Married but interested in men

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stmfttr
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby stmfttr » Mon Apr 03, 2023 6:02 pm

MIDBOB293 wrote:Been some time since i was on Frank Talk. Much has changed in my life. My wife is on a walker now due to serious leg surgery so our sex life has been out of commission for some time now. When we were active we really enjoyed threesomes with another man and i got very aroused touching and being touched by the other man. And my wife received great climaxes. We are all three very oral.

Now i am searching porn including sex with other couples so i can touch and stroke the other husband. I am sure i want to have mutual masturbation and suck the other guy. I have told my wife about this and she is fine with it but accepts that she has no sex drive at all. She will watch me with the other man and wants to see me ejaculate like i used to - I want to feel it in my mouth and give the same pleasure to the other guy. We have a man we know that i could approach. Having him over for a couple of drinks would me to come on to him and my wife would be social about it and wants to see me make it happen even if she is not interested in a threeway herself.

Your thoughts please. Not sure if yoiu are still active on this website but thought i would reach out and see.
Ron


Ron,
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77 yo. Married 54years - Coloplast Titan, 22cm and no RTE's - Installed June 2019 Nebraska Medicine Dr. Deibert (urologist/surgeon)
ED started in 1994 Tried VED, Viagra and Cialis, and injections.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby GoodWood » Fri Apr 14, 2023 9:47 pm

MIDBOB293 wrote:Been some time since i was on Frank Talk. Much has changed in my life. My wife is on a walker now due to serious leg surgery so our sex life has been out of commission for some time now. When we were active we really enjoyed threesomes with another man and i got very aroused touching and being touched by the other man. And my wife received great climaxes. We are all three very oral.

Now i am searching porn including sex with other couples so i can touch and stroke the other husband. I am sure i want to have mutual masturbation and suck the other guy. I have told my wife about this and she is fine with it but accepts that she has no sex drive at all. She will watch me with the other man and wants to see me ejaculate like i used to - I want to feel it in my mouth and give the same pleasure to the other guy. We have a man we know that i could approach. Having him over for a couple of drinks would me to come on to him and my wife would be social about it and wants to see me make it happen even if she is not interested in a threeway herself.

Your thoughts please. Not sure if yoiu are still active on this website but thought i would reach out and see.
Ron


Sounds like you and your wife have trust in one another and a lot of respect for each other’s desires and needs. That’s a wonderful thing.

I hope you find a situation that you both feel good about (and that is really hot as well!)
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Scott59 » Tue Jul 04, 2023 2:02 pm

Wife has lost interest in sex so I have had a few men partners and WOW intense orgasms. Love the wife and will never leave, but I still need that human contact

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby stmfttr » Tue Jul 04, 2023 4:14 pm

Scott59 wrote:Wife has lost interest in sex so I have had a few men partners and WOW intense orgasms. Love the wife and will never leave, but I still need that human contact


Scott59,
I could not agree more.
77 yo. Married 54years - Coloplast Titan, 22cm and no RTE's - Installed June 2019 Nebraska Medicine Dr. Deibert (urologist/surgeon)
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Al1962 » Tue Jul 04, 2023 8:04 pm

Oops. Already to speak up and realised I am dsiqualified/no longer married as per title says "Married".
Was married had an interest in 1 male FWB's. Hope to some day have a women. Not looking for a man now. If the subject ever came up I could discuss it but am not planning to initiate subject at this point. Sex can be fun whatever the person.
Born 1962. Married 21 yrs. Single since 2018. Diabetic ED has taken the fun. Began daily Cialis 2.5mg and hesitant to find/disappoint a new partner. Song, Beatles,"Let It Be".

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Scott59 » Wed Jul 05, 2023 8:14 am

Never thought I would be in a bed with another man, but here I was. He knew all the right buttons

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby BelleBite » Wed Nov 22, 2023 3:56 pm

Anyone in NYC interested in connecting?
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Midwest Guy 333 » Sun Jan 28, 2024 1:30 pm

I've been married for 43 years to a beautiful, amazing woman. However, I'm gay. Like REALLY gay. So gay, that on the Kinsey scale, I'm completely off the grid in the upper left- hand quadrant. lol So, I'm gay +1. My wife knows and is fine with it. I cannot imagine my life without her, but neither can I imagine my life without male sex. I've been with hundreds of guys over the years. Have a great situation that I do not take for granted. I love sex with my wife, but I would never be able nor have the desire to have sex with another woman.

I'm actually in a support organization for guys like me. Gay, and married. Just a word of caution for those of you thinking of stepping into your male fantasies... I've known many guys who have blown up their marriages and created hurt beyond comprehension by doing that. Certainly not trying to be a know-it-all or tell anyone what to do, but really think about what is important to you. You can end up with an amazing life, or you can destroy everything you currently have.

Take care, men!



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