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jwayfield
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Postby jwayfield » Mon Oct 08, 2018 6:06 am

I'm 37, look younger. My last boyfriend was 21 and I am dying to top. ED has always been a problem, and I've never been able to penetrate a partner. Surgery was 4 days ago and I can't wait for my post op appointment this Thursday. I'm just worried I'll have trouble inflating.

How obvious is the implant?

Do you inflate alone in the bathroom first?

Do you deflate in private or is that easier?
37, single, undiagnosed ED (no physical explanation), AMS 700 LGX- 19 cm tubing, Infrapubic, Dr. Harpster, Harrisburg, Pennsylvania.

Larry10625

Re: Anal

Postby Larry10625 » Mon Oct 08, 2018 8:24 am

jwayfield wrote:I'm 37, look younger. My last boyfriend was 21 and I am dying to top. ED has always been a problem, and I've never been able to penetrate a partner. Surgery was 4 days ago and I can't wait for my post op appointment this Thursday. I'm just worried I'll have trouble inflating.

How obvious is the implant?

Do you inflate alone in the bathroom first?

Do you deflate in private or is that easier?



Good morning; implantees have difficulty this soon finding the deflate button due to swelling, don't be two surprised if you can't deflate right away.

As for obvious... since I am approaching one year implanted, it is so comfortable that unless I am having sexual thoughts, I don't feel it or think about it.

Inflating and deflating takes mere seconds... I usually inflate while my wife is in the bathroom doing her usual bedtime ritual. If she is not in the mood, I leave it inflated and it becomes an extra cycling... my wife has deflated me a couple of times.

Larry

Happy Toy
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Re: Anal

Postby Happy Toy » Mon Oct 08, 2018 9:26 am

Larry10625 wrote:
jwayfield wrote:I'm 37, look younger. My last boyfriend was 21 and I am dying to top. ED has always been a problem, and I've never been able to penetrate a partner. Surgery was 4 days ago and I can't wait for my post op appointment this Thursday. I'm just worried I'll have trouble inflating.

How obvious is the implant?

Do you inflate alone in the bathroom first?

Do you deflate in private or is that easier?



Good morning; implantees have difficulty this soon finding the deflate button due to swelling, don't be two surprised if you can't deflate right away.

As for obvious... since I am approaching one year implanted, it is so comfortable that unless I am having sexual thoughts, I don't feel it or think about it.

Inflating and deflating takes mere seconds... I usually inflate while my wife is in the bathroom doing her usual bedtime ritual. If she is not in the mood, I leave it inflated and it becomes an extra cycling... my wife has deflated me a couple of times.

Larry


Larry, my wife has deflated me many times even before my implant :!: :lol:
Andy
Implanted 6/26/2018, Coloplast Titan 20cm, no RTE'S, infra pubic, Dr. Ree, Kaiser :o 8-) 75yrs., married 52 yrs. ED for over 20 yrs.

Larry10625

Re: Anal

Postby Larry10625 » Mon Oct 08, 2018 9:39 am

andywalther wrote:
Larry10625 wrote:
jwayfield wrote:I'm 37, look younger. My last boyfriend was 21 and I am dying to top. ED has always been a problem, and I've never been able to penetrate a partner. Surgery was 4 days ago and I can't wait for my post op appointment this Thursday. I'm just worried I'll have trouble inflating.

How obvious is the implant?

Do you inflate alone in the bathroom first?

Do you deflate in private or is that easier?



Good morning; implantees have difficulty this soon finding the deflate button due to swelling, don't be two surprised if you can't deflate right away.

As for obvious... since I am approaching one year implanted, it is so comfortable that unless I am having sexual thoughts, I don't feel it or think about it.

Inflating and deflating takes mere seconds... I usually inflate while my wife is in the bathroom doing her usual bedtime ritual. If she is not in the mood, I leave it inflated and it becomes an extra cycling... my wife has deflated me a couple of times.

Larry


Larry, my wife has deflated me many times even before my implant :!: :lol:
Andy



hahahahahahaha :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Larry

Vagabond127
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Joined: Sun Aug 08, 2010 9:37 pm

Re: Anal

Postby Vagabond127 » Wed Dec 19, 2018 9:21 am

Hi there. I am a gay male. Dont come on the gay section a whole lot BUT I may be getting the AMS. I was set on the Titan but now considering an. AMS. Based on your results do you feel your implant is rigid enough for anal penetration? Is it as rigid if not more from your natural erection?

THANKS!
Implanted with Titan 1/15/19 with Dr. Eid.

Larry10625

Re: Anal

Postby Larry10625 » Wed Dec 19, 2018 10:03 am

Vagabond127 wrote:Hi there. I am a gay male. Dont come on the gay section a whole lot BUT I may be getting the AMS. I was set on the Titan but now considering an. AMS. Based on your results do you feel your implant is rigid enough for anal penetration? Is it as rigid if not more from your natural erection?

THANKS!



Yes, the AMS and Titan brands are rigid enough for vaginal and anal penetration. I still think that patients should make sure that their surgeon has all the info he/she needs and let them choose what is best for their patient. I don't think that you need to tell them that you are gay (unless you want to) but tell them that you prefer anal sex. :)

Larry

philly444
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Location: Philadelphia, PA

Re: Anal

Postby philly444 » Wed Dec 19, 2018 11:28 am

I have an AMS and it works great
AMS 700 LGX 18cm, implanted December 16, 2016, University of Pennsylvania, Dr. Wm. Jaffe


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