CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
dg_moore
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Re: CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

Postby dg_moore » Tue Jun 30, 2020 3:27 pm

Not that I'd try, but I'm sure my wife couldn't be persuaded even with an AR-15.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
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Re: CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

Postby Lost Sheep » Tue Jun 30, 2020 5:35 pm

dg_moore wrote:Not that I'd try, but I'm sure my wife couldn't be persuaded even with an AR-15.

Have you tried 7 & 7? :lol:

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Re: CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

Postby dg_moore » Tue Jun 30, 2020 5:43 pm

Lost Sheep wrote:
dg_moore wrote:Not that I'd try, but I'm sure my wife couldn't be persuaded even with an AR-15.

Have you tried 7 & 7? :lol:

(Seagrams 7 and 7-Up)


My wife enjoys maybe a half glass of wine once every month or two. I have never seen her partake of any kind of whiskey. So the 7&7 approach would be a non-starter. Another part of the equation would be that I never had the faintest interest in anything of the anal variety.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
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Re: CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

Postby brickbat » Wed Jul 01, 2020 5:06 pm

Hounds68 wrote:BB, you flatter me to think I have posted on any website, but, I will be happy to tell my experience and techniques, if there are any. You need to set aside a really cool place, away from outside noises, maybe with some calming ocean sounds playing. Get totally comfortable in where ever you plan to use the Aneros. Then, you insert it as you have in the past, NOT TOUCHING YOUR COCK even tho you want to. The Aneros is designed to move as you move, the sphincter muscles, the lower part of your body, hips and butt. Slowly, slowly. Stop, breathe, start again. Forget the quick cum. This is about an hour or more. The prostate is awakening and as you massage it, it is ready to respond. Slowly, don't take it in and out, keep it there, if necessary, get up, walk, and then relax, let it work. You are like too many who want to get it over with. Stop thinking that way. Keep your hands away from the boy. Play with your balls, your nipples, your underarms, your face, ears, where ever you feel tingly. I'm telling you, it will happen if you don't rush. And, the first orgasm is not the best. Don't think it us over. Count them. Set a record, a goal, say 5 the first time. Then, when you think you are done, go again. If you don't cum like normally, remember all the precum you have dribbled out onto your vcock and onto your balls. Keep going. It us irrelevant how old you are, but being mature, you understand what I mean when I say, go slowly, move the muscles, let the Aneros go in and out. Think of being given a prostate massage by the person your love the most, or by yourself. Enjoy. Cum. Relax. Fantasize. Let me know.


Thanks for your details on how you got the aneros to work for you. I will take your advice and devote some time to my sexual happiness and rehabilitation. The device is reported to help E D tremendously as well as turning a man into a glowing orgasmic machine.

Two more questions. Are you able to come with dry Os and Super Os while having sex with your wife or is your time with the aneros solo only. (2) Have you read keepitujohnson's book LOVE SATISFIES where he teaches men to dry O, MMO, and have total body Os through edging? For me, I can have dry Os and MMOs edging. I have had two total body Os using the book's methods. But I am convinced after 10 years on the aneros website, that men who master the aneros have orgasms way beyond what I have experienced edging and they have greater and more orgasmic effects lingering in their bodies after aneros orgasmic experiences. So I am now again pursuing relaxing and mastering the aneros for the greater effects flowing from aneros mastery.

Thanks for taking time to help me, Hound. I will keep you posted.
74 years young GYMRAT. Married 48 years. On cialis 5mg daily. Into MMOs, prostate orgasms, and ruined orgasms to help erectile health. Thinking of an implant. Monogamy is good for a man.

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Re: CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

Postby Hounds68 » Wed Jul 01, 2020 5:30 pm

BB,

I begin by saying that I gave not read the book, but may just pick it up or find it on Nook!
As for Orgasms, let me say that despite the fact that they are dry, for the most part, except some fluid from the Cowpers Gland, my Os are far more intense than ever before. I think because an orgasm often takes longer with an implant and the stimulation and intensity is, in my humble opinion, linked directly to that. It is explosive. There are times my wife prefers to use my Fleshlight to finish me off! I think she gets a but raw and needs a breather.
I have had sex many times with the Aneros inserted, but that was years ago when my prostate was alive and well. I absolutely suggest you try this. It will not go flying out. It will be in there, doing its magic, while you plunge away. Great and very different vaginal sex! Now you bring me to my favorite sexual activity, whether solo or with my wife: edging. I prefer when she does it, watching my body, knowing when to stop, when to continue and, when I have climaxed NOT TO SYTOP but to keep it going despite my cries to stop which I really don't want her to do. So now, when you put them both together, what do we have? The Fourth of July in your bedroom or on the kitchen table! Prostate massage, edging, by the one you love! I know you will let me know! PLEASE!

