Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby Minnscooter » Sat Dec 31, 2016 9:41 am

when I first got ED like everyone I panicked....I'd get hard but would go soft before either of us finished. I tried pills but they didn't work but by then I found out I could easily masturbate to orgasm..usually started out with 2 fingers but it would get chubby enough that I could finish with whole hand. I went to Trimix that worked really well for 4 years ...alas, by then wife was post menopausal and wanted nothing to do with intercourse so I take nothing and just masturbate soft....like someone said ...I do get morning erections from time to time that does wonders for my male ego
72 MM married 48 years, live in Minnesota type 2 diabetes caused ed in my 40's went on trimix with great results but when wife had menopause sex got less and less so just wasn't cost effective so no sex since 2002.

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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby Donnie1954 » Mon Jan 02, 2017 6:02 pm

Before my implant, I used my VED and pumped up to masturbate, but not hard enough for penetration. :cry: Now my implant keeps me stiff enough to 'beat off' anytime! 8-)
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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby Eveready » Tue Jun 13, 2017 8:35 pm

Post-RP I learned that it is possible to achieve orgasm by stroking the strange small limp thing hanging off the front of my body. It flopped around uselessly, but at first I was simply pleased to have the sensation confirmed. As the weeks went by, the paltry evidence in my hands intruded more and more, giving absolute proof of the impossibility of fulfilling my lurid fantasies. Dirty girls laugh cruelly at little boys - even dirty girls of the imagination.
A pump did help: gave me something to work with, even if I wasn't able to keep the mighty sword inflated for very long. It was generally long enough, though sometimes it was a dispiriting race to achieve orgasm while I remained sufficiently hard to manipulate.
Now - some months later - recent implant surgery offers new hope. We shall see.
Reflecting on my pre-bionic state, I think that the most helpful thing I learned was to be patient. When I felt a bit horny, I could go ahead and stroke it (boys, do I need to warn against doing this on public transport?). But when that became a chore or negativity intruded, I learned to leave it and come back later, sometimes more than once: the climax was still awaiting. And sometimes it was a small one, sometimes a big one.
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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby Ponder » Fri Sep 20, 2019 11:23 pm

I have always enjoy masturbating soft. I think there is more nerve stimulation, less wear, and better control for edging. I would think those with ED will be perfect to try it.

The main idea is not to allow blood to enter the penis while stimulating. For this I would make a full 180 twist at the base of the penis. One hand maintain the twist and the other would cup the head and roll up and down.

The twist pressing fluid into the outer section and balloon it up. This way you have something to work upon. For me over time, blood would seep in s I have to wait a few minutes and start over.

Also the idea of not ejaculating to maintain erection. Not all sex session need to end up into big climax, but small climax.

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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby Jagtstein » Mon Dec 14, 2020 9:14 am

At 75 years old, I need more stimulation to have an orgasm. I am currently masturbating through my prostate with a 10mm, 25cm rib dilator. Very pleasant. I get a maximum of 13mm sound. My meatus is stretched to 17mm. :)
Masturbation is better than sex. :)

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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby WyoMan » Tue Dec 15, 2020 9:51 am

I guess that I doubt your getting the dilator into your prostate. Twenty five cm is 10 inches which is a little bit longer than most penises.
A catheter for men is 16 inches long, and is inserted about 14 inches before any urine is produced. Since the normal prostate is the size of a walnut, and is up close to the bladder, there has to be some of the urethera (sp) between the end of the penis and the prostate. I'm not a doctor so I may be wrong.
But I'm sure your getting sensations from the procedure.
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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby Jagtstein » Thu Mar 11, 2021 9:29 am

A Hegar dilator is 19 cm long and the prostate constriction begins at 17 cm. I can easily insert the 19 cm. Then I'm through the prostate. Only then does the kink to the bubble begin. To be on the safe side, you can hold the penis down, then the dilator can easily go in completely. I do this with a 13mm diameter. But this takes practice. Above all, you should sterilize the stick with alcohol or similar and use Xylocaine Gel 2% as a lubricant. With the dilator in place, there is no point in moving the sound. The exerted stretch is enough to stretch the urethra in the long term. Of course, you can move the dilator for fun. But the duration of the introduction and the frequency are decisive for the stretching. :D
Masturbation is better than sex. :)

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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby Jagtstein » Thu Mar 11, 2021 9:32 am

Trigger ejaculation with the help of a medicine!
I got Sildenafil AbZ 50 mg on prescription. After taking the medicine, an erection is possible after about 1 hour with appropriate sexual stimulation. After masturbation and ejaculation, which I can then trigger, which is my goal, the erection subsides again. :D


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Masturbation is better than sex. :)

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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby NevadaEd » Mon Apr 05, 2021 9:50 pm

It seems everyone is farley normal, but here is what's works for me. Wearing tight briefs or panties to hold your self in place stroke your self vigerously, also, surprisently if you tuck your self down and rub at the top (bace of your penis, like where a clit would be an orgasm may occur. Just saying.
66yo ED started 05 oral meds worked fine 2012 PR severe ED since A little success w/ BI & Tri mix. Went bionic 2/17/22 infrapubic AMS LGX Dr. Blick

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Re: Masturbating/Getting Off With a Flaccid Dick

Postby bldoink » Tue Apr 06, 2021 11:02 pm

Well they do say the brain is the biggest sex organ, or something like that. If wearing panties and imagining you have a clit is what gets you off, well there ya go... Not much else to say on that one.
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