I am a 42 year old married man who suffers with life-long PE.
I am terribly embarrased about this and desperately need help.
My wife of almost 20 years does not complain. I am able to satisy her with my fingers, etc..., but I know that real intercourse involves thrusting which I am not capable of doing and as a result feel terribly horrible about myself.
This began all the way in the beginning from day one and greatly impacts our relationship because I feel like a nothing. I also tend to avoid intimacy with her since I know I will invariably feel let down afterwards.
Enough!! 20 years is enough!!!! I am now coming out and once and for all, want to heal this illness. I want to be normal and have real intimacy.
Any and all guidance would be greatly appreciated!!
I have the same problem. We bought toys (dildos and the little clit buzzer. When we have sex, I satisfy her first and then me. It's not a perfect solution but it's ok for now.