I was married twice. Once for 20 years and for 5 years the second time. In my experience at some point usually the woman start controlling sex. Most men lose the battle. If you push too hard they get upset, if you get upset or withdraw you lose respect.
When I lost respect they didn’t want to have sex as often as I did. They didn’t even want me to make them come with oral, toys or intercourse. If you are that stupid that you refuse pleasure from your husband, what can a man do? Orgasm for them is not technique or oenis size, but respect. Once the man loses that it’s over and becomes just a duty.
Now I’m single and learned to pick up girls anywhere any time. I will never move in with anyone or get married. When I’m single, living separately I control the sex. They may get tired of this and quit after a few months, but it’s their loss. I treat them like a queen, but if that’s not enough what else can I do? i will compromise no more. I use Trimix now and some day will get implant im sure. And I won’t stop having sex until I die for sure. We men built this world, we can move mountains and divert rivers. We also have to learn how to get what we want from women.
All the best.
Age 54, Single, Los Angeles. Stage 2 rectal cancer in 2013. Radiation, surgery, chemo. In remission for 5 years. Some ED before cancer, complete since. 2-3 units of Trimix 40/30/2 2-3 times a week since Feb/2017 with great success!