Has anyone used PROSTRATIC MASSAGE? What did it cost? How long did it take? How did you find a masseuse?

[Lost Sheep]

Seems that this topic would get more attention. I have only played around a little by myself.
I would be too shy to actually make an appointment. I would be too shy to even suggest it to a sexual partner.

Swallow your pride, abandon societally imposed strictures and open up the discussion about the disparate distribution of nerve endings (and accompanying erogenous zones) with your partner in a non-sexualized (but sensualized) setting (e.g. couples massage).

Your partner may surprise you.

There are ways to mitigate the "dirty" aspect of the posterior.

Also, discussing erogenous zones may educate you about how the zones are differently distributed on men and women, to the delight of both your partner and you.

Communication is key.

Caveat: A trusted partner is essential for this approach. Not recommended for one-nighters or brand-new partners unless they are into it.

[LGXDownunder]

Never tried it, and due to prostate cancer/surgery I no longer have a prostate gland or seminal vesicles.
So I can no longer ejaculate either, but I can still orgasm/climax much the same as before.
I don't know how it would work on me with those missing bits and now with an implant installed in there.
After taking a piss I do externally massage along the bulbar urethral area on the underside of the penis, essentially the perineum.
That is mainly to help "milk" any residual urine as I can still occasionally have some RRP related trivial but frustrating dripping if I don't.
When I massage like that it does feel quite pleasant but it's not something I could orgasm from.

[Al1962]

Very helpful response @Lost Sheep.

@LGXDownunder, anything that "feels quite pleasant" sounds worth paying attention to.

[LGXDownunder]

@LGXDownunder, anything that "feels quite pleasant" sounds worth paying attention to.

Thanks Al1962. I'm keeping it in my arsenal .