Life Long PE - PLEASE HELP

One out of Three men in America suffer with PE. It's the largest sexual dysfunction there is. Since there is no discussion board dedicated to PE so far, we will try to fill the need here!
User avatar
Larry10625
Posts: 3254
Joined: Sat Apr 15, 2017 10:56 am
Location: Ontario, CANADA

Re: Life Long PE - PLEASE HELP

Postby Larry10625 » Sat Apr 22, 2017 8:41 am

downindumps wrote:Hi,

I am a 42 year old married man who suffers with life-long PE.

I am terribly embarrased about this and desperately need help.

My wife of almost 20 years does not complain. I am able to satisy her with my fingers, etc..., but I know that real intercourse involves thrusting which I am not capable of doing and as a result feel terribly horrible about myself.

This began all the way in the beginning from day one and greatly impacts our relationship because I feel like a nothing. I also tend to avoid intimacy with her since I know I will invariably feel let down afterwards.

Enough!! 20 years is enough!!!! I am now coming out and once and for all, want to heal this illness. I want to be normal and have real intimacy.

Any and all guidance would be greatly appreciated!!


I have the same problem. We bought toys (dildos and the little clit buzzer. When we have sex, I satisfy her first and then me. It's not a perfect solution but it's ok for now.
51 years old, married 29 years. Implanted Mar 30/17 by Dr. Brock of London, Ont, CANADA. (AMS 700 CX 18 + 2). Had implant removed Apr 29/17 due to Septic Shock. Liposuction By Dr. Gan and re-implant by Dr. Brock (AMS LGX 15 + 2) Dec 14/17.

Axeless
Posts: 5
Joined: Tue Jun 20, 2017 11:34 am
Location: New York
Contact:

Re: Life Long PE - PLEASE HELP

Postby Axeless » Sat Jun 24, 2017 6:49 pm

Having been in this predicament years back, I’ve done some real work, digging deep into different techniques of some guys to prolong their ejaculation.

Keep in mind, the best way to solve a sex issue like a premature ejaculation is combinations of different methods. It is usually a long shot if you just do one or two tips.

So, you’ll learn here what premature ejaculation pills or delay pills to take, applying desensitizing sprays, taking deep breaths, changing positions, and etc. You’ll learn all of these and more in this article ---> HOW TO PROLONG EJACULATION

peter007
Posts: 3
Joined: Sat Apr 15, 2017 9:09 pm

Re: Life Long PE - PLEASE HELP

Postby peter007 » Fri Jul 07, 2017 8:06 am

PE might be of two types. One is psychogenic and other is functional. i think before starting anything one should be very precise about what kind of PE he is suffering from.
TreatmentTherapy

KevinWha
Posts: 7
Joined: Mon Jun 25, 2018 5:50 am

Re: Life Long PE - PLEASE HELP

Postby KevinWha » Tue Jun 26, 2018 8:39 am

Agree with peter007!
There is no identification of your long-term ED. It is hard to consider in that case. It maybe this, for example:http://potencyup.com/what-is-priapism-definition-types-causes-symptoms-diagnosis-and-treatment/.
Or it might be smth else (for instance, caused by your genetics). Or it could be triggered the way you think. In any case I wish you all the best!

Frank Talk Admin
Site Admin
Posts: 457
Joined: Mon May 18, 2009 11:06 am
Location: NYC

Re: Life Long PE - PLEASE HELP

Postby Frank Talk Admin » Thu Jun 28, 2018 12:50 pm

Just had to pop in to give some info. PE is very treatable but you need to find a doctor who will work with you. Ask your doctor about starting with very small doses of Sertraline (Zoloft). This is a good way to stop the death spiral and get on solid ground. Since most guys don't want to be on drugs for life, see a sex therapist to learn ejaculation control techniques. But start with medical help and then add therapeutic help. i recommend a male sex therapist for this.
Paul

User avatar
TheNordic
Posts: 44
Joined: Mon May 25, 2015 1:08 pm
Location: Salem, OR
Contact:

Re: Life Long PE - PLEASE HELP

Postby TheNordic » Sat Jul 07, 2018 9:07 am

downindumps wrote:Hi,

I am a 42 year old married man who suffers with life-long PE.

I am terribly embarrased about this and desperately need help.

My wife of almost 20 years does not complain. I am able to satisy her with my fingers, etc..., but I know that real intercourse involves thrusting which I am not capable of doing and as a result feel terribly horrible about myself.

This began all the way in the beginning from day one and greatly impacts our relationship because I feel like a nothing. I also tend to avoid intimacy with her since I know I will invariably feel let down afterwards.

Enough!! 20 years is enough!!!! I am now coming out and once and for all, want to heal this illness. I want to be normal and have real intimacy.

Any and all guidance would be greatly appreciated!!



Just one comment / suggestion and may not work for you (or may work too good ??). But earlier in life- I was much the same - kinda lame. Fast forward to my 50's ... and since I had mild to moderate ED and I started injections, I can go all night and cum multiple times. In short, I can fuck like a rock star. No kidding. For hours with multiple women. I am in control when I cum and told it was a side benefit of the Trimix. I started using when I went to Universal Men's Clinic (cost through them was quite expensive), but have never looked back .... and it's only gotten better thanks in part to the men here on FT. If anything, occasionally I have to "will" myself to cum. Pills initially had some effect, but nothing like this. Also, pills tend to have more side effects while the injections have none.
60 yrs. Testosterone injections bi-weekly. Use Trimix, Edex or Caverject. (prefer Trimix). Pumping regimen since July 2018. My Trimix prescription is T-50(0.3) / PGE-40(0.15) / LIDO (0.1). (or Papaverine-phentolamine-pge1 22-0.8mg-8 Mcg/ml Inj).


Return to “Premature Ejaculation”

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 1 guest