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Those of you who have implant and are dating - what were your experiences with new partners? How did they react to your implant? Were they ok with it, had anything to say or did they just like that you can top for as long as you want?

Will be happy to read any experiences.

This is funny! I was just thinking about this the other day.
Yes, you can fuck for as long as you WANT, WANT being the operative word.
Gay or str8, once you get your cookie, you will not go soft, but the desire will definitely not be there as it was the 1st time around...then again, there are exceptions to this.
For me, I can cum 1st, then continue fucking to let them get their cookie.

why would you need to tell them?

I have had absolutely no issues. Never a bad experience.

Well, I have to relate an experience because I eventually HAD to tell him.
Whenever I slipped out of his ass and tried to go back in, because i was pumped up all the way, I would 'poke' him. He eventually had to ask, so I came clean and told him.
Don't know what he was thinking, but whenever he sees me, he wants me to fuck him, go figure.

I rather meant - how do you act with your implant when you are having sex for the first time? Do you tell them about it? I can imagine they wouldn't know if you went straight to anal sex, but I guess that's not as common especially when it is for the first time. Do they notice e.g. during mutual handjob or blowjob?

If it wasn't somehow obvious that you have an implant I can imagine not saying it before, but after our first sexual experience. And once I know that I'm attracted to that guy and want to have something more than just a hookup with him. I would never hide it from someone who I love, but saying it after our first sexual experience could make things somewhat easier, since he would consider it as "we've already done it and it worked".

densal07 wrote:I rather meant - how do you act with your implant when you are having sex for the first time? Do you tell them about it? I can imagine they wouldn't know if you went straight to anal sex, but I guess that's not as common especially when it is for the first time. Do they notice e.g. during mutual handjob or blowjob?

If it wasn't somehow obvious that you have an implant I can imagine not saying it before, but after our first sexual experience. And once I know that I'm attracted to that guy and want to have something more than just a hookup with him. I would never hide it from someone who I love, but saying it after our first sexual experience could make things somewhat easier, since he would consider it as "we've already done it and it worked".

Look I would think if you were up front before sex and they were turned off then maybe they are not worth your time. Now if it was a one time hook up then why tell, let the chips fall where they may. This is only my advice as a heterosexual male, but I would think it would be the same with a woman. I will tell all my swinger female partners because we are all friends that hang out and they will know before they ever get a test ride on it and of course it will look different. If we go out to a party and we are with a couple that we just met I would not say anything unless they asked and if they didn’t like it then they could just walk away, no skin off my back.
I hope that helps but if I was dating (I’m married) but wanted to be with someone for more than just sex I would tell them beforehand. Just my opinion.