Cigar56 wrote:AnotherOldMan wrote:If you both want sex, or neither wants sex, everything is fine. It's that middle ground where everything goes south.
Very true! My feeling is that she more or less set the time, place and frequency(with few exceptions) when we were "in our prime". If for any reason she wished to shut
it down at this stage then that is what we would do and I would do my best to make it seem like a mutual decision.
Well, I am 61 and my sex drive seems higher than ever. At this point I would not stop having sex if my wife simply decided to quit. If she did that I would exercise my right to masturbate in private, which of course is a form of sex. Whether that would be enough would be something we'd have to determine.
Nothing wrong with sex with someone you love!