Married but interested in men

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SteveSW
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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby SteveSW » Mon Aug 22, 2022 10:33 am

Human sexuality exists on a spectrum. Bisexual people may experience only a little, some, conditional or extreme sexual attraction to individuals of the same sex. Take it from me, there are a great number of married, straight identifying men who engage in sex with other men.
20 years of severe Peyronie's plaque, 90 curve, hinging and ED. Cost me 1.5" L and 1" G.
Implanted 2/18/21, AMS CX, 18 CM + 3 RTE, penoscrotal. Have gained 3/4". Gay, married, age 68.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby max2153 » Wed Aug 31, 2022 2:43 pm

PSSDorAmINormal wrote:
jaddxxt wrote:I'd get on PrEP, get the Monkeypox vaccine and probably let loose a bit!


PrEP don't protect from everything you know. Also I wonder what are the long term effects of being on those medications?


I'm HIV+ going on 23 years and have been on the two drugs in PrEp (Truvada) plus a third drug. Truvada is two drugs coformulated in one pill. One of the drugs (tenofovir) can be hard on your kidneys though most people tolerate it very well. My doctor always runs a lab test on my kidney function every year. So far I have seen no long-term effects, except staying alive and healthy. If there are any adverse effects of PrEP they are better than being infected with HIV.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Floridaspeedo » Thu Sep 01, 2022 10:01 am

I have kidney issues but started on Truvada. My Dr monitors my bloodwork every quarter. Yes my kidney function dropped a bit. I moved to Descovy. A bit better for the kidney function.

There is a new shot that replaces Truvada and Descovy. Given every 2 months and supposedly by-passes the kidneys.
ED survivor 5 years. Tried pills, Gainswave, PRP, Bi-Mix/Tri Mix (worked 50% but very painful for 24 hours after injection.) 55 Gay - Single Titan Coloplast implanted June 1st, 2022, scrotal in Miami by Dr Billy Cordone..,very happy. Zero regrets

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby BBaller1967 » Tue Oct 18, 2022 11:32 pm

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby verytempted1992 » Wed Oct 19, 2022 3:05 am

BBaller1967 wrote:I’ve been married for nearly 40 years and had an encounter one time with a guy in a porn theater many years ago… My wife will not perform oral but loves me to give it… been frustrated for many years. I love her with everything in me but sometimes think about that encounter and when I see or hear other guys talk or show pics it actually gets me aroused and hard which is interesting because I struggle to get an erection since my near death from COVID in 2020. I confess that when I think of a man wrapping my cock in his mouth I imagine getting hard in his mouth… oh to dream.


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29. Mild ED since 2018 most likely caused from CPPS. Can still have hard erections and have sex but morning wood is rare and also have PE. May occasionally take Viagra 25mg with good results.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby jaddxxt » Wed Oct 19, 2022 3:57 pm

The porn theater experience you had sounds hot! I live in that fantasy world.....theaters, trucks, glory holes,etc... but all in fantasy!
I don't get turned on by seeing male bodies or dicks. I love females and especially love big breasts! I really love my wife's body and wish I had it some more, but it gets complicated.
Although, given the right situation...at this point, only in fantasy for the moment, giving and receiving anonymous oral and maybe anal....with the same sex, truly seems hot....especially if it's in a D/S fantasy scene.
Trimix makes my dick work and after a quick shot, it doesn't care where it lands!
65 NYC; ED for 5 yrs.; married in-shape gym junkie; pills no longer work; taking weekly Testosterone shots for libido and using Trimix injections...which are working well, but are a hassle to manage and... to get the timing just right!

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby Anonymous FT Member » Tue Oct 25, 2022 11:47 pm

Floridaspeedo wrote:I have kidney issues but started on Truvada. My Dr monitors my bloodwork every quarter. Yes my kidney function dropped a bit. I moved to Descovy. A bit better for the kidney function.

There is a new shot that replaces Truvada and Descovy. Given every 2 months and supposedly by-passes the kidneys.


How safe would the every 2 month injection be? Certainly has to have a method of action or go through your body some way?

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby dirtman1993 » Sun Feb 12, 2023 5:09 pm

I too have a desire to tri bi and have enjoyed looking at others who have and do have sex with men. My partner and I haven't had intercourse in about 8 years as she ceased having oral with me and only wanted me to perform for her. I told her after about a year or two without that this had to change. Now I am searching for another man I can go down on and also receive oral. Not to sure about anal as only did with first wife as she liked.

Men know what feels good much more than a women and to be honest, some cocks like so very nice I think I would enjoy having in my mouth. Maybe in time I will find someone to have sex with.
Implanted March 2nd by Dr. Kramer with AMS/LGX. Had a problem lower left (scar tissue) and he placed a larger (thicker) implant as you can here on the YouTube video. Got all back, ED over 10 years before Implant.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby SteveSW » Sun Feb 12, 2023 7:20 pm

Over the years, some of the best no strings attached sex I've ever had was with married (straight?) men.
20 years of severe Peyronie's plaque, 90 curve, hinging and ED. Cost me 1.5" L and 1" G.
Implanted 2/18/21, AMS CX, 18 CM + 3 RTE, penoscrotal. Have gained 3/4". Gay, married, age 68.

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Re: Married but interested in men

Postby MIDBOB293 » Mon Apr 03, 2023 4:12 pm

Been some time since i was on Frank Talk. Much has changed in my life. My wife is on a walker now due to serious leg surgery so our sex life has been out of commission for some time now. When we were active we really enjoyed threesomes with another man and i got very aroused touching and being touched by the other man. And my wife received great climaxes. We are all three very oral.

Now i am searching porn including sex with other couples so i can touch and stroke the other husband. I am sure i want to have mutual masturbation and suck the other guy. I have told my wife about this and she is fine with it but accepts that she has no sex drive at all. She will watch me with the other man and wants to see me ejaculate like i used to - I want to feel it in my mouth and give the same pleasure to the other guy. We have a man we know that i could approach. Having him over for a couple of drinks would me to come on to him and my wife would be social about it and wants to see me make it happen even if she is not interested in a threeway herself.

Your thoughts please. Not sure if yoiu are still active on this website but thought i would reach out and see.
Ron


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