Married but interested in men

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Happy Toy
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Happy Toy » Sun Jul 24, 2022 9:16 am

Love to chat exchange pictures, and stroke ether by PM or chat room.
Implanted 6/26/2018, Coloplast Titan 20cm, no RTE'S, infra pubic, Dr. Rhee, Kaiser :o 8-) 80 yrs., married 57 yrs. ED for over 20 yrs.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Jetson1969 » Sat Aug 20, 2022 6:31 am

I have always been attracted to men. I got married in my twenties and started a family and never acted on it. Finally had my first m2m contact this past December. I loved it and have been with several men since. I am bi and still married on the dl. I stopped hooking up with men about a month ago. The urge is still strong but trying to abstain from sex with men.
53 mwm ED for 10 years, Viagra and Cialis doesn’t work anymore. Low T, on TRT Jatenzo pill.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Happy Toy » Sat Aug 20, 2022 10:54 am

Jetson1969 wrote:I have always been attracted to men. I got married in my twenties and started a family and never acted on it. Finally had my first m2m contact this past December. I loved it and have been with several men since. I am bi and still married on the dl. I stopped hooking up with men about a month ago. The urge is still strong but trying to abstain from sex with men.


I would like to chat some more.
Implanted 6/26/2018, Coloplast Titan 20cm, no RTE'S, infra pubic, Dr. Rhee, Kaiser :o 8-) 80 yrs., married 57 yrs. ED for over 20 yrs.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby OregonStrong » Sun Aug 21, 2022 10:13 pm

This is refreshing to hear. I've always been gay, and have not realized how many straight men actually do carry some same sex attractions and would do something given the right circumstances. I always thought women were the more sexually fluid in terms of having same sex experiences and guys were a bit more one or the other. Sure I am aware there are plenty of bisexual men out there, but maybe there are more than lean 75/25 straight/gay or some percentage than I figured. Hopefully in the future they won't be as stigmatized for those thoughts as society still tends to do.
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Jetson1969 » Mon Aug 22, 2022 5:11 am

Yes, I too believe there are a lot more men out there with this urge or secret. I can’t believe that I waited until my 50s to act on it. I so wish I had experienced this in my twenties before marriage.
53 mwm ED for 10 years, Viagra and Cialis doesn’t work anymore. Low T, on TRT Jatenzo pill.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby toolman » Mon Aug 22, 2022 6:48 am

It would be nice to find someone to have fun with once in a while

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby SteveSW » Mon Aug 22, 2022 10:33 am

Human sexuality exists on a spectrum. Bisexual people may experience only a little, some, conditional or extreme sexual attraction to individuals of the same sex. Take it from me, there are a great number of married, straight identifying men who engage in sex with other men.
20 years of severe Peyronie's plaque, 90 curve, hinging and ED. Cost me 1.5" L and 1" G.
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby max2153 » Wed Aug 31, 2022 2:43 pm

PSSDorAmINormal wrote:
jaddxxt wrote:I'd get on PrEP, get the Monkeypox vaccine and probably let loose a bit!


PrEP don't protect from everything you know. Also I wonder what are the long term effects of being on those medications?


I'm HIV+ going on 23 years and have been on the two drugs in PrEp (Truvada) plus a third drug. Truvada is two drugs coformulated in one pill. One of the drugs (tenofovir) can be hard on your kidneys though most people tolerate it very well. My doctor always runs a lab test on my kidney function every year. So far I have seen no long-term effects, except staying alive and healthy. If there are any adverse effects of PrEP they are better than being infected with HIV.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Floridaspeedo » Thu Sep 01, 2022 10:01 am

I have kidney issues but started on Truvada. My Dr monitors my bloodwork every quarter. Yes my kidney function dropped a bit. I moved to Descovy. A bit better for the kidney function.

There is a new shot that replaces Truvada and Descovy. Given every 2 months and supposedly by-passes the kidneys.
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby BBaller1967 » Tue Oct 18, 2022 11:32 pm

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