Are you allowed to play

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Are you allowed to play

Postby flyingduck2019 » Mon May 11, 2020 5:22 pm

This is for primarily bi guys, but others may input.
How many of you are allowed to play while married or have a significant other?
Phil, 75, married 54 years, ED started about 9 years ago. After viagra and cialis and pumping have found Trimix. Use 10 units injected with a partial erection. 31g-5/16" or 31g 1/2"needle. 10-1-30 :D :D :D Wife likes it too :D :D :D :D

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Re: Are you allowed to play

Postby dg_moore » Mon May 11, 2020 7:50 pm

Allowed by whom?
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Re: Are you allowed to play

Postby Old Guy » Mon May 11, 2020 9:24 pm

dg_moore wrote:Allowed by whom?


Ditto

I'm not allowed, but I've played some over the years.
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Re: Are you allowed to play

Postby flyingduck2019 » Tue May 12, 2020 8:34 am

I guess I wasn't clear enough----If you are single then the question is moot! If you are married or if you have a significant other/partner, then I would assume that person (wife, significant other, partner or whatever) would either agree or disagree with you seeing another male.

There are couples out there that have open marriages and both are allowed to see others, be they male or female. I know one couple personally who both are Bi and they each see other people of both sexes as well as both of them together seeing a male or female.

Another guy is married to a woman who has no interest in sex because of the change of life. She let's him (he's bi) see either a man or woman twice a month.

These are just examples of what I was trying to say in my post. I'm just curious as to how many have the option.
Phil, 75, married 54 years, ED started about 9 years ago. After viagra and cialis and pumping have found Trimix. Use 10 units injected with a partial erection. 31g-5/16" or 31g 1/2"needle. 10-1-30 :D :D :D Wife likes it too :D :D :D :D

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Re: Are you allowed to play

Postby SteveSW » Tue May 12, 2020 1:18 pm

My partner and I are gay, and have a very open and healthy, happy relationship. We both play with other men, together and separately. For years, we maintained a poly family, until our third relocated out of state for work. As much as we love one another, neither of us could tolerate a monogamous lifestyle. We knew and discussed at length from the very beginning, this was how we both wanted to live.
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