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This is for primarily bi guys, but others may input.
How many of you are allowed to play while married or have a significant other?

Allowed by whom?

dg_moore wrote:Allowed by whom?

Ditto

I'm not allowed, but I've played some over the years.

I guess I wasn't clear enough----If you are single then the question is moot! If you are married or if you have a significant other/partner, then I would assume that person (wife, significant other, partner or whatever) would either agree or disagree with you seeing another male.

There are couples out there that have open marriages and both are allowed to see others, be they male or female. I know one couple personally who both are Bi and they each see other people of both sexes as well as both of them together seeing a male or female.

Another guy is married to a woman who has no interest in sex because of the change of life. She let's him (he's bi) see either a man or woman twice a month.

These are just examples of what I was trying to say in my post. I'm just curious as to how many have the option.

My partner and I are gay, and have a very open and healthy, happy relationship. We both play with other men, together and separately. For years, we maintained a poly family, until our third relocated out of state for work. As much as we love one another, neither of us could tolerate a monogamous lifestyle. We knew and discussed at length from the very beginning, this was how we both wanted to live.