goodwoodnow wrote:So, I agree with everyone who has replied. Masturbating is good, and done right, slowly savoring every sensation, taking as much time to gradually increase the arousal, it's wonderful. a spectacular way for us older guys to "stay in the game", our systems charged.
But.... it seems that too many still need to almost "make excuses" for masturbating, mostly on the idea that we men have more sexual needs than our wives and that we need to do it to relieve sexual tension. I do agree that it is a way to have sex with another person...yourself.
I no longer get many spontaneous erections that need to be "relieved". But I love the sensation of getting erections even if now I am so far from "horny" that I need to inject medication to get that feeling I crave....call it "horny" That it has to be induced like that takes nothing away from the pleasure masturbating gives me. No excuses. I love how it feels to make love to myself. My wife understands and often participates or just watches, which I especially enjoy.
I agree with you 100%. It feels good just to stroke my dick when I control all the action.