erotic, a great way to explore your interest in guys, but totally safe.

Or you could chat and stroke over Skype, WhatsApp, or FaceTime.

There are lots of options.

GoodWood wrote:

Or you could just meet up and stroke yourselves, not touching. But being in the room with another guy while you both stroke could be very erotic, a great way to explore your interest in guys, but totally safe.

THIS.........Yes

[quote="GoodWood"]It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Instead of hooking up with a bunch of random guys you could find one fuck buddy you can be comfortable with and trust. By limiting your other sexual partners as much as possible the risk would be very low.

Been there...did that...it works!

Love to chat exchange pictures, and stroke ether by PM or chat room.

There's something missing with the skypes and cam type stuff. I don't know it just seems lonely and gives a sense of hopelessness. I think it adds another element of distraction and can't be good for ed.

If you have any ED at all you don't need to be messing around with a computer instead of focusing on your body
I'm 39 but not really into the tech stuff that way.

I have always been attracted to men. I got married in my twenties and started a family and never acted on it. Finally had my first m2m contact this past December. I loved it and have been with several men since. I am bi and still married on the dl. I stopped hooking up with men about a month ago. The urge is still strong but trying to abstain from sex with men.

Jetson1969 wrote:I have always been attracted to men. I got married in my twenties and started a family and never acted on it. Finally had my first m2m contact this past December. I loved it and have been with several men since. I am bi and still married on the dl. I stopped hooking up with men about a month ago. The urge is still strong but trying to abstain from sex with men.

I would like to chat some more.

This is refreshing to hear. I've always been gay, and have not realized how many straight men actually do carry some same sex attractions and would do something given the right circumstances. I always thought women were the more sexually fluid in terms of having same sex experiences and guys were a bit more one or the other. Sure I am aware there are plenty of bisexual men out there, but maybe there are more than lean 75/25 straight/gay or some percentage than I figured. Hopefully in the future they won't be as stigmatized for those thoughts as society still tends to do.

Yes, I too believe there are a lot more men out there with this urge or secret. I can’t believe that I waited until my 50s to act on it. I so wish I had experienced this in my twenties before marriage.

It would be nice to find someone to have fun with once in a while