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I’m 47 years. I have bisexual since I have been 23. Looking at the math now, I have officially been bisexual longer than I was straight. I am not out about it though. I have hid it from 3 long term straight relationships and to my wife. I still have sex with men to this day. I was strict top that converted to vers. Now I only bottom with my ED. At the end of the day it is still disappointing whether I’m with my wife or another male with ED. I need to work on some things before I get a date for an implant.

My first sexual encounter was with 2 guys when I was 12. At 19 I had my first woman. When we split up 2 years later I ended up with a male lover. He would want nothing but to suck me off, no reciprocation. Then one night he wanted to fuck me. I let him but it wasn't pleasant. After that I didn't have any M2M encounters for years. With a dildo one day I fucked myself while masturbating, and had the most wonderful orgasm. That's when I knew I liked getting fucked. It gave me anal orgasms.
Then met a guy online who visited town on business when I was 50 something. We would suck each other off and he would fuck me, but my ED was starting and I never could stay hard enough to fuck him so he quit me. A few years later met a guy who liked to suck me and top me. He had my anal orgasms going strong, almost better than cumming. He wasn't very reliable though and I ended up finding a guy who lived just a few blocks away. We hung together for over a year. He was a good top. We would kiss, suck each other, he would lick and suck my asshole, then fuck me. We started out safe, then one day I told him to start without protection so I could feel his dick in me. Oops, that was too good and he came quick. From then on we did bareback. Unfortunately he had a big mouth and ruined our relationship by telling someone about us, so I quit him.
That's when I had my implant done. When I healed this darn virus was around so the only M2M encounter since then has been one time for a suck job. I do miss getting fucked.

Hehehe...if you were in Maryland, right outside DC...

57 yo, married 25 years. Sexless marriage for the last 16 or so years, just for procreation before that. Both my wife and myself wanted it sexless. I am bisexual but prefer men for sex.

Hi guys, this is an interedting topic. I have personally found that sex with a woman and then with a man is simply totally different. We have all read that no one sucks better than a man, knowing the equipment, what feels good and what to do! I testify that it is true! I have found that the occasional meeting with a guy to jack off and suck (and swallow as the case presents) is a great release and fun and privides an intimacy that is really rewarding. Where else can you experience frottage and docking? My favorite place is Silverdaddies.com. As to being bi, gay, or straight, it makes little difference since what you want is m2m sex! If you find that you also want to experiment further, anal sex is readily available, again at Silverdaddies. You can clearly define your perameters, whether cut or uncut, young, midlle aged or older, married or single, psrtnered or not, clean or hairy, fat or skinny, etc. Life has been more open and fulfilling lately and it elimnates the shoulda, coulda, wouldas! Best of luck. Enjoy!

There are a lot of married bisexuals out there. I have hooked up with a fair number of men both hiding it from their wives and a fair number with understanding wives who supported their husbands going out for M2M sex.

Steve, you are absolutely spot on! I have introduced Silverdaddies to several guys from here and each has had a remarkable experience. Exploring one's sexuality in this age is becoming more and more common and helpful without some of the stigma so long surrounding such a search. I hope you continue as well.

flyingduck2019 wrote:I had my first encounter with another man in 2013 while I was away from home for 4 days. I really liked the experience and continued after returning home. I had an excuse to get out. Eventually, my wife caught me and we almost divorced. I finally admitted I was bisexual. Since then she is very willing to use a dildo on me when I want and she gives me oral when I want. I have a 6 inch dildo that has balls, has 12 different vibration setting and heats up to about 120 degrees. It's rechargable by USB cable. We also have a few other "toys" we use from time to time, depending on our mood.

Best of luck to you and your wife,

The Duck

I started acting on my desires and fantasies in November. I have tried to stretch my butt in an effort to be a top or bottom. I can get a butt plug in but if I try any of the dildos I have here, after jamming lube up my ass with a finger and lubing up the dildo I bleed for up to two days. What is the secret or am I going to be stuck as a top? Please PM me your answers or ideas.

Try buying a butt plug training set of plugs, they increase in size to help expand. Cost starts about $10. on Ebay.

Hounds68 wrote:Steve, you are absolutely spot on! I have introduced Silverdaddies to several guys from here and each has had a remarkable experience. Exploring one's sexuality in this age is becoming more and more common and helpful without some of the stigma so long surrounding such a search. I hope you continue as well.

I've been on Silver Daddies for a few years. Found my top there and one to suck me when I first joined. Now every guy I contact the first thing I get is "Got a picture?" Being married I don't want my dick and ass pictures floating around, sorry.
Unfortunately the top guy had a big mouth and I had to quit seeing him. The suck guy wasn't very good and it was a one time hookup.
I definitely agree with Hounds68 though, male/male sex is way different than male/female sex. I love both.