Bringing in another

There is more to sex than an erect penis. How do you maintain your sexuality both for yourself and for your partner? What techniques do you use to give both of you a great, satisfying sex life? How do you explore your own body and sexuality now that the rules have changed?
phillysub1
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby phillysub1 » Fri Oct 08, 2021 2:03 pm

I don't pass judgement.

If this satisfied both of you, then congrats!
If this was truly just an itch to scratch (1 time thing), then congrats!

If the wife abandons you or insists on more sessions (without your ok), then bummer!

I hope the best for both of you!

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Re: Bringing in another

Postby Flounder » Fri Oct 08, 2021 3:03 pm

I don't pass judgement either but this is just an observation. Did you ever notice that many stories about swinging, wife sharing and cuckold start with; “my ex-wife……..”!
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Martin6469
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby Martin6469 » Sat Oct 09, 2021 8:51 pm

Have to disagree with 68CatFan and abhishek26. Congratulations Pau1pau1! In my experience, the itch must be scratched.

When I'm out of gas, I'll give her the green light.
Age 78 in 2023. On testosterone replacement due to hypothalamus malfunction. (Attention depressed guys: low testosterone is a cause.) Healthy health nut but ED due to getting old. Like to keep enough cardiovascular ability to thrust for 30 min.

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Re: Bringing in another

Postby dg_moore » Sun Oct 10, 2021 6:05 am

Martin6469 wrote:When I'm out of gas, I'll give her the green light.

My wife ran out of gas before I did. She was not bothered at all when I ran out.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
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niarceel
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby niarceel » Sun Oct 24, 2021 2:23 pm

Pua1Pau1,

Don't you and your wife do this to your marriage, not if you truly love each other. I experimented with an open marriage in my first marriage and it was exciting, and terrible. I don't think that marriage ever recovered from it.

I am sympathetic to spouses who need and want sex, and are having trouble getting what they need from the other. That being said, if you are taking steps to get an implant, I encourage you to ask your spouse to be patient a little longer. I now have an implant and it is better than my birth penis. My wife and I love it. We literally copulate for hours.

In the meantime, do your best to satisfy your wife. My wife loves penetration but her clitoris craves orgasms. I was having a lot of problems with penetration before I got an implant. I developed a way to almost completely satisfy my wife orally.

Most men lick their wife's clitoris. I tried that. It felt good to my wife but it was not enough to climax, so I developed a gentle sucking technique that my wife, to this day, can't get enough of. I gently suck on her clitoris (primarily), her vaginal lips, and her entire vaginal entrance, all the while caressing all of those parts with my tongue. I repeat this at whatever pace, and in whatever variation, my wife is in the mood for. It's a repetitive action that I keep up until my wife either says "stop" (because she is not ready to climax yet) or she climaxes. She has "Oh God" climaxes with this technique, the best climaxes she has ever had.

Now, I have a penile implant and our love life is wonderful, better than it's ever been in 30 years, and we are in our 70s. I can satisfy my wife anyway she wants. She still loves penetration, but also really loves my oral technique, and I still use it to bring her to a climax every time she wants it that way.

We use an alternating Fuck and Suck pattern. 5-10 minutes of sucking, 3-5 minutes of fucking (until my arms get tired), then I go down on her again. We repeat this Suck and Fuck pattern over and over again, sometimes for over an hour, which drives my wife insane with lust. My wife loves to get right to the edge of a climax, and then have me fuck her. Then she wants more sucking. This behavior is now a major portion of our love life. We both love it.

I look forward to going down on her. I can't complain because I love her and I really love giving her pleasure and sexually exciting her, so this has been a big win for both of us.

Maybe you can try or improve your oral sex techniques on her and satisfy her until you get an implant. It's worth a try. And if you haven't tried penile injections with doctor prescribed TriMix, you should. That drug gave me the biggest, hardest, last-for-hours erections I've ever had, before I got an implant. I could cut glass with my penis on that stuff. But you'll eventually need to have an implant.

I wish you both the best.