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Re: CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

Postby brickbat » Wed Jul 01, 2020 6:36 pm

Hound.

You are one super sexed hound/horn dog. Way to go bro. I am a little green here on this end.

You can get a preview online of keepitupjohnson's book just by googling LOVE SATISFIES. He has ( or at least he did have a website.) It is also available at Amazon. It is a pamphlet, soft cover book, easy to read with cartoonish drawings humorously done. I hope you enjoy it.

I will probably have to retire to get where you are with the aneros. But I intend to do it. It is the fountain of youth for all men as I understand from their reports of prostate rewiring. There are some horror stories of Kundalani or whatever the tantric word is for igniting the whole body in tantric pleasure. Few men have experienced that and I sure don't want to, but I am after the benefits of the rewiring in my aging male body.

I WILL keep you posted. Thanks for being so open with what you have achieved.

Final Comment/Question: How long did it take you to have your first good orgasmic experience with the aneros after you initially began working with it?
74 years young GYMRAT. Married 48 years. On cialis 5mg daily. Into MMOs, prostate orgasms, and ruined orgasms to help erectile health. Thinking of an implant. Monogamy is good for a man.

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Re: CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

Postby Hounds68 » Tue Jul 07, 2020 6:41 pm

BB, even tho I may have answered this already, and since you have asked it you have had an Aneros O, it was about a month to a month and a half before the damned thing gave me what I paid for! Probably an hour a day, maybe more, lying watching TV, but it came like a thief in the night! I also suggested in another PM or chat, that the Aneros is designed so that you can get up in the morning, shit, shower and shave, and insert the puppy and get dressed and while in the grocery store, waiting in line to check out, you can move your sphincter and cheeks and then try not to scream out in joy! Wait until you get in the car! Seriously, going about your daily routine with Mr A up your ass is thrilling! Dont worry about getting a Mr Stiffy! The good thing is that it also trains you to not touch your cock nor to stroke nor do anything except let your prostate feel the gentle presence of the Aneros probing and delighting. Sound good?

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Re: CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

Postby Hounds68 » Wed Jul 08, 2020 11:17 am

Hello again, I will share a story of a chat today with a 54 year old man, straight guy, has had prostate massage professionally done, but not for some time, until we started chatting. I provided much of what I have shared here and because he was in a quiet place, he could follow along. We spent about 1 hour 20 minutes. He sat at the edge of his chair and slowly inserted his finger, lubed with spit and found his prostate, and over the course of the next hour and 20, he tickled, massaged, pressed and worked his prostste. He had lots of precum, which he subsequently used for lube. He did not touch his cock, which he said was harder than ever! He stood up, then lay back on his back, legs spread apart, hard cock pointing up and still he fingered his ass and prostate. Then he came, loads, spilling his semen on his hairy legs and stomach. He did stroke the last few minutes, but mostly it was hands free cumming. He felt the urge to piss, which is so normal and a sign he was doing it correctly. He remembered the urologist doing an exam and the professional massage. He loved it. He truly experienced a great orgasm. I hope that what he said was true. If not, at least the process is clear. Relax, probe, tickle, press, and keep your hands away from the cock. Precum and explosive cum, and a great O.

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Re: CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

Postby brickbat » Wed Jul 08, 2020 12:20 pm

Thanks for this account, Hound.

On the aneros website, Rumel references several sites which refer to prostate massage and cumming, such as milking a bull, toys to massage the prostate, etc.

For myself, ruined orgasms which do not invoke the refractory period release semen from my prostate. I do this fairly regularly to clean the pipes and keep my prostate healthy.

Funny thing is, in straight masturbation, I can release little semen at my age, but with meditative edging and ruined orgasms, semen production is like it was as a young man.

Your account of this guy is one that I will put on the books for retirement when I have time and privacy in my man cave.

Again, thanks for this challenging and invigorating account of exceptional solo pleasure.
74 years young GYMRAT. Married 48 years. On cialis 5mg daily. Into MMOs, prostate orgasms, and ruined orgasms to help erectile health. Thinking of an implant. Monogamy is good for a man.

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Re: CONVINCE WIFE ABOUT ANAL STIMULATION

Postby GoodWood » Mon Aug 17, 2020 2:10 pm

I would give up on trying to convince anyone and just slip an aneros inside and get to making love to your wife. She wouldn’t be worrying about you being gay (whatever that means) when you are inside her.
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