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Pau1, Agfa is giving you some excellent advice, take it! If want to satisfy your wife, without having to have strangers do it for you, then you need to take out a loan, or do whatever, and get the implant. These 'fill-ins' would never happen (if it were my marriage), that would be the deal breaker for sure! That said, it's not my marriage, and I'm not going to cast any stones your way. I wish you the best, but seriously these surrogates need to stop! It was 3 years before, now it's every 3 months, think about it!

I agree yet disagree with all that say don't. There is a lot of good advice. I say if it works for you and her then so be it . I agree that it could be risky and you need to all you can, which sounds like you are, to solve your issues to where you don't need another. But I disagree with those same responders too. If the shoe was on the other foot and it was their wife, partner, wouldn't, couldn't, or was not interested in sex, and yet they were, would they just sit back and say OK I don't either then? Probably not. Tension would start to build up in their marriage too. And the longer it goes on that way the more it builds up, I Know
So in my opinion, which it and $3 you can get a cup of Starbuck, if both of you can live with your solution then so be it. And hopefully you can get fixed and put all of this behind you and go on with your marriage. Best of luck no matter which way it goes.

I have my op booked end of feb. Have read all the advice on here and looking forward to it but also scared as shit.

Bringing in another can be dangerous to a couple that communicates poorly. With or without an implant.

Pau1pau1 wrote:No I wouldn’t be interested in having any type of sex with another.
This would be just for my wife until I had the implant.
Don’t want a regular thing either , just maybe on a vacation , that sounds ok.
Anyone done this? Or am I mad for thinking it.
Don’t want to ruin my marriage but know my wife is missing intercourse.

You are asking for big trouble IMO. Don't do it bro.

Bottom line: NO, don't!

MyJohnson wrote:Bottom line: NO, don't!

Hey buddy-Too late. That's an old post he had already had his wife with other guys several times.

I get the sentiment, cannot disagree.

Randy

Flounder wrote:I don't pass judgement either but this is just an observation. Did you ever notice that many stories about swinging, wife sharing and cuckold start with; “my ex-wife……..”!

hahaha ! yeah good point . well to late ,she banged a couple of guys and now it wont stop .regardless of a implant or not , she just wont mention it .

I'm curious to see where this marriage is now