P.S. One more thing: PT141. This "drug" is an amino acid compound that is the world's only, true aphrodisiac. It has been FDA approved in the United States. We discovered it by accident searching the internet, and it has become a regular part of our love life. My wife and I both inject it just under the skin, twice a week. It makes my penis swell and get dark red, just the way I like it, even with an implant, and it does something similar to my wife's clitoris and G-spot. The effects last for many hours and it has made sex red hot for us. We fuck like bunnies.

Somehow, PT141 targets the erectile tissue in the human body (penis, clitoris, G-spot). It produces amazing sexual reactions in both men and women. It commonly produces multiple glass-cutter erections in men over a several hour period. And my wife is a self-described "nympho" on it. Give it a try. Your wife will thank you for it, if you can satisfy her.
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Health is very good. ED began from venous leakage (2003).
Used Cialis (2003-2017), penile injections (2018-2019), 4 implants (2020-2021), now have an AMS 700 installed.
Hobbies: Only one, my wife.

Pau1pau1
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby Pau1pau1 » Sun Oct 24, 2021 7:24 pm

Hi Thanks for the advice , I will give it a try .
It’s not been mentioned since we came back but her mood is a lot happier .
I paid to go see a private consultant and he’s now put me on the nhs waiting list . Approx 6 months , so this is really good news .
If I have to let her reapeat the senario in a few months time I would be open to it because we are both happy at the moment . If she has to be penetrated every 3 months or so, then so be it.
I think this time I would watch though. She said she would like me in the room the first time but I declined.
I think once I’m implanted we will return to normal , at least that’s my hope and we had a very good sex life before Ed .
I did try pills and injs but all stopped working eventually .

flynfshr
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby flynfshr » Tue Nov 09, 2021 9:30 pm

Have you considered using a "strap-on"? I've heard several guys say they used them. I'd love to try one, but my wife would send me to Africa if I as much as mentioned it!

Pau1pau1
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby Pau1pau1 » Sun Jan 16, 2022 4:06 am

Well it happened again . I noticed her mood changing and her becoming snappy again.
I outright asked her during some dildo play did she need to do it again, she just nodded and sighed.
Last week we went to Cardiff went for a meal and stayed at a hotel frequented by visiting football supporters . After the game they tend to congregate around the bar .
Long story short we got talking to a young half caste guy and after an hour when I was at the toilet she asked him if he was interested.
She winked at me when I came back and told me to get us another drink while they disappeared in the lift.
I queued up at the bar and starting talking to another bloke about the game for prob 20 mins.
I then got in the lift with th drinks and started walking down the hall, I could hear my wife 20 ft from the door. Very hard to explain the feelings, one of stomach turning jealousy but also a huge sexual thrill.
I went in and he was on top really ramming her , not making love .
This continued for about 5 more mins. Eventually they both came then here’s the wired bit.
He turned around and started chatting to me about my Ed !!
Got dressed shakes my hand and wished me luck with the operation.
Anyway we have returned home and same as before it’s not been mentioned and she’s happy as Larry .
Covid has extended nhs waiting times so I guess this will be repeated at least one more time.

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Re: Bringing in another

Postby Agfa13 » Sun Jan 16, 2022 12:11 pm

Aren't you guys being a little selfish?
Relationships are complicated, made esp. more so because of his condition, yet you continue to make YOUR call.
Also, you can unsubscribe from this link (the wrench up top and unsubscribe) and move on, yet, you continue to read because you are a member and get notified. Interesting.

Take the loan out, get a top rated surgeon, ask around, ask questions. We are here to help, good luck.
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Pau1pau1
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Re: Bringing in another

Postby Pau1pau1 » Sun Jan 16, 2022 12:38 pm

I’m not a cuck and only doing this do my marriage doesn’t crumble , who in there right mind would want there wife to get it elsewhere.
You don’t know my life or wife so don’t judge!!
I’m on a very long waiting list made worst by Covid ,
How ever I will do what it takes to keep my wife, she has really looked after me .
If I can actually find out how long the dam list is then I can make a decision as to weather to get a loan.
One member has privately messaged me and said he only waited 6 wks. That gives me hope
Hopefully when I do have it done we will just put this behind us.
If not we break up.
Once again don’t judge!!


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