Naturism

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?

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Leek65
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Re: Naturism

Postby Leek65 » Sat Nov 10, 2018 4:24 pm

semorglas wrote:Try as I may I am unable to be nude in front of others. I have absolutely no reason to fear being nude. I have no problem with nudity. I was raised in a family that was very liberal & when we camped we bathed together in the rivers. I sleep nude, swim nude and sunbath nude but only in total privacy. I will go to a beach and walk many miles to be alone. If there is an approaching beach vehicle I cover up. The worst part has been my urologist/oncologist visits for prostate cancer. I have walked out of doctor’s offices if there are only female technicians. And even with male doctors it has been humiliating & I barely allow them to poke & prod. How the hell do women do it? Wish I didn’t have this phobia because it has been debilitating at times.

I am a little surprised that as you have gotten older your outlook hasn't changed. I didn't go out for sports in junior high because I would have to get a physical exam and drop my briefs for testicle examination. I was never comfortable in the school shower room or at the Y or in any naked setting around men especially when I realized that flaccid I am on the short side. However by age 50 I just decided "What the hell it is what it is" and lost my inhibition. Now at 68 even a cute female working on my plumbing doesn't faze me or make me blush. My wife is very prudish and would never sleep nude although I do from time to time. I do sleep better with my dick unconfined. :D
Age 68 - AMS LGX 12+2cm. Lost over an inch from pre-ED length but thicker for what it's worth (not much). ED result of heart meds.

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Re: Naturism

Postby rbrown » Mon Nov 19, 2018 9:30 am

Your story fits me exactly!! The only difference is I was embarrassed to be naked growing up--being uncircumcised in the US at the time, the only one around, I was embarrassed. But, when my ED hit, I got used to the same list you did--tests and exams by both genders, and came to enjoy them--and I walk around nude at home, and my wife doesn't. I even have attended a number of events--some all male, some with one female (tantra lessons--wonderful)--that involved being nude, and I loved it!! I do sometimes go to activities you may enjoy--not sure i can name them here. I live nearer New York City than you, and there are some wonderful events that are all nude..
68, married 37 years, tried pills, shots, shock treatment (also diet, exercise, tantra semen retention), now use testosterone gel with great results

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Re: Naturism

Postby David_R » Mon Nov 19, 2018 10:31 pm

Rbrown, I was also one of the very few guys who was not circumcised when I was growing up in the 1950s and '60s, but I never felt embarrassed, nor was I ever teased about it. I gained weight when I started college in the late '60s, which made less of my penis visible on the outside (I am guessing it was kind of "average" in size before I gained that weight). Again, I never felt embarrassed and was never teased about it.

(I have heard horror stories of guys who were teased because of their circumcision status and/or their size, and I feel so very sorry for them and it makes me mad at the persons who did that.) :x
Age 69. Prostatectomy in 2000. My urologist is Dr. Marc Siegelbaum of Univ. of Md. St. Joseph Med. Ctr. in Baltimore suburb of Towson. (LGX, and after regular inflating I regained my original length and girth.)

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Re: Naturism

Postby graymare » Wed Nov 21, 2018 8:06 am

I just returned from a pre-holiday visit to my daughter's home several states away, where I had to wear pajamas to bed because the guest bathroom is down the hallway near my grandchildrens' bedrooms. It was tough reverting back to that constrictive mode. I think my grandkids' future is going to be very unaccepting of naturism. I recently saw an article by a millennial in a big city telling everyone what his version of the new "etiquette" is in public gyms. He basically condemns nudity in the men's locker room, even in the showers. The world is going nuts.
Married, 65 yrs old, ED for 21 yrs. On TriMix for 4 yrs. Live in the Adirondacks of NY. Would be a nudist if it weren't for the black flies and the short summers. :D

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Re: Naturism

Postby Larry10625 » Wed Nov 21, 2018 11:07 am

graymare wrote:I just returned from a pre-holiday visit to my daughter's home several states away, where I had to wear pajamas to bed because the guest bathroom is down the hallway near my grandchildrens' bedrooms. It was tough reverting back to that constrictive mode. I think my grandkids' future is going to be very unaccepting of naturism. I recently saw an article by a millennial in a big city telling everyone what his version of the new "etiquette" is in public gyms. He basically condemns nudity in the men's locker room, even in the showers. The world is going nuts.



Yup, agreed. How do you wash your nuts and sphincter wearing clothes. When I visit places where I have to be concerned about my kids seeing my bare ass, I sleep naked but if I get up to go to the bathroom or get a drink, I slip on PJ's and take them off when I return. :)

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51 years old, married 29 years. Implanted Mar 30/17 by Dr. Brock of London, Ont, CANADA. (AMS 700 CX 18 + 2). Had implant removed Apr 29/17 due to Septic Shock. Liposuction By Dr. Gan and re-implant by Dr. Brock (AMS LGX 15 + 2) Dec 14/17.

graymare
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Re: Naturism

Postby graymare » Wed Nov 21, 2018 11:45 am

You must be better at going back to sleep than I am. That much activity would wake me up for good. :D
Married, 65 yrs old, ED for 21 yrs. On TriMix for 4 yrs. Live in the Adirondacks of NY. Would be a nudist if it weren't for the black flies and the short summers. :D

bldoink
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Re: Naturism

Postby bldoink » Wed Nov 21, 2018 12:05 pm

House or bath robes!
R.R.P 2011 Mayo Jacksonville by Dr. Michael Wehle. Nerve sparing but damaged. V.E.D, Viagra and Alprostadil manually injected. Originally Edex20. Switched to Alprostadil from compounding pharmacy - cost. Injecting 5-6 yrs. It works. Treasure coast of FL.

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Re: Naturism

Postby WyoMan » Wed Nov 21, 2018 1:15 pm

Hi guys,
This is an interesting line of comments. Having grown up in a family of six sisters and four brothers, you might guess we were kind of open. But we weren't. The most we might see was a sister in a slip.
Growing up in the 50's, while others remember being naked in swimming pools or otherwise, there was none of that in my schools. So I was really quite conscious of being clothed. I could go without a shirt, but didn't much because of insects. (I remember nightmares of coming home from school on the school bus without shoes)!
But after several instances with female nurses and doctors, I have been getting used to that and feel it's no big thing. That got me to questioning whether naturism is really immoral. I have actually changed my mind about that.
But with my upbringing, I doubt I would ever go to a place to be nude. If I happen to get caught that would be no big deal. But very unlikely. And my wife would never be with me.
75; married 52 years; HBP well controlled, overweight. Prostate Arterial Embolization Jan 2017: No indication of cancer. Injections failed. Implanted Nov. 2, 2018. Dr. Karin Dolan, Billings, Mt. AMS LGX 15 cm+2 2.5 cm RTE. 65 ml reservoir.

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Re: Naturism

Postby stubby » Wed Nov 21, 2018 1:58 pm

As the name implies "stubby" being nude in a group setting would be an awesome challenge. But I think it would total liberating to try it. To stant total nude and not be ashamed of my body would be a life long dream.

graymare
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Re: Naturism

Postby graymare » Wed Nov 21, 2018 2:06 pm

Don't give up on that dream Stubby. You'll probably find that most of us are stubby's too.
Married, 65 yrs old, ED for 21 yrs. On TriMix for 4 yrs. Live in the Adirondacks of NY. Would be a nudist if it weren't for the black flies and the short summers. :D


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