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I have some questions for those that might know or have experience

How is the energy or dynamic in a MMF sexual encounter? As a man, does the presence of another man help arouse or excite you?

Also are there females just into masturbating along with a man or watching him masturbate his penis?
Some of you are partnered or married and maybe can shed some insight on how women think. I don't know much about women. Please share

PSSDorAmINormal wrote:I have some questions for those that might know or have experience

How is the energy or dynamic in a MMF sexual encounter? As a man, does the presence of another man help arouse or excite you?

Also are there females just into masturbating along with a man or watching him masturbate his penis?
Some of you are partnered or married and maybe can shed some insight on how women think. I don't know much about women. Please share

MMF sexual encounters are fairly rare. I dont know that I know anyone that has done them. Yes they maybe fairly popular in porn. But most porn is designed to turn you on and get you off. And many of the popular subjects in porn are fantasies. Most fantasies (both men and women)are things they would never do in real life. Or things they wish they could but for whatever reason cant.

Regarding MMF on Reddit, I've read several post mostly from females asking how to prepare for such encounters. Even in those posts where they've done threesomes, its almost, yes I've done it, but rarely works out or was quite disappointing. Mostly because of trust issues between partners. It makes for interesting fantasies. Why? likely because its a bit forbidden or most people arent given the opportunity.

As far as masturbation, You asked in another post about men masturbating. It pretty much universal practice among men and women. 90% will admit to it the other 10% of (men and women) are liars.
As far as doing Jack and Jill (sex). Why would you want to do that in a relationship rather than if regular sex unless normal PIV sex was not possible?
Not sure those of us that are partnered or married would have any greater understanding of these types of things.

The fact is when it comes to sexuality of men and women there are very few absolutes.

sogwap wrote:MMF sexual encounters are fairly rare. I dont know that I know anyone that has done them. Yes they maybe fairly popular in porn. But most porn is designed to turn you on and get you off. And many of the popular subjects in porn are fantasies. Most fantasies (both men and women)are things they would never do in real life. Or things they wish they could but for whatever reason cant.

As far as doing Jack and Jill (sex). Why would you want to do that in a relationship rather than if regular sex unless normal PIV sex was not possible?
Not sure those of us that are partnered or married would have any greater understanding of these types of things.

The fact is when it comes to sexuality of men and women there are very few absolutes.

Thanks for the response. I ask about MMF situation partly because I was snooping around discord and was basically invited to get together with a young guy and his wife. It seemed like he wanted me to do more with the wife rather than himself. I wasn't interested at all, and the whole idea is far beyond anything I have ever really thought about. In this day and age, the whole scenario was a bit creepy and in my mind I was thinking stranger danger. Overall I would guess threesomes are probably like you said rare.

I wondered about Jack & Jill as you put it, because I was wondering if women think like men, and just like to rub one out but maybe not be in a relationship. These days you have all these sites dedicated to web cam; sites like bateworld, buddybate, jackinchat, chaturbate and list can go on and on. Just wondered if women are really into it like some guys claim to be.

I wouldn't be so quick to consider mmf so rare. There are, across the U.S. locally promoted hotel take overs dedicated to alternate lifestyles as well as cruises and resorts across the world. Some folks take fantasies to the next level and decide to live them out.

PSSDorAmINormal wrote:I wondered about Jack & Jill as you put it, because I was wondering if women think like men, and just like to rub one out but maybe not be in a relationship. These days you have all these sites dedicated to web cam; sites like bateworld, buddybate, jackinchat, chaturbate and list can go on and on. Just wondered if women are really into it like some guys claim to be.

Here I think you are talking about two different things.

First men and women getting together for sex, Is generally referred to as FWB, Friends with Benefits. In most cases the women want sex as much as the men.

My ex wife (who for years never wanted sex) was convinced her friends husbands want sex much more than the wife. So I ended up in a sexless marriage.

I was a part of several Sexless marriage (online groups). I've found it was often if not more, that the women were complaining more about the lack of sex in their relationships.
When I first was a part of the sexless marriage group, I believed that the entire group was men and men that pretended to be women. I could not believe women would be complaining about the lack of sex in a relationship. The more I read the more I realized. Women want a fulfilling sex life often as much or more than men.
The point being when it comes to sex, men and women are often more alike than different in what they want.

Long long ago I did a MMF sexual romp. Wasn't fun, got blamed later by the F for starting it, as much as she was the one who came out of the bathroom in a sexy little nightie while my friend was there.
As far a Jack & Jill, as a married man I'll admit we did it a few times when my ED was bad. Sometimes we'd help each other too. When we were first married, she would run kids to/from school while I worked. She once admitted to me that most days she would go to the bedroom and masturbate. I don't think she has masturbated in years now. I still masturbate occasionally when I get horny, mostly using some toy. The wife knows.

I've looked through several "hook up" websites just for giggles and there are a lot of couples looking for another male to join them. I've also noticed that a very large number of white couples are looking for BBC. Looks like a lot of white guys like being cuckolds.

PSSDorAmINormal wrote:How is the energy or dynamic in a MMF sexual encounter?

Absolutely electric. Addictive. Would not even attempt to begin to explain it in a short or relatively short post (which I mostly continually prove myself incapable of anyway). It's obviously extremely individual, and most certainly not for everyone, very likely it's not for the overwhelming majority of couples. But for the right reasons, with the right people, with the right guardrails around the thing, the resulting brain chemistry and experiences are without comparison. We dabble, with moderation, and it has been remarkable for us both.

This is absolutely not for people "working on" their relationship. If you are those people, do not fuck around with any threesomes, including MMF. This is for couples who are rock solid already and who are energized and rewarded by blowing off the endorphins together.