Married but interested in men

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GoodWood
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby GoodWood » Sun Jul 24, 2022 12:06 am

It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Instead of hooking up with a bunch of random guys you could find one fuck buddy you can be comfortable with and trust. By limiting your other sexual partners as much as possible the risk would be very low.

Or you could just meet up and stroke yourselves, not touching. But being in the room with another guy while you both stroke could be very erotic, a great way to explore your interest in guys, but totally safe.

Or you could chat and stroke over Skype, WhatsApp, or FaceTime.

There are lots of options.
55yo, NYC. ED started at 40. 50 units BiMix + Atropine (Pap 30/Phen 6/Atr 0.2). Prostaglandins caused aching. Doses increasing. A cock ring helps. Phallosan Forte tension devise to maintain size. Eager to talk about implant experiences.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Anonymous FT Member » Sun Jul 24, 2022 1:23 am

GoodWood wrote:

Or you could just meet up and stroke yourselves, not touching. But being in the room with another guy while you both stroke could be very erotic, a great way to explore your interest in guys, but totally safe.


THIS.........Yes

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby navy6587 » Sun Jul 24, 2022 7:33 am

[quote="GoodWood"]It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Instead of hooking up with a bunch of random guys you could find one fuck buddy you can be comfortable with and trust. By limiting your other sexual partners as much as possible the risk would be very low.

Been there...did that...it works!
74; ED at 50. Fired by 1st doc (Szobota - VA Uro) too many q's & contact w/ Coloplast rep. New doc: Ellen (VA Uro) implanted 11/8/18. 22cm Titan + 2cm RTEs; moron docs, product rep, intake/ dischg nurses! NEVER again! L- 6.75"; G- 5.5" oval.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Happy Toy » Sun Jul 24, 2022 9:16 am

Love to chat exchange pictures, and stroke ether by PM or chat room.
Implanted 6/26/2018, Coloplast Titan 20cm, no RTE'S, infra pubic, Dr. Rhee, Kaiser :o 8-) 79yrs., married 56 yrs. ED for over 20 yrs.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Anonymous FT Member » Sun Jul 24, 2022 12:44 pm

There's something missing with the skypes and cam type stuff. I don't know it just seems lonely and gives a sense of hopelessness. I think it adds another element of distraction and can't be good for ed.

If you have any ED at all you don't need to be messing around with a computer instead of focusing on your body
I'm 39 but not really into the tech stuff that way.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Jetson1969 » Sat Aug 20, 2022 6:31 am

I have always been attracted to men. I got married in my twenties and started a family and never acted on it. Finally had my first m2m contact this past December. I loved it and have been with several men since. I am bi and still married on the dl. I stopped hooking up with men about a month ago. The urge is still strong but trying to abstain from sex with men.
53 mwm ED for 10 years, Viagra and Cialis doesn’t work anymore. Low T, on TRT Jatenzo pill.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Happy Toy » Sat Aug 20, 2022 10:54 am

Jetson1969 wrote:I have always been attracted to men. I got married in my twenties and started a family and never acted on it. Finally had my first m2m contact this past December. I loved it and have been with several men since. I am bi and still married on the dl. I stopped hooking up with men about a month ago. The urge is still strong but trying to abstain from sex with men.


I would like to chat some more.
Implanted 6/26/2018, Coloplast Titan 20cm, no RTE'S, infra pubic, Dr. Rhee, Kaiser :o 8-) 79yrs., married 56 yrs. ED for over 20 yrs.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby OregonStrong » Sun Aug 21, 2022 10:13 pm

This is refreshing to hear. I've always been gay, and have not realized how many straight men actually do carry some same sex attractions and would do something given the right circumstances. I always thought women were the more sexually fluid in terms of having same sex experiences and guys were a bit more one or the other. Sure I am aware there are plenty of bisexual men out there, but maybe there are more than lean 75/25 straight/gay or some percentage than I figured. Hopefully in the future they won't be as stigmatized for those thoughts as society still tends to do.
50 yrs old. E.D. issues started around age 35, combo venous leak/testicular failure. Bilateral testicular implants for severely atrophic testes. Implanted 6/11/20 Dr. Kramer LGX 21cm + 1.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Jetson1969 » Mon Aug 22, 2022 5:11 am

Yes, I too believe there are a lot more men out there with this urge or secret. I can’t believe that I waited until my 50s to act on it. I so wish I had experienced this in my twenties before marriage.
53 mwm ED for 10 years, Viagra and Cialis doesn’t work anymore. Low T, on TRT Jatenzo pill.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby toolman » Mon Aug 22, 2022 6:48 am

It would be nice to find someone to have fun with once in a while


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