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It does take time. My routine was to pump until I felt I could do no more, then wait a couple of minutes, relax, pump again, and repeat until you are satisfied. I find that in the shower is easiest or, after sitting or in a tub (altho i hate tub baths!) and letting the bulb warm up. The bulb responds to the heat and to more and more pressure. Have you had sex, either with your partner or masturbating? This will give you some idea of how much pumping you need. I know we men are fixated on size, but how well you are able to have sex is more important. Remember, this is new for your cock! ED robs us of so much that we become impatient now that we are bionic! Keep sharing! We are here as brothers!

That's my routine, too. Not in the shower of the bathtub... in the pool! The pool this time of year is about 90-92 degrees F. Ugh for swimming, but perfect for a warm soak. Jerking off at 50% hardness is pretty easy, but sex definitely requires a harder tool. I'm not fixated on length (the girth is there), so I'm stymied at a certain point when the bulb just does not respond. More cycling, and then better results, I know. I'm just surprised that I have this much cycling to do to get the results I'm looking for!