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Hey,

I am saving for an implant, but the other day, when having sex with someone (I take pills which semi work), it occurred to me that the chance of hiding the pump is going to be close to zero!

I think I've been so overwhelmed by the thought of the implant that I haven't fully thought about the negatives. The implant is still for me, but I am thinking that I want to do a show and tell to see exactly how well concealed, or not, the whole thing is.

Anyone in the UK or Ireland willing to help me out with this?

I'm happy to meet a straight guy, but I think it would be more comfortable with another gay guy if possible.

Thanks

Hi,
I also live in the UK, London. I just got an implant a week ago. I am posting my recovery in the Young Members.
I am feeling well and no pain at all. If you wanna chat about this, please feel free to write to me.
Stay in touch,
Bulgeboy

jump.ship wrote:Hey,

I am saving for an implant, but the other day, when having sex with someone (I take pills which semi work), it occurred to me that the chance of hiding the pump is going to be close to zero!

I think I've been so overwhelmed by the thought of the implant that I haven't fully thought about the negatives. The implant is still for me, but I am thinking that I want to do a show and tell to see exactly how well concealed, or not, the whole thing is.

Anyone in the UK or Ireland willing to help me out with this?

I'm happy to meet a straight guy, but I think it would be more comfortable with another gay guy if possible.

Thanks

Welcome to the forum, jump.ship. Thanks for asking for our advice.

I happen to be straight, but believe "gender fluidity" is more than an abstract and one's preference of the gender of one's partner can be a matter of choice or it can be ingrained in you.

My pump bulb is clearly visible if I am wearing form-fitting underwear, but not so much if naked and less so if I have a full growth of pubic hair. If my surgeon had placed the apparatus better, it would be (as many men's pumps are) completely undetectable by sight. There is no way someone fondling your scrotum would not find it, though. One MIGHT mistake the pump bulb for a testicle (though it is much firmer) but the valve body is unmistakably not living tissue.

But your post begs the question, "Why hide it?"

I urge you to consider the attitudes that filled this thread

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=12167

I have had lots of experiences with other men since my implant one year ago. My pump is not readily visible but would be clearly felt if someone is playing with my balls. Even when that happens, I don't usually say anything and whomever i'm with usually doesn't say anything (perhaps he's thinking, :WTF is THAT?) Ive had one guy mention it after the fact (i was fucking him and he felt something banging him). I did fess up at that point. I have found that most guys are just fascinated when I tell them about it. I was open about it at first, but now I don't feel that I have to say anything. I usually hook up with younger guys (bottoms) and they are very pleased at my ability to maintain. I get called "daddy" a lot (lol).

544kenmatt...enjoyed your story and noted how similar it is to mine post-op. Thanks for sharing.