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who knew it didn't have to be standing at attention?

Postby BillyM » Thu Feb 10, 2011 10:01 pm

Unless I'm unique in the world, which I doubt, I had thought from about age five or so that there wasn't going to be any party unless junior was paying attention. At least that's how it worked until age sixty five when I had my prostate removed along with what I now suspect was both nerve bundles, despite what my doctor claimed.

I have been through the little blue pills and the pump, but junior scoffed at the idea of an erection lasting 4 hours or more (An urban Legend?) and I never could figure out how to make donuts with that tube still attached to junior, which was the ONLY way he was going to stay awake long enough for me to make the wife happy.

Needless to say, I don't really have a problem, but the wife does.

Getting back to junior, I have read a bunch of the posts on the site concerning the only way I've been able to enjoy a walk in the park, but most posts seem to indicate that when they wank (Masturbate is the technical term, but extremely boring and clinical, even since childhood), they have erections.

Maybe I'm dense, but if I had a rod, I don't consider myself having ED, and would put it to better use (At least for the wife).

The question is this: Anybody else out there finding out they can choke the chicken whether or not it's awake or am I making medical (And sexual) history over here?

I also noticed that it ain't exactly sperm I'm decorating the throw rug with, and I'm wondering how many partners out there are bummed out at the idea of becoming a urinal for their husbands?

I'm still debating sticking the little fellow, but frankly, I've become so attached to him over these past 68 years, I haven't gathered the nerve to do it yet.

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Re: who knew it didn't have to be standing at attention?

Postby antelope » Thu Feb 10, 2011 10:20 pm

Evidence is strong that satisfaction can be achieved by wanking even a chubby. Just takes a little practice.

For what it's worth, I've been doing injectinos for 3 months after 3 long years of frustation with pills. My results have been fantastic. From my POV, having wood like I haven't seen since I was 19 is worth whatever ickiness may be associated with plunging needle into Mr Happiness. All I can say is "it's worth a shot".

Born 1948, married 1969. BPH & Type II Diabetes at age 35. TURP-2002; Some ED even before that. Cardiac valve surgery-2007. ED from diabetes. Poor results with pills. Started trimix injections in Nov, 2010. Great results from the very beginning.

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Re: who knew it didn't have to be standing at attention?

Postby rglassva » Fri Feb 11, 2011 8:40 am

BillyM, I've been "walking in the park" for about 30 years without a nice/full erection - so it's definitely possible. Started injections in April of last year - don't be afraid, they're not nearly as bad as you might think - and although I'm still not getting the 'big' results that I want, it has definitely been better - makes for a much nicer 'walk' :D - good luck! Rick
rhabdomyosarcoma - 1975
e.d. since puberty

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Re: who knew it didn't have to be standing at attention?

Postby franglais » Fri Feb 11, 2011 1:21 pm

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Re: who knew it didn't have to be standing at attention?

Postby ohohiakane » Fri Feb 11, 2011 4:46 pm


When I get horny, and wife is not available, stimulation can result in an excellent orgasm
even without the hard c o c k I would need for a good f u c k .
Like you, I also do not ejaculate regular-looking c u m but more of a sticky, semi clear
fluid. When I was recovering from abdominal aorta aneurysm, I was ejaculating blood.
My uro never was able to trace the source, but time finally eliminated that yucky looking

After two years of recovery, and two years of unreliable viagra/levitra/cialis, I had my first
injection of trimix by my uro.... (I asked, “will this hurt?”, he replied, “Its not my penis!”)
I had not seen or felt just a nice hardon for 2 years, what a great invention !!!!

Try it ... you will like it !!!

75 Year Old guy in Michigan, married in 1958, ED since late '90s, then surgery in 2008 (not prostate or other genital) damaged some nerves making the ED worse. Now on trimix

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Re: who knew it didn't have to be standing at attention?

Postby Worried Guy » Sat Feb 19, 2011 7:13 pm

You're not the only one firing blanks from a 10 shot snub nose automatic. I was surprised to find I can orgasm quite nicely without a hint of tumescence, or "wood" in technical terms. Good thing, since I have not seen natural oak since the day before my surgery.

Age 56, Gleason 3+4, BX 7/12 up to 70%, PSA 23 at DX May '09.
RP by DaVinci on July 21, '09 Both nerves gone. Incontinent.
Sling installed 1/2011 Works great. Now to fix ED.

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