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I am looking for some input from married men who are bisexual and are still faithful to their wives. I am bisexual and married to the same woman for 53 years. In 2013 I finally realized I was bi and have feelings and desires for being with males.
I would like to know how you manage your feelings and desires. How does your wife (if she knows) feel about you being bi and how she helps you with your issues.

Please PM me with your responses.

Just wondering how guy on guy porn changed your feelings after 46 years of marriage or if that was a component at all?

Also wondering if the guy on guy fantacies would cease either in visual consumption or in entertaining those in your thought life might produce a different sexual mindset for you.

I know for myself, ditching porn even on a casual and episodic basis has made a dramatic difference in my thought life and sexual temptations.

Good luck in finding answers.

Brickbat----I really can't explain how or why the thoughts of having sex with a man came about in 2013. I wasn't watching gay or bisexual porn at the time. The thought of being with a man just popped in my head and several months later I had the opportunity to actually be with a man and decided to see what it was like. He came to my room, we played around playing with each others cocks, I sucked his cock and he then screwed me until he dropped his load. I liked the experience and continued seeing men until my wife found out in 2014. Haven't been with a man since. We are working to make our marriage a straight one.

Your transparency is refreshing.

I hope you find peace on these issues.

All of us men are curious. Most just don't admit it.

Seriously, are there no bisexual truck drivers driving east on Hwy 401 every now and then??