24 and sufferind ED

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24 and sufferind ED

Postby jnaranjo1408 » Sat Jan 12, 2019 5:07 pm

Hi my name is Jose, I will tell you a little about my story so that maybe someone can help me. I will appreciate it a lot.
I broke up with a guy about 6 months ago after a 5 year relationship where I never had problems during sex. However, before this relationship I couldn´t get it hard and now that I am single I can´t either.

My relationship was very chaotic. So, several times I was unfaithful and in those times I recognized a problem. it used to take me a long time masturbation (even my arms hurted for all the movements) in order to achieve a not-enough erection, in other words no penetration. My conclusion was, I couldn´t get an erection with other men but with my ex boyfriend. I didn´t think it was a serious problem until I broke up with him.

Now, I have morning erections but during all the day if I want a full erection I need to masturbate but as soon as my hands stop touching my dick it just falls off in a matter of seconds.

When trying to have sex it is worse There are three scenarios:
a) Sometimes I cannot even get an erection no matter how much and hard I touch myself.
B) Other times I masturbate a lot and although I cannot get a full erection I cum very soon.
C) Even though I can stop the masturbation before reaching the orgasm, penetration is impossible because if I stop grabbing my dick the erection is gone.
I have tried pills but they have worked very few times. I went to an urologist three months ago but he sent me Cialis and pills for anxiety but they didn´t work. Then, I went to a psychologist who advised me to stop watching porn and masturbating, but it has not worked neither.
I am feeling very depressed. I really want to have fun as every man in my age would do but I cannot and that makes me feel miserable. I keep on reading articles and I am frightened that my only solution could be an implant. Someone help me please 
24 years old, single. Erectile Dysfunction. Quito, Ecuador

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Re: 24 and sufferind ED

Postby handfulWES » Tue Jan 15, 2019 12:07 pm

Jose I feel your pain and I am far older than you. I could write you a book on failure but that isn't needed here. I will try to cut thru the chase and give you some helpful tips form a lay person who knows a great deal about medical. No I didn't go to medical school but I have the capability to do almost any thing an RN might do and many doctors. I go to the VA hospital and I am very active in my medical care and it took some time to have just the right doctors but I don't have doctors who are intimidated by my medical knowledge. So lets jump in here.

I learned at 27 that my testosterone level hit a rock bottom of 150mg. Sex was impossible, and everything you described sounds just like me. In addition, I had one prostate infection after another and the amount of antibiotics taken could float the Queen Mary. Once that was fixed many of my problems went away. I had one more step that my doctor recommended as I would still have some problems. See a shrink. I did, and one of the best investments I ever made.

It is true that our brain has a great deal to do with our ability to function sexually. On the other side of the coin there are as many medical factors which will cause equally catastrophic problems. I have vested a great deal of time and there IS NO SUCH THING AS DOING SOMETHING WITH FREE TESTOSTERONE. These people are getting rich off of junk science. Yes, there are herbs that will help the labo and generally makes you more horny which is to make you have an erection which you can't get or can't keep.

The testosterone was a major improvement and counseling helped. From 27 to 42 I still had similar problems that you spoke of and I keep seeking medical help. I read about implants and I found a doctor who would take someone as young as me for a patient. I was 42 and I am now 68 I have had 3 implants all because I wore the first 2 out. I still do the Testosterone and I take 400mg per month in a divided dose every 2 weeks as an injection. The patches and rub on gel do not work for me. My friend uses the gel and it works fine for him. I am very active in bed and out of bed. My partner is somewhat younger than me (by 20 years) and he has trouble keeping up with me in bed. We laugh about it and enjoy life to its fullest.

Let me say one thing on implants. Be careful in what you choose for your implant. My first 2 were good my last one is the fucking bomb. You want an implant that will give you as close to your natural size as possible. Different companies don't all make the best in sizes. One last thing, make sure the doctor you have is down to earth, that he has no problems if you or gay or Bi. I made a great choice with my first doctor who did my 2nd surgery and my last one was also a great choice.

I am new here but if you want more detailed info please make another post or contact me. I have a great deal of knowledge and I want to explore the site. I believe as a lay person and not as an MD I may be able to offer for the millions of men suffering in salience if they will just read. I am told I am a great cook. I tell people if you are able to read, you are able to cook. After you have some experience then you start experimenting to make your own great dishes. For me keyboarding isn't difficult as I keyboard over 90 words per minute (wpm) and don't prefer a program to do it for me.

Jose I trust and pray this may be of some help. I have given you some meat and thought provoking things to think on. I will be the first to say it isn't in your head but I know once you start failing in bed and no morning wood worth a damn and no woodies during the day, despite the eye candy, it is frustration. I can't tell you how many times I masturbated with a soft penis (I like dick better) just to get some relief. In the end, much of it was medical and with just a small amount of counseling I was back in the saddle. It wasn't all perfect but I would say 85% of the time was great and after the implant 100 percent. Keep you chin up life isn't over. ED pills are not always the answer. Have your "T" level checked. I do therapy with guys out of my home. I charge nothing, I like to believe I am changing lives one person at the time.

68, single, have had an implant since I was 42. Goals: to help men with ED; help men over come years of failure; to know their bodies; have a richer fuller sex life whether they or straight, Bi or gay. last I traveled this road starting in the late 60's

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