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There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?

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Fisting

Postby ShopMan » Mon Oct 09, 2017 8:18 pm

I have seen some references here and on other sites and wondered if this is something that is prevalent now days or ???
I'm not sure it's something I would ever engage in nor would I ever be able to talk my wife into even trying it.
I would assume they are talking about vaginal fisting.
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Re: Fisting

Postby calixtus » Mon Nov 20, 2017 10:28 pm

I have never heard of mixed couples [m+f] fisting. It is a minority fetish with some gay men. Google "sex fisting porn" and maybe add [male to female] or [male to male] and see for yourself. Squeezing a whole hand up there in a surgical glove does not appeal to me, but some guys love it.
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Re: Fisting

Postby bbb2.5 » Fri Nov 24, 2017 5:57 am

I have experience with M/M fisting. Both in the giving and receiving. Fisting revolves around trust. It is perhaps the most bonding of all sexual practices. The is so much more than shoving a hand up one ass. It is something that take a lot of time stretching ones anal cavity. Once a hand has full entered the butt, it is indescribable. Most definitely a OMG WOW moment.... :o :shock: :D :D :D

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Re: Fisting

Postby Greg1956 » Fri Nov 24, 2017 6:56 am

bbb2.5 wrote:I have experience with M/M fisting. Both in the giving and receiving. Fisting revolves around trust. It is perhaps the most bonding of all sexual practices. The is so much more than shoving a hand up one ass. It is something that take a lot of time stretching ones anal cavity. Once a hand has full entered the butt, it is indescribable. Most definitely a OMG WOW moment.... :o :shock: :D :D :D


bbb2.5,
I am aware of this being a gay culture thing. As a straight guy who has never had more than a doctor's finger up my ass, I can't even comprehend an entire fist penetrating my hole. If you don't mind a personal question, does this practice stretch you out after the activity and cause any long term issues?

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Re: Fisting

Postby Larry10625 » Fri Nov 24, 2017 10:38 am

calixtus wrote:I have never heard of mixed couples [m+f] fisting. It is a minority fetish with some gay men. Google "sex fisting porn" and maybe add [male to female] or [male to male] and see for yourself. Squeezing a whole hand up there in a surgical glove does not appeal to me, but some guys love it.




OW OW OW OW OW OW OW :cry:

I sometimes find stool painful. A fist??? NO WAY!!!

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Re: Fisting

Postby ShopMan » Sat Nov 25, 2017 1:03 am

Larry10625 wrote:
OW OW OW OW OW OW OW :cry:

I sometimes find stool painful. A fist??? NO WAY!!!

Larry


I'm with you Larry. I can't even imagine a fist up there. After posting this I did do a search and discovered that it does happen in a MF relationship. Makes more sense since babies come out of there. Again, I can't even imagine my wife's reaction. I have used three fingers though. :o
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Re: Fisting

Postby Larry10625 » Sat Nov 25, 2017 8:04 am

ShopMan wrote:
Larry10625 wrote:
OW OW OW OW OW OW OW :cry:

I sometimes find stool painful. A fist??? NO WAY!!!

Larry


I'm with you Larry. I can't even imagine a fist up there. After posting this I did do a search and discovered that it does happen in a MF relationship. Makes more sense since babies come out of there. Again, I can't even imagine my wife's reaction. I have used three fingers though. :o




If I did that and ran into poo poo, I would puke...., geez and the smell of your hand yikes
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Re: Fisting

Postby bbb2.5 » Sun Nov 26, 2017 4:43 am

Greg1956 wrote:
bbb2.5 wrote:I have experience with M/M fisting. Both in the giving and receiving. Fisting revolves around trust. It is perhaps the most bonding of all sexual practices. The is so much more than shoving a hand up one ass. It is something that take a lot of time stretching ones anal cavity. Once a hand has full entered the butt, it is indescribable. Most definitely a OMG WOW moment.... :o :shock: :D :D :D


bbb2.5,
I am aware of this being a gay culture thing. As a straight guy who has never had more than a doctor's finger up my ass, I can't even comprehend an entire fist penetrating my hole. If you don't mind a personal question, does this practice stretch you out after the activity and cause any long term issues?

Greg

Greg... There is so much that is involved when it comes to fisting. In all cases the The bottom (receiving the fist) has been playing with toys for a period of time stretching his hole.They also have to do all the prep work. I just cannot decide that moment to allow someone to fist me. It is planned day in advance. Changing up one eating habits. Usually by the day before it's nothing but liquids. Then the cleaning out process begins. Which can take a couple of hours. Guys that are into fisting only play with other guys that know what they are doing. It's a slow going process, the top guy (giver) just does not shove his hand in the ass. It's a slow process, fingering, manipulating and playing with the hole to open up . Usually the bottom is also doing his part in breathing and relaxing his hole in order to be opened up. Then the fun begins. ... :D :D :D :D To answer your question.. the anal cavity is build with muscles, and after a long session usually 2 to 3 hours. Everything will return to normal . I have been into fisting for many years and everything down there still works and I have control of everything. As do most guys.

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Re: Fisting

Postby Greg1956 » Sun Nov 26, 2017 7:05 am

Thanks you for your openness and helping to enlighten me. I love to constantly learn. I am sure I will never try fisting, but I am fascinated by the entire scope of sexuality and the variety of things that turn people on. While I can't fathom fisting being pleasurable for me, I fully appreciate that it can be for you and others. Thanks again for your thorough answer.

Greg
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Re: Fisting

Postby bbb2.5 » Thu Nov 30, 2017 7:44 am

Greg1956 wrote:Thanks you for your openness and helping to enlighten me. I love to constantly learn. I am sure I will never try fisting, but I am fascinated by the entire scope of sexuality and the variety of things that turn people on. While I can't fathom fisting being pleasurable for me, I fully appreciate that it can be for you and others. Thanks again for your thorough answer.

Greg

One thing is for sure ..there is more than one way of enjoying sex and it always does not have include a dick.. :lol:


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